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re: Majority of single women are having trouble finding a partner who fits their standard

Posted on 3/23/25 at 12:41 pm to
Posted by TheOcean
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 12:41 pm to
OT male simps about to come in here and call all of us incels because we think that most single women in the US are batshit crazy
Posted by WestCoastAg
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 12:48 pm to
So he wanted to her to quit and stay at home even though she made 50% more? Thats.....an interesting choice
Posted by dupergreenie
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 12:54 pm to
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Expecting to find someone perfect is asinine. Someone who appears perfect already is usually hiding something.


100%. Find someone who is perfect for you not perfect. Hard to explain but thought my exwife was that. Problem was she wasn't just perfect for me but also kinda in general. Should have pinged a red flag but it didn't.
Posted by Hetfield
Dallas
Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 12:58 pm to
The trifecta of Social Media, Dating Apps, & Covid/George Floyd government psy-op has destroyed a generation of women. The average woman wants absolutely nothing to do with the average man. They are all fighting for the same top 10% of men & will not accept anything less. The top 10% of men are getting 90% of the women & having a great time doing it. Men today are risking giving up 50% of their net worth if their wife just decides she is unhappy & thinks she can do better. This isn't going to end well.
Posted by Duckhammer_77
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:04 pm to
just a guess...but the board games were there for the girls to play as well...as an ice breaker.
Posted by Will Cover
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:11 pm to
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Social media has inflated women’s’ standards so fricking high that they have ballooned into the unreasonable. And they will take to social media to bitch about it, which will only make the disconnect even worse.


I noticed something yesterday while waiting in a parking lot for my guest to arrive. There was a mother and daughter in their car, taking constant selfies. To me, it seemed less about capturing a genuine moment and more about curating an image—likely for social media, to project this illusion of a picture-perfect life. I’m all for people celebrating their lives, but it does make me think about how much of this is driven by societal pressure to appear ‘perfect’ rather than being present and authentic.

Moments like these make me realize how hard it can be to find real connections these days, especially as someone who’s single. A lot of people seem stuck behind walls they’ve built because of things they’ve been through, and it makes them afraid to open up.

I try to treat everyone with respect and kindness, but sometimes it feels like those barriers aren't about me at all—they’re about the past they've been carrying.

It just makes me wonder, how do we move past that and really connect with people in a way that feels honest?
Posted by kywildcatfanone
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:14 pm to
In fairness today's men are mostly women
Posted by dat yat
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:18 pm to
Warren Buffet says the secret to a long happy marriage is finding a spouse with low expectations...a lotta people should follow his advice.

I wish I had cause Lord knows I need a woman with low standards.
Posted by Dadren
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:21 pm to
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So he wanted to her to quit and stay at home even though she made 50% more? Thats.....an interesting choice

That math clearly makes no sense but I get where he’s coming from.

As men, we’ve been conditioned for generations to think that provision is primarily our role. In this guy’s situation, the ideal is in opposition to reality and that can be tough to just get over.
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:24 pm to
Most of them have the bare minimum at 6 foot and 6 figure salary. That’s going to knock out 95%+ of the population. This isn’t a men problem. It’s a delusion problem

Delusion Calculator

Not taking into account race, marriage status, and weight, if a woman is just looking for a man that makes 6 figures and is 6 feet tall, she has a 2.5% chance to find that. If you take away married men then it goes down to .86%
This post was edited on 3/23/25 at 1:30 pm
Posted by The Shaqtus
Member since Jun 2015
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:29 pm to
The new age women who put off relationships for their career or to "find themselves" are realizing they're too late to the party. Shocker.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:30 pm to
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, & Covid/George Floyd government psy-op has destroyed a generation of women. The average


Wait what?

I'm not arguing with your general premise but this sounds pretty insane
Posted by Cycledude
Member since Jul 2018
1973 posts
Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:31 pm to
It’s the same for men really. 90% of us guys want the top 10% of women.,of course most of us guys prioritize looks over everything, whereas women look more at financial security. In my experience, eventually we all lower our expectations to someone who more matches us.
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:32 pm to
The problem is too many women have nothing to offer outside of sex. Just read that one excerpt, she thinks of companionship like a business transaction. Just someone to split the bills and do housework so she can live a stress free life and pursue her career.

They aren’t looking for a soulmate where you love and respect another and share a vision of a family and future and life journey together.

And all of them are a 5-6 in the looks department, they will only go downhill with age, and have nothing to offer except their pussy. They are miserable personalities and they have extremely high standards where the man must be tall, fit, 6 figure salary, and willing to do whatever she asks of him.
Posted by Mid Iowa Tiger
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:38 pm to
My girlfriend disagrees.
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:39 pm to
I don't think it's males who are to blame. It's women's inability to hold both themselves and other women accountable.

Women won't be honest with their 250 lb friend with a mustache and fivehead who wants a 10 male who makes 6 figures and is 6-4". They just tell them they're a queen and any man should be lucky to have them.

Every woman thinks they're at minimum a 7 and they just aren't. (Both in physical appearance and personality)
This post was edited on 3/23/25 at 1:41 pm
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
34097 posts
Posted on 3/23/25 at 1:45 pm to
Men can be much more selective as they age and become successful.

Women can be that way when they're younger and more attractive, but as they age and have kids, get divorced, etc., most men aren't going to take on the challenge of raising someone else's kids.

Nobody's beating this nut's door down, other than a FWB situation.
And those never last long...
Posted by done dancing
South Louisiana
Member since Apr 2016
191 posts
Posted on 3/23/25 at 2:03 pm to
Many people, male and female, carry baggage that sabotages their relationships. The kicker is when they tell you how flawed you're thinking is only to come to you later to be bailed out when their actions failed. I've learned that you can hand a good life to a partner on a silver platter and they end up having to pawn the silver platter after they bankrupted the good life. My current is the last. Maybe we both have more patience later in life.
Posted by High C
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Member since Nov 2012
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Posted on 3/23/25 at 2:09 pm to
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To me, it seemed less about capturing a genuine moment and more about curating an image—likely for social media, to project this illusion of a picture-perfect life.


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Posted by Cuz413
Member since Nov 2007
9111 posts
Posted on 3/23/25 at 2:11 pm to
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I don't think it's males who are to blame. It's women's inability to hold both themselves and other women accountable.

Women won't be honest with their 250 lb friend with a mustache and fivehead who wants a 10 male who makes 6 figures and is 6-4". They just tell them they're a queen and any man should be lucky to have them.

Every woman thinks they're at minimum a 7 and they just aren't. (Both in physical appearance and personality)


I think you're closer than he was for the reasoning.

This divergence in young men and women is happening across the globe in first world societies, not jus the US
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