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re: The kids are growing up.

Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:00 pm to
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
292201 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:00 pm to
just warn them about the fent and you'll be good
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
33876 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:02 pm to
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And our oldest son(17) is going finish his last 2 years of HS on his own.

Posted by LegendInMyMind
Member since Apr 2019
76907 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:04 pm to
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Boys 18 and 20. Wife and I bring them to the beach. I miss the days of old....sand castles, crabbing, etc. Today, we worry about the girl friends, college starting, etc.

They worry about you just as much if you're 37 and building sand castles, chasing crabs, and drinking beer on the beach all day.

You just can't win sometimes.
Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
2766 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:20 pm to
Hey, hear you.

I have one in that zone.

If helps, we just roll on to the next thing with them. But you are not wrong. Catching crabs on beach at night and building sand castles are the good stuff. But so are the next things with them. Ride the wave!
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 7:21 pm
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
31076 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:25 pm to
My 19 yr old is in Hawaii with his girlfriend and her family.

Posted by kennypowers
AR
Member since Mar 2009
640 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:52 pm to
The days are long but the years are short. It goes by fast my man.
Posted by SpaceCamp
Member since Nov 2020
578 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:58 pm to
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Boys 18 and 20.


I have two girls the same age. The oldest is already back at school and the youngest moves next week. It is just so bittersweet. I keep saying I would love to have one more day when they were 4 and 6 just so I could appreciate it in a way that I couldn't at the time.

My husband has stage IV pancreatic cancer so it just feels particularly hard right now.
Posted by thegreatboudini
Member since Oct 2008
7326 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:02 pm to
3, 1, and 4 months old.

I know it passes fast but we are getting fricking wrecked right now.
Posted by Junkyard Hog
Arkansas
Member since Aug 2019
471 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:14 pm to
The days are long but the years are short.

Probably the most true statement I’ve ever heard describing parenting.
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
2064 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:31 pm to
My sons are 38 and 40. Two grandsons and two granddaughters, and I love my daughters in law, I’m at my absolute happiest when we’re all under the same roof. When you look back at your life, raising kids seems to represent such a small period-but it’s everything.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
22017 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:38 pm to
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But there is no hard rule on how to parent


True.

I did not mean to judge.

It sounds like it is more than sports; just the overall feel for him with high school, sports, and future farmers.

Sounds like he’s supervised or at least has many friends and relatives that care about him.

Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39701 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:45 pm to
Hopefully you do have to worry about boyfriends.
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
39701 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:53 pm to
On one hand that’s pretty fricking weird. You only have a few short years before they go off to college and then wherever and it’s tough when they leave - missing out on that is…a decision.

But I like to be objective and optimistic - when he goes off to college, your son will be light years ahead of his peers regarding independence and taking care of himself. That’s huge.
Posted by RandySavage
9 Time Natty Winner
Member since May 2012
35917 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:07 pm to
There may not be a hard rule on how to parent, but rule number one includes actually being a parent. No nosey aunt or former classmate superintendent can fill that void
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 9:09 pm
Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
4842 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:21 pm to
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My husband has stage IV pancreatic cancer so it just feels particularly hard right now.


Sorry to hear. Praying for yall. Be strong and you got this mama
Posted by Sweep Da Leg
Member since Sep 2013
4842 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:26 pm to
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3, 1, and 4 months old. I know it passes fast but we are getting fricking wrecked right now.


I’m similar to you but off by a couple months. Getting wrecked is an understatement and everything becomes such a blur, especially with the exhaustion. I feel like I’m missing everything for numbers 2-3 I got to experience and remember so vividly from the first born’s first year and a half.
Posted by xBirdx
Member since Sep 2018
2798 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:43 pm to
It’s not the same bc instead of talking g about dolphins and mermaids and making sand castles and getting buried in the sand to talking about college and bf/gfs and cars and adult stuff
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