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Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:02 pm to CR4090
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And our oldest son(17) is going finish his last 2 years of HS on his own.

Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:04 pm to Patfic15
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Boys 18 and 20. Wife and I bring them to the beach. I miss the days of old....sand castles, crabbing, etc. Today, we worry about the girl friends, college starting, etc.
They worry about you just as much if you're 37 and building sand castles, chasing crabs, and drinking beer on the beach all day.
You just can't win sometimes.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:20 pm to Patfic15
Hey, hear you.
I have one in that zone.
If helps, we just roll on to the next thing with them. But you are not wrong. Catching crabs on beach at night and building sand castles are the good stuff. But so are the next things with them. Ride the wave!
I have one in that zone.
If helps, we just roll on to the next thing with them. But you are not wrong. Catching crabs on beach at night and building sand castles are the good stuff. But so are the next things with them. Ride the wave!
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 7:21 pm
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:25 pm to Patfic15
My 19 yr old is in Hawaii with his girlfriend and her family.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:52 pm to Patfic15
The days are long but the years are short. It goes by fast my man.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 7:58 pm to Patfic15
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Boys 18 and 20.
I have two girls the same age. The oldest is already back at school and the youngest moves next week. It is just so bittersweet. I keep saying I would love to have one more day when they were 4 and 6 just so I could appreciate it in a way that I couldn't at the time.
My husband has stage IV pancreatic cancer so it just feels particularly hard right now.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:02 pm to Patfic15
3, 1, and 4 months old.
I know it passes fast but we are getting fricking wrecked right now.
I know it passes fast but we are getting fricking wrecked right now.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:14 pm to Patfic15
The days are long but the years are short.
Probably the most true statement I’ve ever heard describing parenting.
Probably the most true statement I’ve ever heard describing parenting.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:31 pm to Patfic15
My sons are 38 and 40. Two grandsons and two granddaughters, and I love my daughters in law, I’m at my absolute happiest when we’re all under the same roof. When you look back at your life, raising kids seems to represent such a small period-but it’s everything.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:38 pm to CR4090
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But there is no hard rule on how to parent
True.
I did not mean to judge.
It sounds like it is more than sports; just the overall feel for him with high school, sports, and future farmers.
Sounds like he’s supervised or at least has many friends and relatives that care about him.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:45 pm to Patfic15
Hopefully you do have to worry about boyfriends.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 8:53 pm to CR4090
On one hand that’s pretty fricking weird. You only have a few short years before they go off to college and then wherever and it’s tough when they leave - missing out on that is…a decision.
But I like to be objective and optimistic - when he goes off to college, your son will be light years ahead of his peers regarding independence and taking care of himself. That’s huge.
But I like to be objective and optimistic - when he goes off to college, your son will be light years ahead of his peers regarding independence and taking care of himself. That’s huge.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:07 pm to CR4090
There may not be a hard rule on how to parent, but rule number one includes actually being a parent. No nosey aunt or former classmate superintendent can fill that void
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 9:09 pm
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:21 pm to SpaceCamp
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My husband has stage IV pancreatic cancer so it just feels particularly hard right now.
Sorry to hear. Praying for yall. Be strong and you got this mama
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:26 pm to thegreatboudini
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3, 1, and 4 months old. I know it passes fast but we are getting fricking wrecked right now.
I’m similar to you but off by a couple months. Getting wrecked is an understatement and everything becomes such a blur, especially with the exhaustion. I feel like I’m missing everything for numbers 2-3 I got to experience and remember so vividly from the first born’s first year and a half.
Posted on 8/16/26 at 9:43 pm to Prominentwon
It’s not the same bc instead of talking g about dolphins and mermaids and making sand castles and getting buried in the sand to talking about college and bf/gfs and cars and adult stuff

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