re: Guy ridicules dating profiles of 40-ish women who “want kids someday”

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believe it those are the dice you roll if you’re in your 40s and have a younger wife. She’s probably going to want kids. I had a baby in my late 30s with a husband over 45. I’m grateful our son is healthy and smart, and we love him more than anything. I also highly recommend people have kids while they’re young if at all possible. It sure as hell doesn’t get easier with age.

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What’s the running joke about hangovers in your 20’s versus 30’s versus 40’s?


Same is true for interrupted/poor sleep nights

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Guy ridicules dating profiles of 40-ish women

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Always wondered if posters here recognized their ex wives on Bumble. Anyone?

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A trend many millennial men are bucking. I know quite a few that reach the point of “capable to provide for my family” and putting career advancement on pause until kids are out the house.

I would avoid this woman like the plague simply for the "liberal" attribute in her profile.

I hope she never has kids or decides to abort if and when she does get pregnant. All good liberals should abort every child they potentially birth.

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ots of birth defect risks go up exponentially as you approach and cross 40.

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I know a family where the kids popped out like normal in the mid to late 20's for a decent sized family, a drought in the 30's, and then boom in the early 40's the mom had a late one.

The child one came out like a red sheep. The child was large and grew very tall and big compared to rest of the family, but luckily no birth defects that I could tell.

If I was the father, at some point I would be asking questions.

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So a late 30’s woman with kids is undesirable because “I don’t want to raise another man’s children” and this lady who is 39 with no kids is also undesirable because she’s being unrealistic about having kids someday?

Why are we making fun of a woman who hasn’t found the right guy yet to start a family? If I was single and a liberal I’d jump all over that.

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That's the point the guy on Twitter is making. These women are lying. They are mostly well-educated and probably know that they are near the end of their biological clocks. But they would exclude a large portion of the dating pool, so they say they want kids, when they don't.

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I’m genuinely curious if they’re also doing this because of shitty messages they’re getting when they put that they don’t want kids.

When I was app dating in my 30s, I had on my profile that I didn’t want biological children (but didn’t mind if someone already had kids). And I got messages daily harassing the hell out of me over it. A bunch of “you just haven’t found the right man” or worse type stuff.

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Poor people and Rich people have different biological clocks.... I can tell which category you fall into.

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The stats don't really back that up, but go for it bro.