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When you own family deceives you.

Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:02 pm
Posted by WWII Collector
Member since Oct 2018
9101 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:02 pm
When you own family deceives you for years for their own personal gain.

What a kick in the gut.

Long story short. Had 2 acres promised me all my life.. Spent lots of money on the surrounding acres we own around it. Cleaning it up, mulching. Building a pond.

So a step sister can come put a house right there and enjoy a beautiful pond and clean land all around...

Long since past family members never put things in writing. Just verbal promises that are now broken after all these years, hard work and thousand of dollars later.

very sad today for WWII Collector.
Posted by olehickory1767
Member since Dec 2024
77 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:08 pm to
Sorry to hear that. Nobody keeps their word in this day and age.
Posted by T1gerNate
Member since Feb 2020
3502 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:10 pm to
Land deals you gotta put them in writing.
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
22723 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:12 pm to
I'm sorry, dude. Family is messy.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
21495 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:14 pm to
I’ve seen families I thought were close ruined by inheritance. I watched it happen to my mom’s brothers and sisters concerning the division of property. My wife and I have experienced similar things over the years. Sometimes you watch people irresponsible with money get rewarded for it. I just learned to laugh at it and move on. Life isn’t fair sometimes for responsible people, lol. My advice is don’t stay bitter. It’s ok to understand what happened, but don’t dwell on it.
This post was edited on 6/7/26 at 2:17 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
16495 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:15 pm to
If it's any consolation, you can make them cut you checks to maintain it, or you can watch it go to shite as they don't do so.
Posted by Squedunk
Texas Hill Country
Member since Jun 2008
906 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:15 pm to
Put up a big, ugly fence blocking the pond.
Posted by ezride25
Constitutional Republic
Member since Nov 2008
26615 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:15 pm to
Send her a bill.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56284 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:16 pm to
100%. I have taught my children not to believe land will be given unless it is put in writing. And even then sometimes conniving family members get wills changed.
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
25540 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:17 pm to
You didn't know your stepsister had a claim to the adjoining land I assume? You have a choice here. You can sell it and find something else or you can find a way to make peace with and enjoy your stepsister/stepsisters family.

There's of course another option however. Be petty and nasty and fight with her the rest of your life.
Posted by Mo Debumly
Member since May 2026
18 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:17 pm to
quote:

step sister

All jokes aside, burn the place to the ground.

Dead serious.
Posted by Skip Winkman
Parts Unknown
Member since Sep 2015
1852 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:17 pm to
I’ve seen first hand recently where the unsuccessful beneficiaries got more than the successful becuase they already had thier shite together….also where step children got more family land than the actually blood family it was a mess
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
20220 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:18 pm to
I had a college friend who got out and found out the money his dad had been giving him in college was being put on a credit card the dad took out in his name. It took him years to pay it off.

Ruined their relationship.
Posted by LSUA 75
Colfax,La.
Member since Jan 2019
4980 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:18 pm to
Pisses me off just reading about it.
I hate it for you.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
72786 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:19 pm to
That was cold how Jacob did you.
Posted by FAT SEXY
California
Member since Jun 2020
2214 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:19 pm to
Never blindly assume that family can be trusted.

Never let your guard down or share too much information with them.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
42380 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:20 pm to
quote:

So a step sister can come put a house right there


Hook up to it in the middle of the night and haul it off
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
21495 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:21 pm to
quote:

I’ve seen first hand recently where the unsuccessful beneficiaries got more than the successful becuase they already had thier shite together

This happens to me routinely, lol. I adjust my lifestyle to my income. Apparently not everyone is expected to do that. It’s almost amusing at this point. Grown adults acting like children. I’ll say my kids have seemed to pick up on my example.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138592 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:23 pm to
I don't understand

Who owns the 2 acres?
Posted by Gifman
Clearwater Beach, FL
Member since Jan 2021
19019 posts
Posted on 6/7/26 at 2:23 pm to
quote:

I'm sorry, dude. Family is messy.


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