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re: Are modern fathers spending too much time with their kids?
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:35 am to GreatLakesTiger24
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:35 am to GreatLakesTiger24
I mean, if they are carrying them around in papooses and not teaching them things a father should be teaching, then maybe its not a good thing.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:43 am to Geauxboy
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I mean, if they are carrying them around in papooses and not teaching them things a father should be teaching, then maybe its not a good thing.
I’m not seeing how a dad who carries his kids around in a papoose is more likely to fail to impart fatherly wisdom than the dad who spends that same amount of time at the office or in his man cave because he can’t be bothered with childcare.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:46 am to StupidBinder
Because the man carrying around his kid in a papoose is much more likely to raise a wimp? I think that’s what people have been insinuating but just too reticent to speak it maybe.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:48 am to fallguy_1978
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My dad had 3 kids born a bit before 1982 and told me he's never changed a diaper in his life
Paw paw had five kids, 20 grand kids, never held a baby under 1 until I was born
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:50 am to Oilfieldbiology
quote:bro maybe some guys just want two free hands
Because the man carrying around his kid in a papoose is much more likely to raise a wimp? I think that’s what people have been insinuating but just too reticent to speak it maybe.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:51 am to Harry Caray
I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:55 am to Oilfieldbiology
And I think white collars on colored shirts look dumb but that doesn't stop the wearers from being successful.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:57 am to Harry Caray
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And I think white collars on colored shirts look dumb

Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:57 am to Oilfieldbiology
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all
Why? It's the easiest way to carry around a new born and still get shite done, and they seem to be more comfortable for the baby.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:57 am to Oilfieldbiology
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all
as a Dad that has carried both his kids in one of those baby Bjorne things, I can assure you we know how dumb it looks
Here is the thing though...we don’t care
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:58 am to Salmon
quote:The most manly trait of them all
Here is the thing though...we don’t care
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:58 am to Salmon
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Here is the thing though...we don’t care
yeah, you only get one bite off the apple of being a father, and there ain't no handbook
Posted on 1/29/20 at 10:59 am to Oilfieldbiology
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I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb. That’s all
And I’m just saying that any dad who cares more about how they appear to randoms on the street than he does about caring for his kids in an effective manner is a shitty human being.
If wearing your kid helps you function more efficiently (It does), why do you care? I just don’t understand why people insist that other people do things the hard way because they believe it “looks better”. It’s absurd.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:00 am to StupidBinder
quote:The vain notion of "being manly"
I just don’t understand why people insist that other people do things the hard way because they believe it “looks better”. It’s absurd.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:09 am to Salmon
quote:Bruh, holding the kid in a carrier makes you able to do "manly shite"
but apparently being secure and not giving a shite is no longer "manly"
At Mardi Gras for example, I had two options
A. Hold the baby/let the baby crawl around for 2-4 hours meaning I couldnt enjoy myself as much due to having to constantly be alert etc
B. Put the baby in a carrier(my wife cant do it becuase she isnt strong enough. Being an acutal fricking man with muscles allows me to do it)and drink manly fricking beer and enjoy myself because I have both hands free and dont have to worry about the baby crawling into the street and getting hit by a tractor
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 11:10 am
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:10 am to lsupride87
quote:lol look at this pussy caring about his baby
B. Put the baby in a carrier(my wife cant do it becuase she isnt strong enough. Being an acutal fricking man with muscles allows me to do it)and drink manly fricking beer and enjoy myself because I have both hands free and dont have to worry about the baby crawling into the street and getting hit by a tractor
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:13 am to Oilfieldbiology
quote:It looks smarter to intentionally make life more difficult on yourself?
I’m just saying a dad with a baby Bjorne or a papoose looks dumb.
My dad is 6"3" 250lbs of red headed Brusly bruising, miller lite drinking, testosterone pissing man
And when he first saw my brother in law rocking the baby carrier while drinking a beer, he said :
"frick, I wish we had that"
Thats a mans response. Wishing he had something that made life easier, not being a little bitch worried about how shite looks
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 11:22 am
Posted on 1/29/20 at 11:19 am to GreatLakesTiger24
I spend a ton of time with my kids and wouldn’t change that for anything in the world. I can’t imagine dads that don’t like to.
Posted on 1/29/20 at 1:09 pm to DavidTheGnome
As soon as I became a dad it boggled my mind how anyone could intentionally avoid caring for their child. Takes a special soullessness to be that big of a piece of shite. Deadbeat dads of all races are not shamed enough, but especially ones in the African American community. It’s exponentially a higher problem there than any other race. I don’t know why.
This post was edited on 1/29/20 at 1:13 pm
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