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re: Speaking of fatigue - adult children are the worst

Posted on 10/15/26 at 2:19 pm to
Posted by msap9020
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Member since Feb 2015
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Posted on 10/15/26 at 2:19 pm to
You didn't really think you were going to come here and get straight forward advice??

Seriously though, Ive raised 4 boys and they have all turned out well.

First thing is they all matured at a different pace. A 19 year old male isnt actually all that mature. You remember right? Its the species.

Second, ultimatums work. They just have to know you mean it.
Posted by meAnon
Member since Feb 2021
117 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 2:27 pm to
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A 19 year old male isnt actually all that mature


Biological fact. AND today is fundamentally different than when you were that age probably in the late 90's/early 2000's.

They are certainly capable of many things, but they've got to be made to achieve/accomplish those things.

He's got the same 'problem' that many other folks have in achieving maturity and independence - and that is a safety net that is too high.
Posted by Seth Bullock
Member since Nov 2024
487 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 2:32 pm to
Who pays for the electronics?
Posted by BottomlandBrew
Member since Aug 2010
30409 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 2:38 pm to
I think you're going to need to look in the mirror on this one, boss.
Posted by NfamousPanda
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Member since Jan 2016
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Posted on 10/15/26 at 3:11 pm to
This sounds like you failed as a parent. You coddled him his whole like so now he acts like a coddled child and you act surprised?
Posted by PGAOLDBAWNevahBroke
Member since Oct 2025
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Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:01 pm to
Army.

Thank me later
Posted by _Hurricane_
Somewhere
Member since Feb 2016
7929 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:04 pm to
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I can't imagine a 19 year old living in my house



You seriously couldn’t imagine your 19 year old son or daughter living with you for a while? Seriously??

Some of y’all are over the top.
Posted by Tigersforthee
Member since Dec 2025
589 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:04 pm to
If hes that much of an f up at home just imagine him trying to correctly sweep a floor or get the fries out of the oil on time. Youre gonna be paying for his lazy arse for the rest of your life. Either that or you need to prepare his mother for him to go live under a bridge.
Posted by tiger rag 93
KCMO
Member since Oct 2007
3231 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:06 pm to
Lot of people falling for this troll. Well done.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
81879 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:08 pm to
Have you not repeatedly instructed him to "Close the door!!!! We're not air conditioning the whole neighborhood!" I heard that at least 100 times growing up.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
37063 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:09 pm to
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We’ve done our part. Worked our asses off trying to instill character, work ethic, core values, etc.


Cool.

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Just this past week, we had our 19 year of “adult” manchild leave the front door unlocked and open (it’s a miracle the dog didn’t escape), left the gas stove on for who knows how long, and left the refrigerator open for who knows how long.




None of my kids have pulled anything like this. One out of the 3 is lazy but none of them are idiots like your 19 yo.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
62267 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:21 pm to
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Lot of people falling for this troll. Well done.
yeah it’s pretty solid. Hook isn’t too shiny but he probably could have made it a bit more ridiculous
Posted by Tchefuncte Tiger
Bat'n Rudge
Member since Oct 2004
64447 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:27 pm to
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My only recourse is to throw him out in the street and let him truly fend for himself


This is the correct answer. BTDT with one of my kids.

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but the wife is a long way from being ok with that.


You're wife's the problem. At least when our situation hit the fan, my wife and I were on the same page.

quote:

Just this past week, we had our 19 year of “adult” manchild leave the front door unlocked and open (it’s a miracle the dog didn’t escape), left the gas stove on for who knows how long, and left the refrigerator open for who knows how long.


Your son's on drugs. Again, speaking from experience.

Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
11967 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:29 pm to
F** Y** to all those who blame the parent. The influence of social media tells the asshats that they are entitled to whatever they want. Can you spend night and day counteracting the influence of the drivel that is driven into him all day.

Thank God my kids are in the 50's and late 40's, I would not want to deal with the crap today. I did teach them how to use the router controls to cut off the cell phone, video games and PC's. It can be a powerful tool.
Posted by slidingstop
Member since Jan 2025
2811 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:30 pm to
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our 19 year of “adult” manchild



dad, kick his legal adult arse to the curb and be done with it. And if momma don't like it, kick her to the curb too. No one is doing anyone any favors at this point.
Posted by carguymatt
Member since Aug 1998
Member since Jun 2015
1174 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:30 pm to
sounds like he's mentally handicapped. Was it never diagnosed with anything?
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
62267 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:33 pm to
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Your son's on drugs. Again, speaking from experience.
actually you might be right. Either a solid troll or the son is on drugs
This post was edited on 10/15/26 at 4:34 pm
Posted by LittleJerrySeinfield
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Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:37 pm to
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Speaking of fatigue - adult children are the worst


I have a 23 year old daughter and a 19 son, and they are both joys. Sounds like you failed him as a father.
Posted by cgrand
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Member since Oct 2009
51569 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:39 pm to
this thread didn’t go like OP thought it would
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
54225 posts
Posted on 10/15/26 at 4:39 pm to
GLT is this a copy and paste from Reddit
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