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Are modern fathers spending too much time with their kids?

Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:34 pm
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:34 pm
First, we aren't talking about fatherless homes and all of that mess.

Is the increase in fathers taking more active, feminine roles (as opposed to the 1950s dad w/ his head buried in the newspaper who doesn't hug his kids trope) over the past few decades responsible for the softening, or pussification, of the western male?

I'm just asking questions.

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Dads are much more involved in child care than they were 50 years ago.
In 2016, fathers reported spending an average of eight hours a week on child care – about triple the time they provided in 1965. And fathers put in about 10 hours a week on household chores in 2016, up from four hours in 1965. By comparison, mothers spent an average of about 14 hours a week on child care and 18 hours a week on housework in 2016.


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PARENTS these days spend a lot more time with their offspring, or at least middle-class parents do. One analysis of 11 rich countries estimates that the average mother spent 54 minutes a day caring for children in 1965 but 104 minutes in 2012. Men do less than women, but far more than men in the past: their child-caring time has jumped from 16 minutes a day to 59.




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Modern dads take parenting seriously, spending three times as much time with their children as men did two generations ago, and they're doing a lot more during that time.

Back in 1982, a whopping 43% of fathers admitted they'd never changed a diaper. Today, that number is down to about 3%, and that's great, because research indicates that when dads dress, diaper and bathe their babies, the father-child relationship grows stronger as the child grows.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:35 pm to
well thats the opposite of whats wrong with the world.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:36 pm to
Oh boy. Here we go.
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:37 pm to
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Back in 1982, a whopping 43% of fathers admitted they'd never changed a diaper.

My dad had 3 kids born a bit before 1982 and told me he's never changed a diaper in his life
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:37 pm to
The biggest pussies I know run away if kids are even mentioned. Being a father is the most manly thing I have ever done with my life.
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:37 pm to
French and Slovenes don't give a frick
Posted by LSUEnvy
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:38 pm to
Weird to think fathers spending too much time
Posted by MightyYat
StB Garden District
Member since Jan 2009
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:39 pm to
You can never spend too much time with your kid unless you’re passing on your giant piece of shite douche bag personality. Then go drink your soy latte or organic ipa with your other douche bag friends.
Posted by BigPerm30
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:40 pm to
Dual incomes ruined this country. Life is meant to have a provider and nurturer. If you have two providers the kids are missing out.
Posted by MrJimBeam
Member since Apr 2009
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:40 pm to
I'd like to see a more in depth chart on the demographics of this...
Posted by red sox fan 13
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Member since Aug 2018
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:40 pm to
Yes. It makes the new generations soft.
Also the fact that many people don't beat their kids anymore further contributes to the softness plaguing this once great country.
This post was edited on 1/28/20 at 9:43 pm
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
33283 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:41 pm to
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In 2016, fathers reported spending an average of eight hours a week on child care

Well shite, I’m POSITIVE I spend more time than that on my child.

I hope this thread isn’t serious, us wanting to be around our kids is bad now? What a joke
Posted by fallguy_1978
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Member since Feb 2018
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:41 pm to
I think this says more about the pussification of the modern man rather than the time spent with their children.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61221 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:44 pm to
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Dual incomes ruined this country.
fact. everyone got greedy.
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
33283 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:44 pm to
quote:

Dual incomes ruined this country. Life is meant to have a provider and nurturer. If you have two providers the kids are missing out.


:ritflmao:

“Life is meant to have a provider and a nurturer”....

What a dumb statement, by “life” you mean your life experiences. For most of human history both parents have been expected to nurture and provide. Hell for most of human history whole families full of generations lived together and provided/nurtured as a unit.

Should we all go move in with our cousins and in laws?
Posted by fr33manator
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Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:45 pm to
Man, I wish I could get back the times I missed in my kids lives

In Pictures-Alabama
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
41605 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:46 pm to
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If you have two providers the kids are missing out.


Stop being lazy and do both.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
61221 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:46 pm to
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I think this says more about the pussification of the modern man rather than the time spent with their children.

what caused men to become so pussified since ww2? it couldn't possibly have anything to do with fathers doing way more motherly/feminine things around the house?
Posted by MrJimBeam
Member since Apr 2009
13095 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:47 pm to
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Stop being lazy and do both.



THANK YOU

Lazy fricks up in here
Posted by JohnnyKilroy
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Member since Oct 2012
41605 posts
Posted on 1/28/20 at 9:48 pm to
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fact. everyone got greedy


It’ll work out for me and my wife when we retire before 55
This post was edited on 1/28/20 at 9:49 pm
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