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re: Why do people never leave the area that they grew up in?

Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:20 am to
Posted by oleyeller
Vols, Bitch
Member since Oct 2012
32608 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:20 am to
grass isnt always greener on the other side
Posted by slackster
Houston
Member since Mar 2009
91871 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:28 am to
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Most of the world sucks just as much as the shitty town everyone grew up in.


A lot of truth to this.

It reminds me of fishing in a bayou - people on the bank typically try to cast to the opposite bank. They'd be just as successful fishing on their own bank. The grass isn't always greener, and so on and so forth.

ETA - , I see I'm about 8 minutes too late with that grass isn't always greener quip.
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 11:29 am
Posted by hubertcumberdale
Member since Nov 2009
7858 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:32 am to
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quote:
NOLA is 100x better than HTX in every regard other than public schools


You dont really believe this do you?


Cant believe im sticking up for Houston


In defense of NOLA, I lived uptown and loved being able to walk to neighborhood bars and awesome restaurants, that are small. There was also always something going on in the city. HTX didnt really have anything like that in my experience. All the bars were huge and everything very commercial.

Also hate how big HTX is. NOLA is def more manageable getting across town than HTX.
Posted by Geauxboy
NW Arkansas
Member since Oct 2006
4856 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:40 am to
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I'm not against moving off one day


Stock up on Spudnuts and trips to Farmerville for Johnnys
Posted by 50_Tiger
Arlington TX
Member since Jan 2016
43518 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:42 am to
quote:

In defense of NOLA, I lived uptown and loved being able to walk to neighborhood bars and awesome restaurants, that are small. There was also always something going on in the city. HTX didnt really have anything like that in my experience. All the bars were huge and everything very commercial.



Okay thats a fair assessment. Texas in general isnt a state for you.
Posted by phutureisyic
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2016
3618 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:44 am to
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There's a big world out there. Try and get our of your tiny little corner and experience the rest of it.


I do and it's called traveling. I don't have to move to experience the rest of the world.
Posted by Klark Kent
Houston via BR
Member since Jan 2008
75881 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 11:45 am to
family
friends
complacency
fear of change

could be one of a number of reasons
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
99034 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 12:34 pm to
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I used to think this until Lafayette became an economic dumpster fire


I guess it is if you’re tied to the oil and gas industry.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 12:47 pm to
if where you grew up is a nice place, there is never any reason to move now is there

if where you grew up changes and is no longer a nice place, then you move

assuming you should move for no reason at all just so you can find out if you will be as happy or less happy then where you moved from is the definition of being a moron

move for a reason, if you dont have a reason then stay where you are happy at
Posted by Areddishfish
The Wild West
Member since Oct 2015
6538 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:01 pm to
My wife and I are living away from home. The rest of our siblings aren't. It is a tad inconvenient with a 5 month old not having instant access to family members that would watch her, but otherwise I like having the space.
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
8088 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:03 pm to
I know a guy who went three hours away for college. He got homesick, came back home after one night away, and enrolled at his local university.
Posted by STEVED00
Member since May 2007
23180 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:04 pm to
Family support is a big reason especially if you have kids. Grandma is a lot cheaper babysitting option then some HS kid.
Posted by Nicky Parrish
Member since Apr 2016
7098 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:23 pm to
Because it’s home?
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33964 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:35 pm to
Inertia can be irresistible to some, whether you're talking about where you're living, your job, your relationship, whatever.

People are apprehensive of the unknown.

I moved around a lot when I was young so I learned pretty early on that just about everywhere else is better than Louisiana.
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 1:36 pm
Posted by DownshiftAndFloorIt
Here
Member since Jan 2011
72707 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:43 pm to
I make a good living, I have a nice place, my family and friends are nearby.

I've traveled and nothing I've seen beats home.
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
40491 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:46 pm to
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Texas





Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
299716 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:48 pm to
If they enjoy it, more power to them.
Posted by BayouFann
CenLa
Member since Jun 2012
7230 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:49 pm to
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for me personally, I couldn't get out fast enough, I have friends that have never left a 5 mile radius from mama's house in their lives

I left less than a month after hs graduation in 99. Just came back to La four years ago. Folks really don’t understand how much living abroad expands your mind and life.
Posted by VADawg
Wherever
Member since Nov 2011
48897 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 1:54 pm to
My family is very important to me, and I love my hometown, but it was starting to feel kind of stale. My time in Ohio seemed like it had run its course and I felt like it was time to move on. I got a better job opportunity and took it.

I understand both sides of the coin. I have family in small town Ohio who have never left and have no desire to because they thought it was a great place to raise their kids.
This post was edited on 3/6/19 at 1:56 pm
Posted by MWP
Kingwood, TX via Monroe, LA
Member since Jul 2013
11218 posts
Posted on 3/6/19 at 2:15 pm to
Most people in Monroe have never left other than the few that went to LSU but it was like their oxygen supply was gonna run out in BR so they came right back. I know several people from here that honestly have never even left the state
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