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re: Why do people never leave the area that they grew up in?
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:36 am to arcalades
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:36 am to arcalades
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some people care more about family than careers.
can actually have a great family life and a great career, seent it, just(and I hate this term,) have to think outside the box
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:38 am to arcalades
quote:My family is fine but has always been pretty nomadic so I don't really have a hometown or roots to hang around. For me 'home is where I keep my shite' and that's about it.
some people care more about family than careers. Some people have good families. Others have sucky families and can't wait to get away from them.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:39 am to OKTGR580
quote:Yup. I ate out every lunch and dinner, like I said, for almost two months
Yea the food sucks in a city that is recognized as one of the best food cities in the country
I didn't even visit friends as much as I wanted to, or go out to bars as often as I wanted, because everything was so far away. Uber/Lyft was cheap as hell, but everything is just too far away
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 10:42 am
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:43 am to OKTGR580
Family is the only reason and if the right opportunity would come up in the right location I would try to go.
There is not a lot offered by LA and the hunting and fishing is only going to get worse.
There is not a lot offered by LA and the hunting and fishing is only going to get worse.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:50 am to OKTGR580
Unambitious Loser With Happy, Fulfilling Life Still Lives In Hometown
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It really depends on the individual. I moved away, but that’s because there aren’t many work opportunities at home. I’m also really independent, like to travel, and don’t keep up with many of my high school or college friends.
But why move one place over another? What makes this place better than that place? Why not leave the country? The answer is different for different people.
Case in point:
Not for everyone. Maybe you have a job at your hometown bank or auto parts store or family business and have friends and family nearby. Maybe in Houston you struggle to get find a job and make friends. Depends on the person.
Pew Research Center
It really depends on the individual. I moved away, but that’s because there aren’t many work opportunities at home. I’m also really independent, like to travel, and don’t keep up with many of my high school or college friends.
But why move one place over another? What makes this place better than that place? Why not leave the country? The answer is different for different people.
Case in point:
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HTX is 100x better than nola
Not for everyone. Maybe you have a job at your hometown bank or auto parts store or family business and have friends and family nearby. Maybe in Houston you struggle to get find a job and make friends. Depends on the person.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:51 am to OKTGR580
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Yea the food sucks in a city that is recognized as one of the best food cities in the country.
Dafuq?
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:57 am to GeorgePaton
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because they're smart. Stay around your own kind. Same music, food, language, race, extended family. Everyone gets along. Having family close by is very important.
What if you don’t care about All that? Also, what if seeing your family once or twice a month is plenty?
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 10:59 am
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:58 am to touchdownjeebus
Best food cities 2018
Can’t make this up. You really think the 4th largest city in the USA doesn’t have great food options?
Can’t make this up. You really think the 4th largest city in the USA doesn’t have great food options?
Posted on 3/6/19 at 10:59 am to OKTGR580
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Fwiw, making family recipes or Louisiana food can be done outside of the confines of where you grew up. Not that hard to learn and make it on your own.
I've perfected my gumbo in DFW to the point where people ask for it.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:00 am to 50_Tiger
Exactly. Good dishes like gumbo or jambalaya can be made anywhere as long as you stick to the traditional south La way to cook them.
No fricking tomatoes.
No fricking tomatoes.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:02 am to OKTGR580
Not to mention any Louisiana food item you want can be obtained, you just have to pay a little extra.
We do a crawfish boil once a year, and I have andouille shipped up frequently for gumbo and jambalaya.
We do a crawfish boil once a year, and I have andouille shipped up frequently for gumbo and jambalaya.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:03 am to OKTGR580
I’d move away if I had to but why would I leave all of my family and friends by choice?
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:06 am to OKTGR580
I would think that family has a lot to do with it. And there's nothing wrong with that. Personally, I've always had a bit of wanderlust.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:06 am to OKTGR580
LOL I know so many people who left my hometown (BR) and went to college at some out of state school only to come back and work for their parents and often times get married to someone else from their hometown.
Moving away definitely does not make one 'grow' as a person, and in some cases, it probably has negative benefits to their personality
Moving away definitely does not make one 'grow' as a person, and in some cases, it probably has negative benefits to their personality
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:06 am to OKTGR580
I would never leave Dinhim. Or Ascinscion. Or wherever it is that I live. Not fer a day. They ain’t got all this meth and cracklin ennywhere else. Plus we got Walton and Johnson and ya can gig frogs at night. Valhalla right here, baby.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:13 am to OKTGR580
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Yea the food sucks in a city that is recognized as one of the best food cities in the country. 45 minutes away? Dude quit being dramatic. Some things are 45 mins but not EVERYTHING. HTX is 100x better than nola
I have lived both places, NOLA is 100x better than HTX in every regard other than public schools
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:16 am to hubertcumberdale
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Moving away definitely does not make one 'grow' as a person, and in some cases, it probably has negative benefits to their personality
Say more words. Because this makes zero sense on its face.
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:17 am to yellowfin
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I’d move away if I had to but why would I leave all of my family and friends by choice?
I used to think this until Lafayette became an economic dumpster fire
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:17 am to hubertcumberdale
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NOLA is 100x better than HTX in every regard other than public schools
You dont really believe this do you?
Cant believe im sticking up for Houston
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:20 am to OKTGR580
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Even if where you grew up is a nice place, I think it’s good to branch out and live somewhere else for at least a year or two to grow as a person.
Maybe it's because they are happy where they are. I've traveled extensively and despite being exposed to different places I have never felt the urge to move away. I like it here, family, friends, familiarity... For whatever reason, it's home and where I wan't to be.
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 11:28 am
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