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re: Are modern fathers spending too much time with their kids?

Posted on 1/29/20 at 4:49 am to
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 4:49 am to
Don’t forget abandoning the Gold standard. Wasn’t that Nixon though?
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 5:33 am to
No.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 5:40 am to
Wife works in big 4 and her hours are stout......especially now. I run a consulting firms regional operations, so my schedule is very flexible.

It’s about need, but I will look back and cherish every moment and meal I prepared for our chimps.

My kids are not “cool” kids. They’re Boy Scouts, dorks, academics.....good people. I feel that I have been able to actively support my wife’s guidance on steering a course to be kind, smart kids.

Nope. Not spending too much time.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 5:41 am to
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o it’s the feminization if the school system in general, zero tolerance policies on fighting that lead to rule following kids never fighting and getting picked on instead and learning to not stand up for themselves but rather tattle telling, and the movement that feelings are more important than facts.



Stop being a bully!!
Posted by YouAre8Up
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 6:45 am to
Was travel ball time included in this study?
Posted by Bestbank Tiger
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 6:47 am to
4 bans
Posted by deltaland
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:05 am to
I think it’s a good thing. How “manly” your son becomes just depends on what you spend time doing. Take him hunting and fishing, throw a baseball, etc
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:07 am to
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Dual incomes ruined this country.
fact. everyone got greedy.



More than that. We also sold our manufacturing base out to foreign nations and the whole everyone deserves to go to college scam has made it almost impossible for average Joe to make a middle class living with low debt on a high school diploma.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:16 am to
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In 2016, fathers reported spending an average of eight hours a week on child care

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By comparison, mothers spent an average of about 14 hours a week on child care


I ran the numbers. That’s 24 hours per week on child care. That’s just a weekend for my wife and I. WTF are these parents doing with their kids during the week?
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 7:25 am
Posted by prplhze2000
Parts Unknown
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:28 am to
Where did you get the chart? Good one
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:35 am to
Look at the crime rates as a percentage of population from 1950 through today and tell me what you think then.

Look at the crime rate percentages in families without a stable present father figure and those with to see if that puts it in focus.

BTW, I 'm part of a single earner household and hug my kids even now (my youngest is 19). I did occasionally change diapers. If you're bad at it, your wife will typically relieve you of those duties permanently.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:41 am to
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WTF are these parents doing with their kids during the week?


Fortnight and youtube
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:45 am to
Prisons are full of men and women raised by single moms and broken homes.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61236 posts
Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:46 am to
Things aren’t so black and white. Most kids still grow up with their dad around.

Is it really too much to ask if dads spending 3x more time w/ kids may not be ideal? Frankly, I should be praised for asking these difficult questions.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:48 am to
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Is it really too much to ask if dads spending 3x more time w/ kids may not be ideal? Frankly, I should be praised for asking these difficult questions.


except you site a stat from fathers from the 1980s not helping

wouldn't those kids be the "pussification of the western male" you claim is so prevalent today?

also, do you blame your Dad for you being a pussy?
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:49 am to
I was raised by my dad who was and still is a wonderful father. His proudest moment was when I told him I’m starting to close in on 10,000 posts on TD. But seriously, I was the type of kid that definitely could have gone the wrong direction, very easily, but all his kids have turned out to be good people.

He worked a lot also but spent good time with us. I work a lot and sometimes get too pissed at my boys more often then I should but I love playing and spending time with them. My daughters I don’t think I’ve even even raised my voice at them. Probably not fair but they never tore shite up in the house either, or got in trouble at school. One big thing I do is limit screen time with boys and make them either play outside or play with regular toys as much as possible, for the most part they prefer that anyways. I’m not always out there with them but I do like to go out there a lot and do whatever, ball, hide and seek, squirrel hunt, etc

ETA: Don’t blame my bad posting history on my dad
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 7:53 am
Posted by bayoudude
Member since Dec 2007
25923 posts
Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:49 am to
Only if the father is a pussy soy boy. Nothing but good can come from the little ones spending time in the woods and learning from a real man.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:50 am to
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WTF are these parents doing with their kids during the week?

sharing the kids Adderall and playing COD zombies mode on PS4
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:52 am to
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spending time in the woods
so only woodsmen and hunters are the 'real' men?
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 7:52 am to
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Yes. It makes the new generations soft.


That’s dumb and not the case.

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Also the fact that many people don't beat their kids anymore further contributes to the softness plaguing this once great country.


Also dumb, sure kids need a spanking from time to time but only as a disciplinarian tool, not to “toughen them up.”
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