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re: How regular are/were the words “I love you” used in your immediate family

Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:10 am to
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
8365 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:10 am to
Always, anytime I leave the house or they go to school , friends house, work, sleep. You never know when the last time you will see someone so make sure to know you loved them and like wise
Posted by nes2010
Member since Jun 2014
8213 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:11 am to
quote:

most of the time it is just said by rote, almost like 'goodbye'


We said it so much growing up it was like that. Which led to some embarrassing situations when I said it to girls I was dating but not serious with. No fun walking that back.
Posted by jose
Member since Feb 2009
29797 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:12 am to
quote:

Best feeling in the world is when your daughter is just hanging out on a lazy day and she says "Hey dad"... You think she's about to ask for a snack or water or something and she just says "Love you".



I tell my daughter I love her all day long. And it is the best thing when she just looks over and says I love you dad.
Posted by Go_Dawgs
Member since Nov 2012
1118 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:12 am to
My entire life thankfully

Was lucky to have a great childhood and a wonderful and supporting wife as well
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
110146 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:13 am to
With my husband: Everyday (to and from)
With my step-kid: Most of the time (to and from)

When I was younger in my immediate family: Almost never. Was usually told quite the opposite from Dad.
With my Dad now: He says it when he wants something.
Posted by lungbuster06
Member since Dec 2014
752 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:13 am to
When I was a kid, not often. As a husband and father, multiple times per day.

In my early 20's, I had a falling out with a buddy of a buddy. We never actually fought, but OT friendly words were exchanged. He passed away in a car wreck a few months later. That hurt, knowing I could never make amends with him for the last things I had said. I couldn't imagine for someone I actually love.
Posted by 32footsteps
Member since Oct 2017
717 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:16 am to
Never.

If anyone says it the response is “who’s dying?”
Posted by BK Lounge
Member since 1978
Member since Nov 2021
5698 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:17 am to
quote:

We said it so much growing up it was like that. Which led to some embarrassing situations when I said it to girls I was dating but not serious with. No fun walking that back.



I feel that .

Worse even than that though is accidentally saying to one of your buddies when leaving , or hanging up the phone.. hasn't happened to me, but ive had it happen to people I know.. but I have accidentally said it to my boss, which was extremely embarrassing .. At least my boss at that time was female .
Posted by HenryParsons
Member since Aug 2018
2211 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:17 am to
More with my kids than when I was a kid.

Posted by Everyday Is Saturday
Member since Dec 2025
2860 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:20 am to
quote:

Best feeling in the world is when your daughter is just hanging out on a lazy day and she says "Hey dad"... You think she's about to ask for a snack or water or something and she just says "Love you".


Hear that! Good stuff.

Two others for us:

1. When it kids tell one another
2. When son tells his grandparents in front of his friends or teammates (plays college football), without pause. Just normal.

Pretty cool stuff.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
152253 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:22 am to
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as a kid...rarely.
in my home...daily
Posted by FAP SAM
Member since Sep 2014
3274 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:29 am to
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As a kid, often felt, rarely said

In my family, often felt, often said.


I think this is why I show love by doing. We were absolutely loved as kids but it was always implied and rarely said. Also, the reason I am still uncomfortable expressing intimacy to this day, outside of my kids and wife.
Posted by Porter Osborne Jr
Member since Sep 2012
44486 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:33 am to
To my wife, multiple times a day. To my family and growing up? Only to my mom when we’re hanging up or leaving
Posted by bgtiger
SOLA
Member since Dec 2004
12394 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:41 am to
Always
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
2104 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:42 am to
With family, always; also most of the time with friends. Oddly enough, my sons impacted me with that; even in high school, they told their friends they loved them. They went to a very small school, so maybe that was a factor.
This post was edited on 11/6/26 at 10:47 am
Posted by OlGrandad
Member since Oct 2009
4856 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:44 am to
When I was getting a belt spanking from my dad he would say I am doing this out of love.

I once said to him please don't do it out of hate then.
Posted by Presidente
Member since Oct 2026
41 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:45 am to
It loses its meaning when you say it all the time.

I've never had a male relative in my life tell me they love me.
I'm kind of glad, that would be kind of cringy.

Heard it from mother/grandmothers quite often.
This post was edited on 11/6/26 at 10:47 am
Posted by VaeVictus
Member since Feb 2017
2096 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:45 am to
I tell my kids every day.
Posted by ob1pimpbobi
College Station
Member since Jul 2022
3601 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:45 am to
Always everyday. Everytime I speak to my kids who are off in college. My wife every day. In my childhood my parents never expressed love and affection. I made the conscious change to make sure my children know they are loved.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
110146 posts
Posted on 11/6/26 at 10:45 am to
quote:

It loses its meaning when you say it all the time.


No it doesn't.
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