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The kids are growing up.

Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:30 pm
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
4497 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:30 pm
Boys 18 and 20. Wife and I bring them to the beach. I miss the days of old....sand castles, crabbing, etc. Today, we worry about the girl friends, college starting, etc.

Days went by too quickly.

Here we are.
Posted by Mushroom1968
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2023
7044 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:33 pm to
I have 28, 18, 15-year-olds. Yes, happens quick. Went to beach with my 18- and 15-year-old this year and it was fun, but of course much different than years past, not bad, just different. Miss my oldest being with us.
Posted by CR4090
Member since Apr 2023
10934 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:37 pm to
Going see my first grandchild(daughter is 27)next week. And our oldest son(17) is going finish his last 2 years of HS on his own.

Just me and momma now. That is going to be awesome at times and weird at times.
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 3:51 pm
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
111966 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:43 pm to
quote:

Going see my first grandchild next week. And our oldest son is going finish his last 2 years of HS on his own.

Just me and momma now. That is going to be awesome at times and weird at times.


What in the trailer park did I just read?
Posted by aib799
Member since Jul 2014
622 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:43 pm to
In a year’s time I will have the following take place.

-22 yr old will have a baby.
-20 yr old will be married.
-17 yr old will graduate.
-15 yr old will get a license.

It all happens so fast.
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 3:45 pm
Posted by CR4090
Member since Apr 2023
10934 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 3:58 pm to
LOL.

It's my hometown and high school. I went to school with the super, principal and couple of his teachers. So he will be in good hands. Plus, the wife made me put cameras all over the house. And it's only 2 hours from us. I've known several peers and family members who did the same

Also, He gets to be star athlete like his old man :-). That wasn't happening in Humble.
Posted by ELVIS U
Member since Feb 2007
12077 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:11 pm to
It all goes too fast. Wait till you see how fast your grandkids grow
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
23280 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:13 pm to
Grandkids will be around in a few years. You will be back to sand castles and crabbing.
Posted by Prominentwon
LSU, McNeese St. Fan
Member since Jan 2005
95130 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:23 pm to
Yep.

I have a 21, 16, and almost 14.

Went to a hotel we went to 6 years ago for a quick summer trip before school started and recreated a picture we took back then. Was missing my oldest because she was back at school in Colorado. Left the gap and everything


Someone in the thread said earlier that it’s fun but def not the same. My middle is getting college letters from schools across the country. It’s bittersweet.
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 4:24 pm
Posted by CartmansMom
Member since Jun 2026
191 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:25 pm to
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CR4090


You drunk, baw?
Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
43949 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:30 pm to
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crabbing

Dem days ain't ova fa da college boys
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
22792 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:34 pm to
I have no idea if I did it wrong or not, but my adult kids still call me when bad things happen. Always bouncing ideas off me or asking for advice. Of course they know I’ll do anything I can to help them within reason. They are all more successful than me in my opinion.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
62046 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:37 pm to
Yep, my baby just turned 11

My oldest moved away last year, and is now 23 years old. #2 will be 21 in September and #3 will be 20 in December.

The other two are 16 and almost 15.

Time flies too fast
Posted by CR4090
Member since Apr 2023
10934 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:38 pm to
I wish.

Bunch of old farts and worry warts. It's not like we are sending him to boarding or military school. He's a good kid and earned our trust. And he will have plenty of family and friends around. It's really not that bad.

He gets to do his Ag thing, hunt/fish as much as he wants. And I get a live in ranch hand.
This post was edited on 8/16/26 at 4:41 pm
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
111966 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:42 pm to
The HS kid alone aspect was only a portion of my perplexion.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
22792 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 4:54 pm to
When my oldest moved far from home I really missed him for the first couple of months. He just moved back home again this year. I just took his old baby bed out of the attic for his first child(my first grandchild). That makes me feel very sentimental.
Posted by makersmark1
earth
Member since Oct 2011
22016 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:25 pm to
quote:

gets to be star athlete


Is he really good?

I may be reading this wrong.

Is he going to live by himself to play sports at high school?
Is it better academically?

In the long run, I guess it does not matter, but I’m not sure I would want my kids that faraway in high school.

I probably worry to much about everything.

Posted by RandySavage
9 Time Natty Winner
Member since May 2012
35916 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 5:56 pm to
Leaving your kid alone for his last two years of high school is poor parenting on so many levels
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
4424 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 6:05 pm to
quote:

Leaving your kid alone for his last two years of high school is poor parenting on so many levels


There's no way I'd want to miss out on that much time with my kid.
Posted by CR4090
Member since Apr 2023
10934 posts
Posted on 8/16/26 at 6:55 pm to
Eh, he will probably stand out more in a small 1a setting than he would a large 5a. And he will get to play multiple sports. He is already a starter on the football team. The star athlete thing is more of a joke between us. Because he thinks he will be better than me.

We looked at it and the academics are on par with his old high school. But like anywhere else, it will be what he puts into it. Probably the biggest reason is the ability to be in FFA. Yeah, I know they have it in the city too. But in the country it is just different. So he is looking forward to that the most. And his class only 45 kids. I just hope he doesn't turn out to be an Aggie.

We'll be there for all his events. See him every weekend, video chat every day and his nosey aunt is a football field away. He'll be okay.

But there is no hard rule on how to parent. So what works for some doesn't have to work for others. To each his own.
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