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re: Mental Load. Anybody else tired of women playing the victim?
Posted on 7/27/26 at 10:27 pm to sidewalkside
Posted on 7/27/26 at 10:27 pm to sidewalkside
Threads like this remind me how lucky I am to have married my wife, and mother of our two children, 29 years ago this past week.
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Posted on 7/27/26 at 10:31 pm to sidewalkside
“Mental load” is womanese for “I am too lazy and/or incompetent to function as an adult.”
I once heard it said that a man’s life greatly improves when he realizes his wife is the oldest teenager in the house.
I once heard it said that a man’s life greatly improves when he realizes his wife is the oldest teenager in the house.
This post was edited on 7/27/26 at 10:32 pm
Posted on 7/27/26 at 10:55 pm to sidewalkside
I’ve seen guys manage everything for their wives and kids, then get told they’re too controlling. As soon as they make a decision on their own, the husband is cleaning up a mess. So I ask, what came first? The man being controlling, or the man cleaning up your messes? Cause it can’t be both. He’s not controlling, he’s trying to protect you from yourself.
Posted on 7/27/26 at 10:58 pm to sidewalkside
Ive got multiple family members divorced. And the women filed for divorce.
So some things that come to mind:
1. Just paying the bills is "bear Minimum"
2. Also, if she is a stay at home mother, the man must contribute to her IRA because if she gets divorced further down the timeline, she will have nothing.
3. Your not spending time with her family and work all the time its a problem. Big Problem.
4. They married the Man. The Man Didnt change. None of them, But they all went to counseling. All the Women Changed, they just slowly pulled the mask off.
5. I have another family Member, that will most likely be divorced in the next 5 years.
6. I am not married. I would have been. But, I give some of these guys metals for putting up with my family members. But some of the did do some really horrible things, and I can say, I am not shocked.
Also, They had plenty of great dudes that loved them, but they all trashed them for someone else. So they married these dirt bags. Cocaine Addiction, Alcholoic, Man Beater, Etc.
So some things that come to mind:
1. Just paying the bills is "bear Minimum"
2. Also, if she is a stay at home mother, the man must contribute to her IRA because if she gets divorced further down the timeline, she will have nothing.
3. Your not spending time with her family and work all the time its a problem. Big Problem.
4. They married the Man. The Man Didnt change. None of them, But they all went to counseling. All the Women Changed, they just slowly pulled the mask off.
5. I have another family Member, that will most likely be divorced in the next 5 years.
6. I am not married. I would have been. But, I give some of these guys metals for putting up with my family members. But some of the did do some really horrible things, and I can say, I am not shocked.
Also, They had plenty of great dudes that loved them, but they all trashed them for someone else. So they married these dirt bags. Cocaine Addiction, Alcholoic, Man Beater, Etc.
This post was edited on 7/27/26 at 11:17 pm
Posted on 7/27/26 at 10:59 pm to sidewalkside
What they call mental load is just female overthinking.
Just get the shite done. It doesn’t require two hours of mental anguish to decide what groceries to buy or what to cook. Do it and move on.
Just get the shite done. It doesn’t require two hours of mental anguish to decide what groceries to buy or what to cook. Do it and move on.
Posted on 7/27/26 at 11:04 pm to sidewalkside
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We can make a trip for groceries. But we’re not carrying the mental load of what everyone will eat.
Ok wtf is this? Sounds to me like you put the pussy on a pedestal and now she’s got you believing all kind of nonsense.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 12:00 am to Robin Masters
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Sounds to me like you put the pussy on a pedestal and now she’s got you believing all kind of nonsense.
Poor guys have been conditioned to believe that all of life’s challenges are their fault. “Down with the patriarchy” and all that bullshite.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 12:26 am to sidewalkside
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Mental load
Well there's your problem. You aren't supposed to dump your loads in their mind ...
Posted on 7/28/26 at 12:28 am to sidewalkside
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Load
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women
I’m listening
Posted on 7/28/26 at 1:46 am to sidewalkside
DARVO. JADE.
Learn what those two mean and you will never interact with a woman the same way again. or, if you are lucky, you will literally worship the ground she walks on.
Learn what those two mean and you will never interact with a woman the same way again. or, if you are lucky, you will literally worship the ground she walks on.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 3:09 am to sidewalkside
You’re here whining about women on a message board but sure, women are the ones who play victim. 
Half of yall need to get divorced and become gay with the way you bitch about women.
Half of yall need to get divorced and become gay with the way you bitch about women.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 3:20 am to sidewalkside
More like people playing the victim.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 3:55 am to StringedInstruments
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“Mental load” is
is easier.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 5:51 am to tigergirl10
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Women gets kids ready for daycare/school and get them there and pick them up. A lot take them to sports/after school events, grocery shop, cook dinner, make sure there’s toilet paper/shampoo/soap, prepare for holidays, and many work. A lot of men work while women do the majority of extras.
A man can do all that and it won’t matter. Women will throw the ambiguous mental load BS no matter what.
Posted on 7/28/26 at 6:04 am to sidewalkside
I had to get on my wife's arse the other day. She made a comment to me that I don't do as much house work as her. She completely forgot that I spent 3-4 hours per week in the heat mowing, weed eating, maintaining her flower beds, etc. We live in a 1000 SF house so it doesn't exactly take long to clean it thoroughly. I mop/vacuum 2x per week and it takes me about 30 minutes total. She apologized which was the most shocking part. I got a good one.
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