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re: If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him,
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:18 pm to Hangover Haven
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:18 pm to Hangover Haven
Mind your own freaking business.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:19 pm to Hangover Haven
Mind your own business.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:20 pm to BigApple
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Mind your own freaking business.
Bitch cheating on my best friend and I find out…. is my business
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:20 pm to Hangover Haven
I’d give her 24 hours to tell him or I’m doing it for her.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:21 pm to Fun Bunch
Sorry that I offended the POS's of the board
Actually, no I'm not
Actually, no I'm not
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:22 pm to VolSquatch
If we lose the bro code this nation’s downfall will be immediate
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:22 pm to Hangover Haven
Absolutely not. This is none of your business and you should have no interest in wrecking anyone's life. Having lived a long time, I have seen couples get in trouble, break up and then get back together again. And when they get back together, both resent the guy who told. Shoot the messenger is way too easy. There's every chance they stay together and you get shut out.
There's enough drama and sadness in life, don't cause more. This thing could go away if you leave it alone.
There's enough drama and sadness in life, don't cause more. This thing could go away if you leave it alone.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:24 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:my wife would say the same
I'd tell them I'm not going to tell them
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:24 pm to Hangover Haven
I would tell the cheating spouse to tell them or I would.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:25 pm to tilthatday
For those saying "not my business".
What if your friend saw your SO cheating? He shouldn't tell you?
What if your friend saw your SO cheating? He shouldn't tell you?
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:26 pm to Hangover Haven
Not sure why but the pics of this bitch ain't showing up when I scroll thru the replies.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:26 pm to Hangover Haven
Of course.
But if he was cheating I would keep my mouth shut. I would maybe ask if she has a sister. Bros before hoes.
But if he was cheating I would keep my mouth shut. I would maybe ask if she has a sister. Bros before hoes.
This post was edited on 8/1/24 at 3:27 pm
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:27 pm to Hangover Haven
No because when they reconcile it would somehow become all my fault and I would lose both as friends
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:27 pm to tilthatday
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Absolutely not. This is none of your business and you should have no interest in wrecking anyone's life
I'm going to be real here. If the spouse of a friend is dumb enough to be openly cheating in public where they can be seen, that's on them. They're the one doing the cheating and "wrecking" someone's life.
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Having lived a long time, I have seen couples get in trouble, break up and then get back together again. And when they get back together, both resent the guy who told. Shoot the messenger is way too easy. There's every chance they stay together and you get shut out.
If that's what happens, so be it. And honestly, I wouldn't want to be hanging around with someone that condones that shite anyway.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:28 pm to Hangover Haven
I tried to tell him, he didn't believe me. And we grew apart since then.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:30 pm to TheMollusk
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What if both the cheater and the one being cheated on are your buddies?
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:30 pm to Beessnax
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No because when they reconcile it would somehow become all my fault and I would lose both as friends
Why would you want to be friends with someone who would cheat on their spouse in the first place?
"I'm afraid to lose the friendship of a person who was actively betraying someone they married" is a wild take
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:31 pm to Hangover Haven
Good friend… tell him…but make damn sure you are right.
Acquaintance…mind your own business .
Acquaintance…mind your own business .
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:31 pm to Hangover Haven
i had this conversation with one of my best friends last week. i was a bit surprised by his answer.
he said, "I'm saying this soberminded... but if i cheated on my wife and it was ongoing and not some stupid one night stand, you have every right to tell my wife of this. if you find out my wife is cheating on me in an ongoing affair, i'd want you to tell me.
however, if you find out one of us had a one night stand and cut it off immediately, i'd just rather neither of us ever know."
and his wife agreed.
i was a bit floored by this.
he said, "I'm saying this soberminded... but if i cheated on my wife and it was ongoing and not some stupid one night stand, you have every right to tell my wife of this. if you find out my wife is cheating on me in an ongoing affair, i'd want you to tell me.
however, if you find out one of us had a one night stand and cut it off immediately, i'd just rather neither of us ever know."
and his wife agreed.
i was a bit floored by this.
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:32 pm to Hangover Haven
I have found it to be good practice to stay out of grown folks' business
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