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re: If you get pulled over, do you answer seemingly innocuous questions?

Posted on 8/17/26 at 10:35 pm to
Posted by Purple Spoon
Hoth
Member since Feb 2005
21277 posts
Posted on 8/17/26 at 10:35 pm to
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This has gotten me many warnings


Same. More than a couple of times. One time I told a MSP “man it’s Friday I’m just excited to get home for the weekend” and he said slow it down for me yada yada.

And yes I answer basic questions but I’m vague also. If he ask me where I’m going I’ll just say families house or to get something to eat. If he asks more details like where at I’ll say downtown or something.

You can be respectful and give them very little. If you stonewall from the start you are just making it worse.


Unless you are really guilty of something in which case shut the frick up and wait for your lawyer
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
38341 posts
Posted on 8/17/26 at 11:01 pm to
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It’s a piece of cake to obtain bodycam footage these days, of course.

It’s also not if they don’t want it to be. It doesn’t exist if the department doesn’t like what’s in it outside of high profile incidents.

Anyone asking for the footage of their traffic stop is going to be told that it doesn’t exist. There’s no point.
Posted by Y.A. Tittle
Member since Sep 2003
111638 posts
Posted on 8/17/26 at 11:05 pm to
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Anyone asking for the footage of their traffic stop is going to be told that it doesn’t exist. There’s no point.


Not if they are in the process of charging that individual with the fantasy crime you are envisioning.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
85515 posts
Posted on 8/17/26 at 11:38 pm to
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Unless you are really guilty of something in which case shut the frick up and wait for your lawyer


Exactly. All this hard core “don’t answer a question and assert your rights!” is all fine if you’re accused of a real crime but it’s bad advice for a traffic stop. It’ll just earn you a ticket guaranteed.

Yes I’m a lawyer.
This post was edited on 8/18/26 at 10:48 am
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30962 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 12:31 am to
I was stopped this evening coming back from the Motley Crue show. I normally stay off the highway and stick to the back country roads as best I can. I see the cop lights aways out, up the hill, looks like multiple cars with flashers. Just a friendly license check at 0030. I stop.

Cop: Evening, Sir, we are conducting a license check, do you have your driver's license?
Me: Yes, Sir. Hands him license.
Cop: Where are you headed tonight?
Me: I'm just heading home.
Other Cop: You know your tag expires this month.
Me: Yes, Sir, I need to get her inspected and pay the registration. It's on my to do list this week.
Cop: Hands me license. Drive safe, Mr Alfonzo.
Me: Have a good night.

First time I've ever hit one of those on the road. Pretty easy encounter with police. Be legal, be respectful, be on your way.
Posted by Hondo Blacksheep
Member since Jul 2022
3538 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 12:36 am to
Either way, in my (admittedly few) encounters with law enforcement it is not difficult to comply, take my ticket or warning, and leave. Some people make this process waaay harder than it has to be.
Posted by RustyDaDog
BAOK
Member since Mar 2023
1138 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 1:17 am to
I’ll answer their questions, nothing to hide and I always answer with yes sir or ma’am depending on if they are a male or female officer.

Posted by CleverUserName
Member since Oct 2016
18102 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 5:20 am to
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it would be the officers word against yours and you would lose.


That's why you have a phone with the ability to record. And no you don't have to shove it in their face like a jackass. Just set it down somewhere that would be innocuous.

And you immediately request the camera footage from the car as well as the body worn camera.

Also, if they use a prolonged stop to search for something and find it, you better have an attorney welll before it got in front of a judge.
This post was edited on 8/18/26 at 5:26 am
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
5433 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 7:15 am to
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She asks me what I did to afford a nice car. I started getting irritated & told her something like "I went to school to do a job that paid well & I don't waste money on alcohol, tobacco, or terrible looking tattoos."

I guess she got it that I was talking about hers, started trying to lecture me about what she could do. I just sat there & looked straight ahead. Then he let me off with a warning explaining how generous she was to me.



sounds like you made a withdrawal from your White Privilege Account ... in the eyes of that "officer"
This post was edited on 8/18/26 at 9:01 am
Posted by Judnnc
Member since Jun 2025
890 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 7:25 am to
Was pulled and didn't know why. I refused to answer questions. Guy asked for my phone number, I refused and kept repeating "Am I being detained?" until he finally said I was. I asked him "Under suspicion of having commiting what crime"? Dude said prostitution LOL. NO idea where it came from and I didn't do a thing wrong but I wasn't going to sit there and be accosted because of that very fact.
Finally I just starting saying "Am I free to go" until he said yes. Dude was clearly trying to pin something on me and by not answering questions he had to let me go.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
17581 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 7:30 am to
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When he walks up to the car, my car window is already down and I have my DL and CCW cards together along with my insurance papers.

Yep, root around in the glove box, move your hands all over pulling your wallet out of your pocket on the same side most people have a firearm, all wise movements.

I've been carrying my wallet on my left side for 20 years to avoid having my hand anywhere near my firearm in the process of getting my ID. My wrists stay on the steering wheel until the cop tells me otherwise. I only get pulled over once every five years or so, and I've been doing the same thing for 3 decades.
Posted by Wayne Campbell
Aurora, IL
Member since Oct 2011
7452 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:15 am to
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Exactly. All this hard core “don’t answer a question and assert your rights!” is all fine if you’re accused of a real crime but it’s bad advice for a traffic stop.


I'm not advocating for being an a-hole. You can be polite and not answer the "Do you know how fast you were going," etc. line of questing. They know why they pulled you over, they know how fast they think you were going. You do nothing for yourself by giving them the information. A simple "I'm not exactly sure," is a perfectly fine response. Saying, "Its your job to know that," isn't.

I've been pulled over for speeding and rolling stops. I've gotten tickets some times and warnings other.

If they've already made up their mind to give you a ticket no amount of being polite is going to get you out of it. You can convince them to give you one by being an a-hole, though.
Posted by Cotten
Tennessee
Member since Jan 2018
1876 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:22 am to
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told him my gun was about six inches from my right hand. Made some weird crack about he has a gun too.

I’m always upfront with LEO about carrying as well and they almost always make the same joke, “don’t pull yours and I won’t pull mine”. I’m fairly certain they must teach that in the academy when it’s obvious you’re not a threat.
Posted by Don Quixote
Member since May 2023
5433 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:27 am to
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When he walks up to the car, my car window is already down and I have my DL and CCW cards together along with my insurance papers.


and both hands on the wheel at 11 and 1 o'clock, but I like Lemmy's idea of wrists resting on the wheel and will adopt that

disclosure is not required in my state, but I've always included my CCW along with other paperwork just to put them at ease that I've had a background check, etc; can't say for sure how many times it's helped but haven't had a ticket since I started doing that
This post was edited on 8/18/26 at 8:32 am
Posted by WavinWilly
Wavin Away in Sharlo
Member since Oct 2010
9095 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:33 am to
I generally try not to be an antagonistic a-hole, even if it is my right to do so.

I haven’t gotten pulled over since I was young and nowadays if I was and I told them something innocuous like where I was coming from and where I was going wouldn’t possibly matter.
Posted by HeartAttackTiger
Member since Sep 2009
615 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 8:58 am to
To do anything other than answer questions that require a very brief response and almost no effort would possibly make someone seem they are hiding something. Just my thoughts.

I do know there are a large % of people that think cops should not exist and there job must be a horrible life. With that said, they do have this job so the easiest thing is to provide requested info, answer very brief questions if asked, and move on.
Posted by CWS91
Baton Rouge
Member since Nov 2005
1208 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 9:13 am to
So is asking the cop what pocket he keeps his bullet in isn't a good idea?
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
11236 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 9:21 am to
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and both hands on the wheel at 11 and 1 o'clock,


I even roll the back windows down in my truck because they always want to check for any surprises in the back seat. Just never leave a door open if they ask you to exit the vehicle.

I think anyone with a clue knows when an interaction with a cop is going to go sideways. The simple fishing for an incrimination is just that, seeing if you will nibble to make their job easier. If he has pulled you over for speeding and you confess to speeding then you are already admitting guilt. If he asks you where you are coming from and you are dumb enough to say the bar, then you just gave them reason to question you more. Like Dalton says, just be nice and usually it all ends well. If they are really fishing, the poster above mentioned asking them if you are being detained is a great question to ask. If they answer yes, then you ask them for what charge? At that point, you quit answering everything and tell them you want your attorney present. .
Posted by Jenious
Member since Apr 2020
1039 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 10:37 am to
It's been a while since I've been asked those questions at a traffic stop but I usually just give vague answers.

Where are you headed? Home

Where are you coming from? Work

That way I'm not "difficult" but I'm also not giving them any more than they ask for. I still get a ticket though.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
69682 posts
Posted on 8/18/26 at 10:39 am to
I can promise you if you pull that move during a regular traffic stop your chances of getting off with a warning go down to zero.
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