Started By
Message

re: Guy ridicules dating profiles of 40-ish women who “want kids someday”

Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:21 am to
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:21 am to
quote:

On a side note, this is an interesting phenomenon because it's never really existed during our evolutionary process.

I will probably be dead before we can conclude anything, but it's a very interesting subject to me.


What's the mystery?

Hot women who have the body of 20 year olds, whether it be through hard work or modern medicine, who don't act like 20 year old women
This post was edited on 1/9/24 at 8:23 am
Posted by baobabtiger
Member since May 2009
4954 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:21 am to
I grew up with some ladies like these. All over 40, all good careers, all educated, and all unhappy. A few have adopted or gotten pregnant and have baby daddies. They were always adamant about being independent and they are.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
With populists, expect populism
Member since Jan 2004
477263 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:23 am to
quote:

What's the mystery?

We're introducing a status that has never existed in our evolutionary history. It could have impacts on how we further evolve in what our biology finds attractive/desired in women. And if THAT changes happens, we will evolve in how we create our societies moving forward.

Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53541 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:25 am to
quote:

Grandkids are awesome. I fly some of mine up every summer and cant wait.

We hope we'll have some down the road. It's kind of hard to believe we'll probably be empty nesters in 1.5 years.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:26 am to
quote:

I grew up with some ladies like these. All over 40, all good careers, all educated, and all unhappy.


The modern lifestyle is fighting against natural instincts.

Were fighters, doers, creators and have been reduced to replaceable worker drones. The life Hollywood sells goes against our natural instincts which explains the anxiety and depression.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60726 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:27 am to
quote:

All they have to do is give up their productive careers and move to some suburb like Youngsville, baw.
I get it. No judgment on my end. It’s just an unfortunate system we created
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60726 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:29 am to
quote:

Hot women who have the body of 20 year olds,
maybe 30 year olds
Posted by LSUtiger89
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2007
4701 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:29 am to
quote:

They may have eggs frozen I can see that being common from educated professionals in urban areas


I know quite a few professional women that have done this.
Plus step kids can still be considered kids one day.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:32 am to
quote:

Plus step kids can still be considered kids one day.


Zoomers are parents to dogs. I love dogs, but "Dog Dad and Dog Mom" are pretty goddamned pathetic.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:33 am to
quote:

We're introducing a status that has never existed in our evolutionary history. It could have impacts on how we further evolve in what our biology finds attractive/desired in women. And if THAT changes happens, we will evolve in how we create our societies moving forward.



Well I'm no evolutionary biologist but the overeducated white women with no kids and a hot body at age 40 is almost purely a western phenomenon and we're being outbread at a pretty alarming rate.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:35 am to
quote:

maybe 30 year olds


Fair enough
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:35 am to
quote:



Well I'm no evolutionary biologist but the overeducated white women with no kids and a hot body at age 40 is almost purely a western phenomenon and we're being outbread at a pretty alarming rate.


White folks are checking out. Will be a minority in this country in a couple of decades. There is a disconnect between educated and intelligent.

Educated white folks are killing off their bloodlines willingly.
This post was edited on 1/9/24 at 8:36 am
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
72113 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:38 am to
Until we go back to stay at home young mothers it won't reverse.

Fat chance of that ever happening.
Posted by Scuttle But
Member since Nov 2023
1301 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:39 am to
quote:

Zoomers are parents to dogs. I love dogs, but "Dog Dad and Dog Mom" are pretty goddamned pathetic.


I dated a woman in her mid 30's for a little over a year who got mad I didn't get her a mother's day gift. During the argument about why I didn't get her a mother's day gift I said "well, you aren't a mother." To which she responded "I'm a dog mom!!!!"

This woman had a degree in political science from UCSD and Masters from Stanford in Latin American studies and was fluent in both Spanish and French. Quite possibly one of the most brilliant woman I've ever met and yet so stupid.

She's a US diplomat working in US embassies and will eventually help shape US foreign policy. It's terrifying.
This post was edited on 1/9/24 at 8:42 am
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10735 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:39 am to
quote:

a lie that their career is most important
A lot of men sacrifice family time for work.
Posted by Bjorn Cyborg
Member since Sep 2016
35579 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:41 am to
quote:

The UVA woman is 39 - she has years to have children. What is your point?


Others have answered your question, but to add: She's single. She is still looking for a man. She's not having a child at 39. Even if she meets her mate in the next 6 months, gets married six months later, then starts trying to have a child, she could easily be in her early-to-mid 40s before she ever gets pregnant - if she can even get pregnant.

I think the guy's point is that these women probably don't want children, but they are saying that to attract a man that's probably looking for a younger woman that can have children.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42312 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:41 am to
quote:

If nobody asked them to marry, they were dating a dream man that was never going to marry them or passed up on stable 5-7s in search of something better that didn’t come along.

ETA: I’m not a MGTOW guy. I got married young and think most people would be better off doing the same. I just think women looking for children at 37+ were sold a false dream.


The fear of commitment to a genuinely good partner in the hopes of finding perfect is a huge issue with young professionals today. It’s not just men or just women.

I’m thankful I married young and had kids in my 20’s. Now in my 30’s and my kids are in elementary school I find it enjoyable (unless I want to strangle them). I do not want to have an infant and I’m only 36
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
32407 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:43 am to
quote:


Educated white folks are killing off their bloodlines willingly.




there's context to that in the idea that Jaffe and Planned Parenthood did say "these are just ideas for willing people" so i don't want to say this was a concept forced on people, but there was definitely an concerted effort to push it for most of the latter part of the 20th century.
Posted by 3nOut
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Jan 2013
32407 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:45 am to
quote:

Until we go back to stay at home young mothers it won't reverse.

Fat chance of that ever happening.




there is a small and growing movement of TradWife out there on X and tiktok.

not saying it's organic or pure, but it does exist.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
173802 posts
Posted on 1/9/24 at 8:47 am to
quote:

A lot of men sacrifice family time for work.

Right. The man does it so both parents don't have to
Jump to page
Page First 5 6 7 8 9 ... 20
Jump to page
first pageprev pagePage 7 of 20Next pagelast page

Back to top
logoFollow TigerDroppings for LSU Football News
Follow us on X, Facebook and Instagram to get the latest updates on LSU Football and Recruiting.

FacebookXInstagram