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re: If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him,
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:40 pm to UnitedFruitCompany
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:40 pm to UnitedFruitCompany
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My buddy. My married buddy.
Small world, you and MikelBR are besties.
Seriously though, I think it may be time to let ol’ Baw go. My buddy said he preferred arse fishin to bass fishin, it would be the tail end of our relationship.
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Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:45 pm to Hangover Haven
I did tell him and he and his wife invited me and my wife over and discussed it. She admitted she was in the beginning stages of an affair and they both thanked me.
They are together today 14 years later. I was nervous as hell but he was my friend and so was she. I just kept thinking would I want someone to tell me and I kept saying yes.
I saw him outside and asked if we could talk. I told him my suspicions and my apologies for being the one to say something but that they both mattered to me and their family. 3 kids. It was very hard for me and knew there could be a chance it worked against me and lose their friendship, but I was willing to take that chance at the end of the day. Their family being able to work it out meant more than the friendship I had.
We are friends to this day.
They are together today 14 years later. I was nervous as hell but he was my friend and so was she. I just kept thinking would I want someone to tell me and I kept saying yes.
I saw him outside and asked if we could talk. I told him my suspicions and my apologies for being the one to say something but that they both mattered to me and their family. 3 kids. It was very hard for me and knew there could be a chance it worked against me and lose their friendship, but I was willing to take that chance at the end of the day. Their family being able to work it out meant more than the friendship I had.
We are friends to this day.
This post was edited on 8/1/24 at 8:47 pm
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:50 pm to BluegrassBelle
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If the good friend was cheating on their spouse and the spouse wasn't a close friend? I'd tell them I'm not going to tell them but don't expect me to keep your secret for you. I'm not lying for anyone.
What the hell does this even mean?
Posted on 8/1/24 at 8:59 pm to cbree88
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What the hell does this even mean?
It means what I said. If a friend is cheating on a spouse it’s not my place to tell their spouse if we’re not good friends. But if they expect me to cover for them or their spouse comes asking, I’m not lying for them.
Why is that so hard for you to grasp?
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:03 pm to BluegrassBelle
Yup… if either ask I’m letting it go… I’ll say I think you are wrong but figure it out for yourself…
Posted on 8/1/24 at 9:06 pm to Hangover Haven
you mean like Leeann Yammarino, the chick in Ascension who fricked her kids friend or whatever?
Posted on 8/2/24 at 7:02 am to Townedrunkard
Being a man means being a bad person?
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:23 am to VolSquatch
You a piece of shite. Bc you probably want to frick her, real talk.
If he's your friend then why?
I get it no one deserves to be cheated on it sucks arse etc. Ive done it and it was done to me. Guy code bitch
If he's your friend then why?
I get it no one deserves to be cheated on it sucks arse etc. Ive done it and it was done to me. Guy code bitch
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:28 am to RockyMtnTigerWDE
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She admitted she was in the beginning stages of an affair
They never admit that they’ve been getting raw dogged for 2 years.
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:30 am to OysterPoBoy
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They never admit that they’ve been getting raw dogged for 2 years.
LOL.
Beginning stages is up for interpretation, lets say that.
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:34 am to RockyMtnTigerWDE
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She admitted she was in the beginning stages of an affair and they both thanked me.
And your friend believed her? This is woman speak for “he plugged every hole I had and now I’m busted”.
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:34 am to VolSquatch
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I probably would do that first, for sure. But what is right is right whether its happening to my friend or if its my friend doing it. I'm not going to selectively apply morals.
But what you are doing is sticking your nose in other people’s business. No one appointed you Press Secretary of your town.
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:39 am to Hangover Haven
STAY OUT OF IT.
This exact situation happened to me, I said something to my friend and he hasn't talked to me in five years.
They ended up getting divorced over her affair but it still ruined a 30 year friendship for me.
This exact situation happened to me, I said something to my friend and he hasn't talked to me in five years.
They ended up getting divorced over her affair but it still ruined a 30 year friendship for me.
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:42 am to The Torch
Many people have made mistakes, made amends and moved on to be happy. Ignorance is bliss.
Cheating people tend to have things catch up with them one way or another. Don't fall on the sword before they do.
Cheating people tend to have things catch up with them one way or another. Don't fall on the sword before they do.
Posted on 8/2/24 at 9:47 am to Hester Carries
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This post was edited on 5/4/25 at 6:06 pm
Posted on 8/2/24 at 10:47 am to TCO
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But what you are doing is sticking your nose in other people’s business.
So whether or not your wife is banging another dude isn't your business?
"That dude has a flat tire and an oil leak, but I'll just let him break down on wreck because its not my business"
Posted on 8/2/24 at 10:50 am to HattiesburgTiger5439
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If he's your friend then why?
I don't care to be friends with people who are unfaithful to their partners, who should always come before friends. Thats just common sense, and its in the freakin bible
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I get it no one deserves to be cheated on it sucks arse etc.
Shot
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Ive done it
Chaser.
People are just really mad that I'm pointing out that they are bad people.
Girlfriends that aren't that serious? Whatever. Someone's spouse? Whole different ballgame
This post was edited on 8/2/24 at 3:17 pm
Posted on 8/2/24 at 11:31 am to redneck
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buddy being cheated on- yes telling him
buddy doing the cheating- my lips is shut
Im a 100% with. Might even try to get me a lil piece also
Posted on 8/2/24 at 12:20 pm to The Torch
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This exact situation happened to me, I said something to my friend and he hasn't talked to me in five years.
They ended up getting divorced over her affair but it still ruined a 30 year friendship for me.
That speaks on his character, not yours. You did the right thing and told your friend. Him taking it out on you sucks and wasn't right
Posted on 8/2/24 at 1:49 pm to Hangover Haven
Is she cheating with me? Otherwise, yes I'd tell him.
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