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re: Why don't High Schools have classes regarding the legal & financial impact of marriage ?

Posted on 6/6/26 at 6:33 am to
Posted by WhiskeyThief
Madisonville
Member since Oct 2018
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Posted on 6/6/26 at 6:33 am to
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You really want the average public high school teacher nowadays teaching their version to your kids?


Good point, let’s put the male coaches on this classroom duty
Posted by TrueTiger
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Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:09 am to
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Because no men would ever get married!


Most of them already know our divorce system makes marriage a risky business decision for men.

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This post was edited on 6/6/26 at 7:13 am
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
Member since May 2012
60970 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:19 am to
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Elementary school would be much like it is now, but after about sixth grade most academic classes should be online and students should transition to self-learning at their own pace. They don't want to move forward and learn, fine, that's their business and their responsibility. They could return to school any time they wanted. Like the lessons themselves, all tests would be standardized so as to eliminate bias or accusations of favoritism or "inferior schools." Tutors could be available to help students who were stuck on something, and they could also teach the labs for the subjects in which a laboratory environment would be necessary to complete a course. Other than labs or tutoring, which could be done in one building on a campus that would need several under the current system, students just go to school online. Even with providing a student with a new laptop every 3-4 years and internet access, it would still be MUCH cheaper. It would be more like a public library where the government was making the information available and the citizenry was choosing to avail themselves of it (or not).

this is fricking retarded
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
56270 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:28 am to
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Because parents aren't well versed on Prenups, Contract Law etc.
That's like saying why teach Chemistry, Physics, Calculus because "what are parents for?"

This is exactly right. I had four kids and I had no idea about a “ten year rule”.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
56270 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:30 am to
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The same as with any other class.
There would be teachers educated on the subject, the same way that they have teachers educated in Chemistry, Physics, Mathematics.


You are wasting your time. Once they start making moronic arguments, that they know are stupid, they will never quit.
Posted by evil cockroach
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Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:34 am to
I think the Catholic Church , nowadays, does a decent job of getting couples ready for marriage. Wife and I had to do readiness testing and visited a sponsor married couple. That was very helpful as they laid out all the unique things that come in marriage that you don’t think about while you’re dating or engaged.
Posted by el Gaucho
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Member since Dec 2010
59431 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:37 am to
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then teach them

They can’t because the graduation twerkers are disruptive and the teacher can’t kick them out of class
Posted by UKWildcats
Lexington, KY
Member since Mar 2015
20191 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:38 am to
Because that is a parents responsibility OP. Simple
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42439 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:40 am to
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Your dad sat you down and taught you the legal and financial impact of divorce? How old were you when you guys had that talk?


As I got older and went through high school we talked about marriage and what to look for in a wife. We talked about why my parents marriage worked and talked about how working at it is required if you want it to last.

No we never talked about the legal and financial impacts of divorce but we talked about what it takes to make a good marriage.

If more people sat raised their sons and daughters to be good, selfless people and had these types of conversations the financial and legal impact of divorce wouldn’t be a topic that was needed to be explicitly covered as a financial transaction in school.
Posted by PhiTiger1764
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Posted on 6/6/26 at 7:57 am to
I could not disagree more with the OP.

I think high schools should push heavily the value of getting married, and not just getting married, but the importance of having kids and how the nuclear family is the most important aspect of a successful, civilized society.

The discussion should not revolve around prenups and legal implications of anything - because that’s a focus on mitigating impacts should things go wrong.

The discussion should be about having a number 1 life goal of having a nuclear family and finding the right partner to make that happen - with the focus on doing everything you possibly can to make sure things go right.
Posted by Bayou Warrior 64
Member since Feb 2021
1002 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 8:02 am to
It is probably a bit more important that this is learned in the HOME. Not too wise to rely on the nanny state to provide direction on fundamental issues in life.
Posted by Sofaking2
Member since Apr 2023
21600 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 8:18 am to
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quote: Women are incentivized to leave marriages by the court. They get the kids and a monthly check. I was waiting for this And it’s not true Which is why it shouldn’t be taught because there is no consistency to what is done in divorce court

Women get custody around 80-90% of the time. The statistics on single dads raising kids are similar to a 2 parent homes. The statistics are not as good for single moms. I’d say more boys should definitely be with their dads as far as custody. That’s just one stat. Alimony should be eliminated. Child support is no problem.
Posted by Motownsix
NOLA
Member since Oct 2022
3302 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 8:36 am to
Why don't High Schools have classes regarding the legal & financial impact of marriage ?

The list of things people think schools should teach is way too long. Parents should teach their kids some of the basic life skills including:
Basic finance
Hygiene
Nutrition
House maintenance
Car maintenance
Secks
Religion
Posted by wackatimesthree
Member since Oct 2019
14055 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:01 am to
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this is fricking retarded


No, it's really not.

College is basically a choice now. You can get an entire degree online. If you can do that at the college level, why not at the high school, junior high level.

That plan would be WAY cheaper, would eliminate disparities among school districts, would standardize the entire system, would make it much easier for people to go back to school to get their diplomas, would stop schools from basically being welfare distribution centers and indoctrination centers for woke ideology, it would stop students whose parents don't care about them learning from being disruptive and keeping other students from learning, and most importantly, it would return freedom and responsibility to the citizen.

Have you ever stopped ponder how it is even Constitutional for the state to mandate that your child report to a central location for eight hours a day, five days a week, 10 months a year for 13 years? It's involuntary conscription.

Probably not. Because IME the people who object to such a plan are either:

1. Teachers
2. Parents who don't want to give up the "free babysitting"
3. Or just dullards who can't imagine doing something different than what has always been done

You might be the second. You're definitely the third.
Posted by wackatimesthree
Member since Oct 2019
14055 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:02 am to
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If more people sat raised their sons and daughters to be good, selfless people and had these types of conversations the financial and legal impact of divorce wouldn’t be a topic that was needed to be explicitly covered as a financial transaction in school.


I agree.

What's your plan to make that happen?
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42439 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:07 am to
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What's your plan to make that happen?


Talk to my kids about it and show them what a functional marriage looks like by living it.

It’s a parent’s responsibility to educate their children, not the state’s. I feel the same about taxes, politics, government, math, and science.

It’s why I’m so involved in my kids lives education and school work. It’s why I never shy away from speaking facts about political races, government structures, and individual responsibilities.

Stop expecting school to teach kids everything
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
42439 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:11 am to
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I'm fine with public education being completely overhauled. It's definitely obsolete. Elementary school would be much like it is now, but after about sixth grade most academic classes should be online and students should transition to self-learning at their own pace.

I have personal experience with an online elementary, middle, and high school. It works for some kids and is a disaster for others.

You have to be incredibly self disciplined and motivated to succeed. Also, it’s INCREDIBLY easy to cheat using AI. If you have parents that stay on top of the kids, like extremely involved, it’s great.
Posted by BDPops85
Member since Mar 2020
403 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:15 am to
Took a “law” class elective in HS. We did do some useless stuff like a mock trial but also covered lease agreements, credit cards and other contracts which was useful.
Posted by Hobie101
Member since May 2012
1155 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:18 am to
Well for starters, many high schoolers haven’t mastered reading and writing
Posted by TigerintheNO
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2004
45110 posts
Posted on 6/6/26 at 9:21 am to
3 easy things you can do that will guarantee that you aren't poor in America-

1) graduate High School

2) no children until you are married

3) do not get married until 21
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