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re: If you saw or knew of a good friend’s wife was cheating on him,

Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:18 pm to
Posted by BigApple
Member since Jun 2022
889 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:18 pm to
Mind your own freaking business.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
16697 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:19 pm to
Mind your own business.
Posted by IT_Dawg
Georgia
Member since Oct 2012
26714 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:20 pm to
quote:

Mind your own freaking business.


Bitch cheating on my best friend and I find out…. is my business
Posted by Dixie Normus
Earth
Member since Sep 2013
2875 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:20 pm to
I’d give her 24 hours to tell him or I’m doing it for her.
Posted by VolSquatch
First Coast
Member since Sep 2023
8382 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:21 pm to
Sorry that I offended the POS's of the board

Actually, no I'm not
Posted by Krane
Member since Oct 2017
1471 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:22 pm to
If we lose the bro code this nation’s downfall will be immediate
Posted by tilthatday
New Orleans
Member since Mar 2009
1014 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:22 pm to
Absolutely not. This is none of your business and you should have no interest in wrecking anyone's life. Having lived a long time, I have seen couples get in trouble, break up and then get back together again. And when they get back together, both resent the guy who told. Shoot the messenger is way too easy. There's every chance they stay together and you get shut out.
There's enough drama and sadness in life, don't cause more. This thing could go away if you leave it alone.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61454 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:24 pm to
quote:

I'd tell them I'm not going to tell them
my wife would say the same
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61454 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:24 pm to
I would tell the cheating spouse to tell them or I would.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
76344 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:25 pm to
For those saying "not my business".

What if your friend saw your SO cheating? He shouldn't tell you?
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
22281 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:26 pm to
Not sure why but the pics of this bitch ain't showing up when I scroll thru the replies.
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
25761 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:26 pm to
Of course.
But if he was cheating I would keep my mouth shut. I would maybe ask if she has a sister. Bros before hoes.
This post was edited on 8/1/24 at 3:27 pm
Posted by Beessnax
Member since Nov 2015
11153 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:27 pm to
No because when they reconcile it would somehow become all my fault and I would lose both as friends
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
108059 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:27 pm to
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Absolutely not. This is none of your business and you should have no interest in wrecking anyone's life


I'm going to be real here. If the spouse of a friend is dumb enough to be openly cheating in public where they can be seen, that's on them. They're the one doing the cheating and "wrecking" someone's life.

quote:

Having lived a long time, I have seen couples get in trouble, break up and then get back together again. And when they get back together, both resent the guy who told. Shoot the messenger is way too easy. There's every chance they stay together and you get shut out.


If that's what happens, so be it. And honestly, I wouldn't want to be hanging around with someone that condones that shite anyway.
Posted by Broham
Member since Feb 2005
19181 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:28 pm to
I tried to tell him, he didn't believe me. And we grew apart since then.
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5732 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:30 pm to
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What if both the cheater and the one being cheated on are your buddies?




Posted by VolSquatch
First Coast
Member since Sep 2023
8382 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:30 pm to
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No because when they reconcile it would somehow become all my fault and I would lose both as friends



Why would you want to be friends with someone who would cheat on their spouse in the first place?

"I'm afraid to lose the friendship of a person who was actively betraying someone they married" is a wild take If someone cheats on their spouse they will sell a friend up the river at the first mild inconvenience.
Posted by RealDawg
Dawgville
Member since Nov 2012
11317 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:31 pm to
Good friend… tell him…but make damn sure you are right.

Acquaintance…mind your own business .
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
32408 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:31 pm to
i had this conversation with one of my best friends last week. i was a bit surprised by his answer.

he said, "I'm saying this soberminded... but if i cheated on my wife and it was ongoing and not some stupid one night stand, you have every right to tell my wife of this. if you find out my wife is cheating on me in an ongoing affair, i'd want you to tell me.

however, if you find out one of us had a one night stand and cut it off immediately, i'd just rather neither of us ever know."

and his wife agreed.

i was a bit floored by this.
Posted by The Shaqtus
Member since Jun 2015
622 posts
Posted on 8/1/24 at 3:32 pm to
I have found it to be good practice to stay out of grown folks' business
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