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re: Guy ridicules dating profiles of 40-ish women who “want kids someday”
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:20 am to SquatchDawg
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:20 am to SquatchDawg
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So a late 30’s woman with kids is undesirable because “I don’t want to raise another man’s children” and this lady who is 39 with no kids is also undesirable because she’s being unrealistic about having kids someday?
Why are we making fun of a woman who hasn’t found the right guy yet to start a family? If I was single and a liberal I’d jump all over that.
Is this a serious question?
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Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:25 am to mahdragonz
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These women are in their 40s, but their surrogates will be in their 20s.
This is an extremely small number of people. First, their eggs are still 40 unless they had the forethought to freeze them, which most don't.
Second, they still need a 40-50 something man that wants small children, which most don't.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:26 am to SquatchDawg
quote:
So a late 30’s woman with kids is undesirable because “I don’t want to raise another man’s children” and this lady who is 39 with no kids is also undesirable because she’s being unrealistic about having kids someday?
Why are we making fun of a woman who hasn’t found the right guy yet to start a family? If I was single and a liberal I’d jump all over that.
Besides the biological issues and potential health concerns, how many 40-50-ish men want a newborn?
Most men that are that age and want to start a family are going to get a much younger woman.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:27 am to SquatchDawg
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So a late 30’s woman with kids is undesirable because “I don’t want to raise another man’s children” and this lady who is 39 with no kids is also undesirable because she’s being unrealistic about having kids someday?
Honestly, I think I’d rather have the woman in her 30s with kids assuming she actually knows what she wants and is realistic about it.
I’m sorry, there’s nothing believable about a 39 yo single woman saying “she wants kids someday”. Like others have said, she’s either lying or has no idea how this works. I would tear my hair out living with a woman and having no clue what kind of life she wants.
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Why are we making fun of a woman who hasn’t found the right guy yet to start a family? If I was single and a liberal I’d jump all over that.
I dunno dude. She doesn’t look like a woman that would need two whole decades to find a good man.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:27 am to RogerTheShrubber
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:27 am to Bjorn Cyborg
The bigger issue I see with her bio is "LIBERAL".
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:28 am to mahdragonz
quote:I swear, y’all live in a fantasy world.
These women are in their 40s, but their surrogates will be in their 20s.
Only ~750 surrogate births occur yearly in the USA.
quote:Not to mention, success is also ~60% as well (and that is only if I consider the 18,400 were singleton pregnancies).
Between 1999 and 2013, there were 30,927 surrogate pregnancies in the United States, 8,581 of which were singleton pregnancies, 4,566 were twin pregnancies, and 233 were triplet pregnancies, resulting in 13,380 deliveries, with a total of 18,400 infants born
The female population is being flat out lied to about the realities of this.
This post was edited on 1/9/24 at 9:34 am
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:29 am to 3nOut
Well yea, it exists everywhere. There are lots of women out there who want that. Lots of women still do it. It's a shame that it isn't what the cool kids want to do.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:34 am to BluegrassBelle
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A bunch of “you just haven’t found the right man” or worse type stuff.
From guys?
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:38 am to Oilfieldbiology
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From guys?
Yep.
shite like, “Well if you were with me, you’d want to have kids”. Or some variation of that.
Then just flat out trolling BS. It was pretty absurd.
I believe Match had it where you could just not answer some categories and it wouldn’t show up on your profile so I ended up opting for that. And then just having that conversation privately with someone legitimately interested.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:52 am to Scruffy
I was more referencing adoption when I said there are alternatives. Or does the board not support that anymore?
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:55 am to BluegrassBelle
Sounds like dumbasses trolling. One of the better parts of being a male in online dating was I just got ignored or women trying to convince me I was indeed not 5'10.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:56 am to ibldprplgld
quote:I discussed this.
I was more referencing adoption when I said there are alternatives. Or does the board not support that anymore?
How do you think adoption works?
Do you think it is easy to adopt a baby/infant?
There is no glut of babies/infants to adopt out there.
For every infant, there are apparently ~41 couples looking to adopt.
I guess you could go through “shady” agencies in foreign countries, but it isn’t a simple process.
Not to mention the cost, which can be more than $40,000.
Y’all live in this fantasy world where this is all easy and straightforward.
This post was edited on 1/9/24 at 10:00 am
Posted on 1/9/24 at 9:57 am to Darth_Vader
quote:
My sister quote:
she’s pretty hot quote:
I’d bang her and leave her.
I slowly scrolled back up after I read that hoping that it wasn’t a Bama fan.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 10:00 am to Scruffy
Speaking of old ladies having birth defect kids, what happened to retarded kids? Like back in the day they were super scary there was this one that would chase you down and beat you up and he was huge
Nowadays I feel like it’s all soft spoken “autistic” kids
Nowadays I feel like it’s all soft spoken “autistic” kids
Posted on 1/9/24 at 10:00 am to Scuttle But
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Is this a serious question?
Absolutely. After reading the “there are no women left” thread I don’t see a problem with a single attractive woman this age thinking she’d still like to have kids even though that window is closing rapidly.
The “liberal” piece notwithstanding …would you rather take a chance with her or some 40 yr old with multiple kids? I don’t have a problem with either at my age but don’t see all the vitriol for this woman that dared to check “maybe someday” in the drop down menu.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 10:01 am to Bjorn Cyborg
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Apparently lots of women either don’t understand biological clocks, or are just liars.
Apparently you're unaware of technology and adoption.
Since this chick is a liberal she doesn't mind aborting a few children if they have down syndrome. I ain't saying it's right, but it's the world we live in.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 10:01 am to GreatLakesTiger24
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probably pretty true for people who don't have a lot of money and/or family support tbh
Bruh you can bring your kids places. It’s not that complicated. It’s not a money thing. It’s a selfish thing. People want to live their same lives and never adjust anything.
Posted on 1/9/24 at 10:01 am to Bjorn Cyborg
quote:at 39 she still has a chance to have children
biological clocks
I know several women that didn’t have their first child until 42
Posted on 1/9/24 at 10:01 am to Limitlesstigers
quote:
1.) Quit voting for politicians that support economic policies that are pro-inflation and pro globalist (despite the "societal" push, a lot of people still want to marry and have kids but can't because it's not affordable).
2.) Divorce Reform: Get rid of the financial incentives for women to divorce. Get rid of no fault divorce and bring back divorce courts. Filer pays all fees (including the husband's) unless they can prove infidelity or abuse). Alimony is capped and length is shortened if not completely gotten rid of. Child support money should be put on a debit card that can only be used for things like food and childcare, kid's clothes, and medicine.
3.) A childcare tax credit that only married couples can get. Maybe fund it taxes and fees on things that are harmful to families.
Oh man...where to start...
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