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re: If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him,

Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:58 pm to
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56275 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:58 pm to
My husband was confronted by the office Karens one morning because he was seen out at a bar restaurant with a woman who was not me.

The woman was my cousin and I was well aware that they were there.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
33707 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:02 pm to
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My husband was confronted by the office Karens one morning because he was seen out at a bar restaurant with a woman who was not me.


Just curios, how was their attitude when they told you?
Posted by LSU Delts
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2007
2624 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:03 pm to
I had a really close friend that was engaged to get married. His brother and I were best friends. Every couple of weeks our group (his and her friends) would go party together on Saturday night. This particular weekend my friend and his brother was out of town for a family reunion.
She called me and asked to pick her and her sister up. I arrived and the sister leaves saying she’s going out with a different group of friends.
The fiancé comes out and says that we were going to stay home because she always wanted to “f” me. I told her that I couldn’t do that to my buddy and left.
I told his brother to get advice. I then told him a couple of days later. Of course, he didn’t believe me. Two months down the road he busted her with someone else outside the group when he entered her house. He had a key.
So yes, I would tell him.
This post was edited on 8/1/24 at 4:05 pm
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60663 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:07 pm to
quote:

Just curios
I prefer Knick knacks
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76340 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

I prefer Knick knacks


what about paddy whacks?
Posted by dakarx
Member since Sep 2018
8447 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:09 pm to
Will telling him result in unlimited use of a nice bass boat?

(doesn't matter, burn that cheating bitch)
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
56275 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:13 pm to
They didn't tell me. They confronted him and told him they were going to tell me. He laughed and said go ahead.

They believed him because he was so calm.But they still called just to make sure.
Posted by HuskyPanda
Philly
Member since Feb 2018
2422 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:14 pm to
I was actually in this position. Good buddy of mine ole lady was cheating on him. She actually told my wife, who told me. I withheld that information from him for years because I didn't want to be partially responsible for something bad happening.

He eventually found out and that's when I told him what I knew. He understood withholding the information and didn't hold it against me.

Part of me thinks I made the right decision, but the other part of me wishes I told him earlier.

He's good now, got remarried to a good woman.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
25696 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:24 pm to
quote:

buddy doing the cheating- my lips is shut


Same, but also id probably get pissed at him.

Also i find more and more dudes who tell their wives EVERYTHING and think thats not fricked up. ive had to tell buddies, thats fine but im basically gonna put you in the same circle of trust that i would your wife then.

And im not even talking about cheating. I’ve never cheated on anyone in my life. I’m just talking about conversations or situations between friends that their wives immediately know all about
Posted by jizzle6609
Houston
Member since Jul 2009
20103 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:28 pm to
quote:

They believed him because he was so calm.But they still called just to make sure.


Those are some stand up ladies.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20252 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:33 pm to
quote:

why? Seems reasonable


So what if you just found out your husband had a one night stand 5 years ago?
Posted by MrLSU
Yellowstone, Val d'isere
Member since Jan 2004
29741 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:44 pm to
quote:


Yes, and TBQH if my buddy was cheating on his wife I would tell her. People deserve to know and I hope someone would do that for me in that situation.
"Bro code" be damned.


How would you feel after telling your buddy that he killed his wife because you told him?
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
44949 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:48 pm to
Is it me? Be honest.
Posted by Galactic Inquisitor
An Incredibly Distant Star
Member since Dec 2013
18452 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:51 pm to
If I knew she was, absolutely, but I would have to be damn sure
Posted by jchamil
Member since Nov 2009
19513 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:52 pm to
quote:

How would you feel after telling your buddy that he killed his wife because you told him?


I'd probably feel like my friend turned out to be a psychopath who married a whore.
Posted by UnitedFruitCompany
Bay Area
Member since Nov 2018
4096 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 4:58 pm to
So, what if you find out one of the folks in a relationship is playing for the other team on the side?

Had that one to deal with recently and I'm still struggling with what to do. She has no idea and i only know about him because he flat out propositioned me. No, they arent swingers (would have made all of that so much less awkward). Kids, houses, etc.

Think im just gonna take my mans advice on what to do when the storm gets bad and just ride it out, captain.
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
20252 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:04 pm to
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So, what if you find out one of the folks in a relationship is playing for the other team on the side? Had that one to deal with recently and I'm still struggling with what to do. She has no idea and i only know about him because he flat out propositioned me. No, they arent swingers (would have made all of that so much less awkward). Kids, houses, etc. Think im just gonna take my mans advice on what to do when the storm gets bad and just ride it out, captain.



Wait… your buddy propositioned you? Or your buddy’s butt buddy?
Posted by VolSquatch
First Coast
Member since Sep 2023
8382 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:07 pm to
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How would you feel after telling your buddy that he killed his wife because you told him?


Is this supposed to be a compelling argument? Lol
Posted by UnitedFruitCompany
Bay Area
Member since Nov 2018
4096 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:19 pm to
quote:

Wait… your buddy propositioned you? Or your buddy’s butt buddy?


My buddy. My married buddy.
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
30526 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 5:40 pm to
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I'm not lying for anyone.


Guess we can never be dead hooker in the trunk friends.
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