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re: What qualities did you look for in your spouse?
Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:12 am to BurningHeart
Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:12 am to BurningHeart
Hot girl with low self esteem.
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Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:33 am to crazyatthecamp
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Be on the same page for religion and politics and money or you will have constant tension. Constant.
Especially religion/money.
Politics can work if one person is political and the other doesn't give much of a shite. Which is rare to find these days, but there are still folks out there who just don't care about politics, and I find it refreshing.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:44 am to Lsupimp
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I went for smoking hot, volcanically angry, impossibly irrational, consistently ungrateful, verbally and emotionally abusive , jealous and controlling
Did you marry my ex girlfriend??
Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:47 am to BurningHeart
Someone who was willing to put up with my shite until one of us dies. Someone who has the same life goals. And someone who is down to get down when it’s time to get down.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:51 am to TbirdSpur2010
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Especially religion/money.
Politics can work if one person is political and the other doesn't give much of a shite.
My wife and I differ on politics and religion. She doesn't care about politics at all. Hates it actually and bitches anytime I'm watching something on the TV that's political. We just don't talk about politics, so it works. She votes, and I've never asked her who she voted for, but she knows who I've voted for.
I'm indifferent on religion, while she claims to be religious. But as soon as I mention going to church, she's all "does that mean I have to get up early on Sunday?!!?" so the conversation stops there.
But we both come from families where the mom was religious and the dad was indifferent, so I guess she's used to that since her dad never went to church.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 11:56 am to BurningHeart
For starters, she has to be able to piss in the shower.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 12:12 pm to 4LSU2
Boobs
Posted on 1/17/20 at 12:18 pm to TDsngumbo
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Don’t “search” for anything in particular. When you find someone who’s right, you will just know.
says the divorced guy lmao the cringe on this thread
Posted on 1/17/20 at 12:35 pm to The Spleen
Ah that makes a lot of sense regarding church/religion.
My wife couldn't give less of a shite about politics. I'm very interested in the political sphere, but it's not something we talk about. She's conservative if you talk to her about issues, and she votes Republican when we go to the ballot box, but after casting her vote, she goes back to caring about other shite.
My wife couldn't give less of a shite about politics. I'm very interested in the political sphere, but it's not something we talk about. She's conservative if you talk to her about issues, and she votes Republican when we go to the ballot box, but after casting her vote, she goes back to caring about other shite.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 12:55 pm to BurningHeart
full set of teeth
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:14 pm to BurningHeart
Doesn't matter. They all change after the kids come.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:16 pm to BurningHeart
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other's gaps
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Wondering if I should try someone who has an opposite personality so we fill gaps.
Agreed, she needs a thigh gap or I'm not interested
This post was edited on 1/17/20 at 2:17 pm
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:21 pm to Spitcup
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Ability to suck
That only happens before she is your spouse.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:23 pm to BurningHeart
Me and this girl dated for 3 years in high school. Had a very ugly breakup... four years later we somehow were dating again, however, this time she had a new group of friends and they were TERRIBLE. I made it last for as long as I could but i couldn't deal with them anymore.
If she surrounds herself with shitty people then run for the hills.
I practically look for someone i can feed off of, someone who I can go back and forth with and somebody who can put up with my shite... and now i look for the people they surround themselves with first
If she surrounds herself with shitty people then run for the hills.
I practically look for someone i can feed off of, someone who I can go back and forth with and somebody who can put up with my shite... and now i look for the people they surround themselves with first
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:24 pm to BurningHeart
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My first go around was someone who had a common personality, but I found that over time it was easy to get into a rut and we never pushed each other outside of our comfort zones to experience new things. Wondering if I should try someone who has an opposite personality so we fill gaps.
Its a little of both, IMO.
"Opposites attract" goes too far.
If my idea of a good time on a weekend is tailgating, going out with other couples sometimes, attending fun events, etc. (basically doing things together that we don't do during the work week) but my SO has social anxiety and hates anything besides watching Netflix on the couch for weeks at a time.. we are fundamentally incompatible.
Obviously, you and your SO are going to have some different hobbies/interests. Everyone does. But (in my opinion) a relationship is not about the grand picture - it is about the day to day living. And if you both have very different ideas of what constitutes your default lifestyle, you're just not going to work. That goes for money, moral beliefs, social activities, etc.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:24 pm to BurningHeart
1. Loves Jesus
2. Beautiful
3. Smart
4. Non-smoker
5. Not trashy
I succeeded.
2. Beautiful
3. Smart
4. Non-smoker
5. Not trashy
I succeeded.
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:26 pm to BurningHeart
Wealthy parents
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:27 pm to BurningHeart
Dated a girl that I was really similar to for 3 years and it went about as you described.
Im looking for someone with similar interests but different personality. I think thats the key. Being able to ave common ground to do things together with but have someone that can push you through having a different attitude/demeanor (while still being positive anyway)
and blowjobs
Im looking for someone with similar interests but different personality. I think thats the key. Being able to ave common ground to do things together with but have someone that can push you through having a different attitude/demeanor (while still being positive anyway)
and blowjobs
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:28 pm to BurningHeart
The wife has three great attributes
Intelligence, a Swiss army knife and charm
Intelligence, a Swiss army knife and charm
Posted on 1/17/20 at 2:55 pm to Bullfrog
quote:Or just marry a woman that doesn't give a shite about politics (they're easy to find). My wife is intelligent but she's completely uninterested in politics and that suits me just fine. I can ramble on with all my fricked up retarded theories and she'll just go along with it.
Your leanings, whether conservative or liberal need to be in harmony
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