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re: Anybody else’s mother-in-law hoarding the day?

Posted on 5/10/26 at 1:37 pm to
Posted by BOSCEAUX
Where the Down Boys go.
Member since Mar 2008
52411 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 1:37 pm to
I worked the past two nights and my son worked this weekend also so we boiled crawfish last weekend and had my daughter, son and DiL over. Brought my wife home flowers this morning and my nephew took my sister and my mom out to lunch today. As far as I know everyone is happy
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
29614 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 1:42 pm to
You should PIIGB

Put It In Granny’s Butt
Posted by Dixie2023
Member since Mar 2023
5242 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 1:52 pm to
Smart. You win in the long run. Happy Mother’s Day to you.
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
139452 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 1:53 pm to
Divorce the MIL if she's that selfish
Posted by Banned
Member since Feb 2026
331 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 1:55 pm to
Ill share this.... Brought my Grandmother (who raised me) who is 86 years old, a stuffed animal, it was a Fox. You would had thought I had handed her a million dollars.

She acted the same with the stuffed Labrador I gave her for Christmas, which sits at her side on the bed ( she's bed ridden)

Her and my grandfather used to raise beagles back in the day.

Old school little things....to a certain generation sometimes mean more than you would know.

Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers who happen to frequent this board.

Also hug them and don't take them granted.... Mothers, grandmothers , who ever raised you. One day you won't be able to.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56262 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 2:12 pm to
Thank you!

Whoever said the demanding one gets only what they demand and nothing extra nailed it.

I get all the extra
Posted by Ostrich
Alexandria, VA
Member since Nov 2011
10340 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 2:14 pm to
quote:

Maybe she’s coming to terms with her eminent mortality, and she only has a certain number of years left with them?



It's this. Same deal during the holidays
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
35330 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 2:41 pm to
quote:

A lot of wives would have ditched you with the kids to spend the day with mom.


We are an absurd culture.
Posted by cubsfinger
On The Road
Member since Mar 2017
1882 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 2:50 pm to
Cliffs please, I’ll pass the notes along.
Posted by UFFan
Planet earth, Milky Way Galaxy
Member since Aug 2016
3069 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 3:50 pm to
Nope.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
74878 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 4:01 pm to
quote:

My wife has a sister and my mother-in-law
Gonna need several pics of each party to know where fall out on this issue.
Posted by 3D
NJ
Member since Sep 2013
1389 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 6:19 pm to
Wife's family is here celebrating MIL. Each one has to raise their voice over one another so they are the one heard while speaking... In a few hours, I will go into the kitchen and clean up all their full sodas, beverages & plates they leave around any surface they can find.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13821 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 6:33 pm to
quote:

Wife's family is here celebrating MIL. Each one has to raise their voice over one another so they are the one heard while speaking... In a few hours, I will go into the kitchen and clean up all their full sodas, beverages & plates they leave around any surface they can find.


Most actual mother's days aren't about pampering..its about tolerating.

I actually got lucky in the MIL dept...luckier than my wife did. But her mom an old country lady who has dined at maybe a half dozen resturants in her life always wants the whole family to go out to eat on mother's day, and always some shitty chain resturant...

Its 2 or so hours of explaining the menu...sending the waitress away cause they haven't decided then when everyone is at their wits end and antsy as hell...lets see a dessert menu...add to this we have a 3 year old who was saying he wanted to go home half way in.
This post was edited on 5/10/26 at 7:56 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
16141 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 6:36 pm to
quote:

Divorce the MIL if she's that selfish

The problem isn't the MIL, it's the wife that can't draw boundaries.
Posted by Benne Wafer
Member since Jan 2015
467 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 8:36 pm to
Once grandkids enter the picture, the mothers actively mothering day to day takes precedence on Mother's Day. MIL had her years, time to pass the baton and celebrate another day.

I have two girls and if they bless me with grandkids, I'm going to step back and let them shine on their day.
Posted by craynagin
North Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
521 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 9:34 pm to
Had lunch at my stepdaughter's house with her mom - my wife - along with her dad and his wife, and several shared adult grandkids.

Worked out pretty well from what I can tell.

Would have to presume this is the exception, not the rule.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108344 posts
Posted on 5/11/26 at 7:02 am to
Literally facebook, thank you.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
150371 posts
Posted on 5/11/26 at 7:39 am to
quote:

Had lunch at my stepdaughter's house with her mom - my wife - along with her dad and his wife,
which one got their head stuck in the dryer first?
Posted by Alt26
Member since Mar 2010
35650 posts
Posted on 5/11/26 at 7:48 am to
Fortunately, my MIL lives out of town. So there is little controversy on that end. As to my mom, I set parameters pretty early on after having kids. My kids (her grandchildren) spend the day with their mom (my wife), doing what my wife wants to do. I go visit my mom for lunch. If my wife and kids want to come along, great! If not, no problem. I let my wife decide what she wants to do. Luckily, my wife is not high maintenance on the specialized holidays front (Mother's Day and Valentines Day). She doesn't want a big fuss, and actually means it. This year my kids got her gifts and put the laundry away. She was happy
Posted by ChatGPT of LA
Member since Mar 2023
6342 posts
Posted on 5/11/26 at 7:50 am to
Who cares? FFS, just let the old lady live a little.
Let your stupid ho wait her turn instead of watching her cry about how she misses her mom.

The holiday shouldn't really matter to the youth. Just do breakfast w your kids and skank, then go about your day.
Geez
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