re: Guy ridicules dating profiles of 40-ish women who “want kids someday”

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Biology is biology, and as much as some people want to say we have evolved in some way, we really haven't. At your age, you have to date intentionally with your relationship/family goals in mind. There's nothing wrong with that at all. In fact, it's normal. Or society does not match education and humanity. We keep pushing back the average age of marriage, but truthfully, women need to start having their babies in their 20's, for the most part. But, muh career.

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Have an upvote from a married woman in her early 40’s with 3 kids. I also have a successful career and make good money. It’s possible to do both (within reason), but you have to project manage building a family the same way you project manage building a career. Biology is biology. I wish more younger women would be taught that. I wouldn’t even date guys in college who said they didn’t want a family someday. Let them go; they don’t align with your life goals. A guy who says he wants kids but won’t marry and start a family by your late 20s is probably stringing you along. Move on; he doesn’t align with your life goals. And any career/workplace that won’t give you the space to be both a mom and a productive employee doesn’t align with your life goals. Move on.