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re: We're all stuck in a rut trying to do what people who lied to us told us to do

Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:50 pm to
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60651 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:50 pm to
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You're spot-on about out-of-state offers.
he was offered a job at Disney during COVID but he had to get the shot to get hired, so that was a no - when the policy changed the job wasn’t open

He was offered two more jobs in Florida - Port Charlotte and Miami - but the salary wouldn’t cover a 3 bedroom apartment and I had 0 (zero) job offers his salary here at the time was not high enough to qualify to buy a house in a decent neighborhood

He’s applied for about 50 jobs in Texas - only one reply saying no thank you oh well
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
20431 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:51 pm to
Billy Joel told us about this in 1982, and has since sold out Madison Square Garden 100 times and made bank.

Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
62251 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:52 pm to
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Im blue collar but I see jobs like roof repair sales and the salary range says 125-250k a year.


Knew a guy who was a painter (like house painter, high society painter). Had a tiny little office a few blocks off the main drag that everybody drove by for at least half a century and nobody paid any attention. Not a big contractor, just a country boy who worked hard and could tell the difference between good bones and bad skin and bad bones and good skin. Would buy a place with good bones and spruce it up in-between jobs painting others houses. Did this for about 50 years and retired in the late 1980's. Had about 20 million to 40 million in real estate when he sold it all.

Lived out his days in a simple 3 BR ranch in a good part of town but not showy or McMansion home. Drove an old pickup truck and work clothes except for church on Sunday.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
39663 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 5:54 pm to
He's IT?
Posted by Ramblin Wreck
Member since Aug 2011
4237 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 6:28 pm to
Congratulations on finally moving out of your parent’s basement and getting your first job. You ancestors had to work 10 times as hard in the field all day just to grow the minimum amount of food to eat.
Posted by HangmanPage1
Wild West
Member since Aug 2021
2203 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 6:51 pm to
They are and then they aren’t. A little luck and longevity. I’ve gotten closer each year to 6 figures, but I also don’t have massive stress.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60651 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 7:10 pm to
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He's IT?
no, a chef
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
20127 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 7:20 pm to
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What the frick are we doing? It doesn't have to be this way. Why have we fallen into this trap?


Because we don’t want to be homeless standing in line for govt cheese?
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
196626 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 7:21 pm to
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He's IT?
no, a chef
so he just bad at math?
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60651 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 7:23 pm to
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so he just bad at math?
nope he’s good at math
Posted by hubreb
Member since Nov 2008
2132 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 7:58 pm to
You live in the greatest country in world history
Posted by armytiger96
Member since Sep 2007
2567 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:05 pm to
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It is also why we tend to struggle hiring out-of-state talent.


In what fields? Tons of out of state talent in the refining and petrochemical facilities up and down the river. Many of which don't leave because they like it here.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60651 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:06 pm to
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Many of which don't leave because the cost of living is cheaper than where they are from.
fify
Posted by armytiger96
Member since Sep 2007
2567 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:11 pm to
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fify


Ironically they speak highly of their experience here and cost of living doesn't typically come up in the conversation. But I guess you know everything.
Posted by GreenRockTiger
vortex to the whirlpool of despair
Member since Jun 2020
60651 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:15 pm to
The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.
Posted by gdzgft28
Member since Nov 2015
943 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:15 pm to
I’m just wondering when did previous generations have it better?!? Hours worked per week has declined over time. The quality of work isn’t nearly as dangerous or hard on the body.

When was it better?!? I think it’s just very fashionable to complain…
Posted by olgoi khorkhoi
priapism survivor
Member since May 2011
16776 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:21 pm to
I didn't fall into it. Not because I'm a badass, but because I suck at doing what people tell me. I started a business and work hard as hell for maybe 4 months out of the year.

The options are:


Start something yourself

Buy some land way outside the city and build something yourself and become self sufficient

Keep working for someone else and keep up with the Jones' or simplify and work less

Live under a bridge



Posted by jlsufan
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2021
408 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:21 pm to
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quote:
Now Muscle Shoals has got the Swampers
And they've been known to pick a song or two


yes, they do
Posted by Kingshakabooboo
Member since Nov 2012
1910 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:24 pm to
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It doesn't have to be this way. Why have we fallen into this trap?


I always get a chuckle when people say stuff like this. Tell me, when was it ever different? When have people ever had tons of free time in the week to just relax or goof off with family. The answer is never. 150 years ago, people didn’t bust their arse 40-60 hours a week just have 2 days off then do it all over again. Nope, they busted their arse 70-80 hours a week, farming, hunting, tending to animals, repairing barns and fencing with no days off. And if they didn’t they starved to death. Now we just do it for some company. What’s the alternative?
Posted by McLemore
Member since Dec 2003
35334 posts
Posted on 5/1/26 at 9:33 pm to
Sir, this is a Piccadilly.

But I agree with all that. And I get viscerally angry when I look up and I’m right back in the BS.

Work is a blessing. Work is also cursed. But there are things we can do, including through sacrificing comforts/convenience/material goods and difficult prioritizing, to make our work *work* and not some end in itself or mindless toiling under the sun. And to do less of it (and/or less of the miserable sort of work).

Having a grander purpose and obeying slowly in the same direction are antidotes to the mundane drudgery.

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