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re: Are modern fathers spending too much time with their kids?

Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:35 am to
Posted by Geauxboy
NW Arkansas
Member since Oct 2006
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:35 am to
I mean, if they are carrying them around in papooses and not teaching them things a father should be teaching, then maybe its not a good thing.
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:43 am to
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I mean, if they are carrying them around in papooses and not teaching them things a father should be teaching, then maybe its not a good thing.



I’m not seeing how a dad who carries his kids around in a papoose is more likely to fail to impart fatherly wisdom than the dad who spends that same amount of time at the office or in his man cave because he can’t be bothered with childcare.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:46 am to
Because the man carrying around his kid in a papoose is much more likely to raise a wimp? I think that’s what people have been insinuating but just too reticent to speak it maybe.
Posted by X123F45
Member since Apr 2015
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:48 am to
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My dad had 3 kids born a bit before 1982 and told me he's never changed a diaper in his life



Paw paw had five kids, 20 grand kids, never held a baby under 1 until I was born

Posted by Harry Caray
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:50 am to
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Because the man carrying around his kid in a papoose is much more likely to raise a wimp? I think that’s what people have been insinuating but just too reticent to speak it maybe.

bro maybe some guys just want two free hands
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:51 am to
I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all
Posted by Harry Caray
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:55 am to
And I think white collars on colored shirts look dumb but that doesn't stop the wearers from being successful.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:56 am to
Ok Lumberg
Posted by GetCocky11
Calgary, AB
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:57 am to
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And I think white collars on colored shirts look dumb


Posted by LNCHBOX
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:57 am to
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all

Why? It's the easiest way to carry around a new born and still get shite done, and they seem to be more comfortable for the baby.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:57 am to
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all


as a Dad that has carried both his kids in one of those baby Bjorne things, I can assure you we know how dumb it looks

Here is the thing though...we don’t care

Posted by Harry Caray
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:58 am to
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Here is the thing though...we don’t care

The most manly trait of them all
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:58 am to
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Here is the thing though...we don’t care


yeah, you only get one bite off the apple of being a father, and there ain't no handbook
Posted by StupidBinder
Jawja
Member since Oct 2017
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:59 am to
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all



And I’m just saying that any dad who cares more about how they appear to randoms on the street than he does about caring for his kids in an effective manner is a shitty human being.

If wearing your kid helps you function more efficiently (It does), why do you care? I just don’t understand why people insist that other people do things the hard way because they believe it “looks better”. It’s absurd.
Posted by Harry Caray
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:00 am to
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I just don’t understand why people insist that other people do things the hard way because they believe it “looks better”. It’s absurd.
The vain notion of "being manly"
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
112165 posts
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:09 am to
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but apparently being secure and not giving a shite is no longer "manly"
Bruh, holding the kid in a carrier makes you able to do "manly shite"

At Mardi Gras for example, I had two options

A. Hold the baby/let the baby crawl around for 2-4 hours meaning I couldnt enjoy myself as much due to having to constantly be alert etc

B. Put the baby in a carrier(my wife cant do it becuase she isnt strong enough. Being an acutal fricking man with muscles allows me to do it)and drink manly fricking beer and enjoy myself because I have both hands free and dont have to worry about the baby crawling into the street and getting hit by a tractor
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 11:10 am
Posted by Harry Caray
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Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:10 am to
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B. Put the baby in a carrier(my wife cant do it becuase she isnt strong enough. Being an acutal fricking man with muscles allows me to do it)and drink manly fricking beer and enjoy myself because I have both hands free and dont have to worry about the baby crawling into the street and getting hit by a tractor

lol look at this pussy caring about his baby
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
112165 posts
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:13 am to
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb.
It looks smarter to intentionally make life more difficult on yourself?


My dad is 6"3" 250lbs of red headed Brusly bruising, miller lite drinking, testosterone pissing man


And when he first saw my brother in law rocking the baby carrier while drinking a beer, he said :

"frick, I wish we had that"


Thats a mans response. Wishing he had something that made life easier, not being a little bitch worried about how shite looks
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 11:22 am
Posted by DavidTheGnome
Monroe
Member since Apr 2015
31570 posts
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:19 am to
I spend a ton of time with my kids and wouldn’t change that for anything in the world. I can’t imagine dads that don’t like to.
Posted by JumpingTheShark
America
Member since Nov 2012
24850 posts
Posted on 1/29/20 at 1:09 pm to
As soon as I became a dad it boggled my mind how anyone could intentionally avoid caring for their child. Takes a special soullessness to be that big of a piece of shite. Deadbeat dads of all races are not shamed enough, but especially ones in the African American community. It’s exponentially a higher problem there than any other race. I don’t know why.
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 1:13 pm
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