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re: Why do people never leave the area that they grew up in?

Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:36 am to
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
93541 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:36 am to
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some people care more about family than careers.

can actually have a great family life and a great career, seent it, just(and I hate this term,) have to think outside the box
Posted by northshorebamaman
Mackinac Island
Member since Jul 2009
38560 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:38 am to
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some people care more about family than careers. Some people have good families. Others have sucky families and can't wait to get away from them.
My family is fine but has always been pretty nomadic so I don't really have a hometown or roots to hang around. For me 'home is where I keep my shite' and that's about it.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:39 am to
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Yea the food sucks in a city that is recognized as one of the best food cities in the country
Yup. I ate out every lunch and dinner, like I said, for almost two months

I didn't even visit friends as much as I wanted to, or go out to bars as often as I wanted, because everything was so far away. Uber/Lyft was cheap as hell, but everything is just too far away
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 10:42 am
Posted by GREENHEAD22
Member since Nov 2009
21023 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:43 am to
Family is the only reason and if the right opportunity would come up in the right location I would try to go.

There is not a lot offered by LA and the hunting and fishing is only going to get worse.
Posted by Suntiger
STG or BR or somewhere else
Member since Feb 2007
36305 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:50 am to
Unambitious Loser With Happy, Fulfilling Life Still Lives In Hometown

Pew Research Center

It really depends on the individual. I moved away, but that’s because there aren’t many work opportunities at home. I’m also really independent, like to travel, and don’t keep up with many of my high school or college friends.

But why move one place over another? What makes this place better than that place? Why not leave the country? The answer is different for different people.

Case in point:
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HTX is 100x better than nola


Not for everyone. Maybe you have a job at your hometown bank or auto parts store or family business and have friends and family nearby. Maybe in Houston you struggle to get find a job and make friends. Depends on the person.
Posted by touchdownjeebus
Member since Sep 2010
26787 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:51 am to
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Yea the food sucks in a city that is recognized as one of the best food cities in the country.


Dafuq?
Posted by OKTGR580
Baton Rouge to Houston, TX
Member since Apr 2018
6318 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:57 am to
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because they're smart. Stay around your own kind. Same music, food, language, race, extended family. Everyone gets along. Having family close by is very important.


What if you don’t care about All that? Also, what if seeing your family once or twice a month is plenty?
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 10:59 am
Posted by OKTGR580
Baton Rouge to Houston, TX
Member since Apr 2018
6318 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:58 am to
Best food cities 2018

Can’t make this up. You really think the 4th largest city in the USA doesn’t have great food options?
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43525 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:59 am to
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Fwiw, making family recipes or Louisiana food can be done outside of the confines of where you grew up. Not that hard to learn and make it on your own.


I've perfected my gumbo in DFW to the point where people ask for it.
Posted by OKTGR580
Baton Rouge to Houston, TX
Member since Apr 2018
6318 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:00 am to
Exactly. Good dishes like gumbo or jambalaya can be made anywhere as long as you stick to the traditional south La way to cook them.


No fricking tomatoes.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:02 am to
Not to mention any Louisiana food item you want can be obtained, you just have to pay a little extra.

We do a crawfish boil once a year, and I have andouille shipped up frequently for gumbo and jambalaya.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99034 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:03 am to
I’d move away if I had to but why would I leave all of my family and friends by choice?
Posted by Saint Alfonzo
Member since Jan 2019
30926 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:06 am to
I would think that family has a lot to do with it. And there's nothing wrong with that. Personally, I've always had a bit of wanderlust.
Posted by hubertcumberdale
Member since Nov 2009
7858 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:06 am to
LOL I know so many people who left my hometown (BR) and went to college at some out of state school only to come back and work for their parents and often times get married to someone else from their hometown.

Moving away definitely does not make one 'grow' as a person, and in some cases, it probably has negative benefits to their personality
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86480 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:06 am to
I would never leave Dinhim. Or Ascinscion. Or wherever it is that I live. Not fer a day. They ain’t got all this meth and cracklin ennywhere else. Plus we got Walton and Johnson and ya can gig frogs at night. Valhalla right here, baby.
Posted by hubertcumberdale
Member since Nov 2009
7858 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:13 am to
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Yea the food sucks in a city that is recognized as one of the best food cities in the country. 45 minutes away? Dude quit being dramatic. Some things are 45 mins but not EVERYTHING. HTX is 100x better than nola


I have lived both places, NOLA is 100x better than HTX in every regard other than public schools
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27902 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:16 am to
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Moving away definitely does not make one 'grow' as a person, and in some cases, it probably has negative benefits to their personality


Say more words. Because this makes zero sense on its face.
Posted by NIH
Member since Aug 2008
124828 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:17 am to
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I’d move away if I had to but why would I leave all of my family and friends by choice?


I used to think this until Lafayette became an economic dumpster fire
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43525 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:17 am to
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NOLA is 100x better than HTX in every regard other than public schools


You dont really believe this do you?


Cant believe im sticking up for Houston
Posted by cyarrr
Prairieville
Member since Jun 2017
4342 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:20 am to
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Even if where you grew up is a nice place, I think it’s good to branch out and live somewhere else for at least a year or two to grow as a person.


Maybe it's because they are happy where they are. I've traveled extensively and despite being exposed to different places I have never felt the urge to move away. I like it here, family, friends, familiarity... For whatever reason, it's home and where I wan't to be.
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 11:28 am
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