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re: Weddings that "ban" cell phones

Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:05 pm to
Posted by ell_13
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Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:05 pm to
Posted by WylieTiger
Member since Nov 2006
14804 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:10 pm to
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Yes last year I was at a wedding on a fall Saturday that was "disconnected"


Yea, F that noise.
Posted by Dorothy
Munchkinland
Member since Oct 2008
18154 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:14 pm to
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are you sure its to prevent wedding goers from getting in the way of the photographers? That isn't all that rare these days. The couple pays good money for the photographers and a lot of times people get in their way when they are trying to shoot, especially in the church.


This. A friend of a friend who is a professional photographer just posted something on FB about people taking pictures (mostly with cell phones, some with tablets or cameras) while he was trying to do his job.

Besides getting in the way, he was saying a lot of times the other flashes screw up his shots--like when he's trying to take a picture of the dad walking the bride down the aisle, someone in a church pew takes a shot of the bride's back and the flash shows up in his picture.

I guess it's always happened, but with the prevalence of cell phone cameras, it happens more nowadays than it used to.

ETA: Unfortunately, just telling people not to take pics doesn't always work so maybe the bride/groom are taking the next step in "banning" cellphones.
This post was edited on 8/25/15 at 9:16 pm
Posted by WylieTiger
Member since Nov 2006
14804 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:14 pm to
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I don't have an issue with no phones at the ceremony but they shouldn't be trying to keep them out of the reception. I hate when idiots have their phones on in church.


I agree, but that should not have to be printed on the invitation.
Posted by EA6B
TX
Member since Dec 2012
14754 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:14 pm to
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I can understand them not wanting phones ringing during the events, but it comes off as them just trying way too hard to be the center of everyone's undivided attention...


It is their wedding, they or their family paid for it, they should be the center of everyone's undivided attention.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37491 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:15 pm to
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they should be the center of everyone's undivided attention.


Nah.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
71859 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:17 pm to
I agree the ban is over the top, but I am enjoying the super cool anti-social media OT freak out that the couple doesn't want their wedding posted to social media before it even ends.

"I'd be posting selfies on Instagram, Facebook, snap chat, periscope, twitter and muffuggin world star... I mean, if I had any of those lame arse applications."
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
88463 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:21 pm to
We asked people to keep photos of our newborn off social media and let us decide what goes out there. But no way would we tell people to not take their own pics.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
64719 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:23 pm to
Thats ridiculous. Sounds like a lot of odd characters planned that, which means the wedding will end in the joining of future divorcees.

Better option:


Just have the officiator make a quick announcement before the bridge and groom come out. Simple as that.
This post was edited on 8/25/15 at 9:26 pm
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
77926 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:29 pm to
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Mostly, we're calling it stupid because, you know, it is.

I agree it's dumb. But if they want to be dumb then let them be dumb
Posted by Crow Pie
Neuro ICU - Tulane Med Center
Member since Feb 2010
27957 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:35 pm to
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Apparently, this is to keep pictures off of social media until the couple is ready to post their own
So the friends she didn't invite to the wedding don't get to see the pics taken by the friends she did invite real charming move there.
This post was edited on 8/25/15 at 9:36 pm
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35406 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:35 pm to
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Responses too fricking stupid to reply
Well I've never seen this lack of "social interaction" that you're implying at a wedding.
Posted by buckeye_vol
Member since Jul 2014
35406 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:40 pm to
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This. A friend of a friend who is a professional photographer just posted something on FB about people taking pictures (mostly with cell phones, some with tablets or cameras) while he was trying to do his job.
Sounds like this friend of a friend may not be very good at his or her job. Somehow photographers are able to get great pictures in war, natural disasters, etc. But then again, most people who rant and whine at Facebook seem to generally lack self-awareness about their own shortcomings.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134318 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 9:42 pm to
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I wouldn't decline the invite because I couldn't bring my phone, I'd decline it on principle.



This.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135055 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 10:25 pm to
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Who do YOU think YOU are trying to tell someone what rules they can and can't have at their own wedding?



A man.
Posted by GoldenD
Katy
Member since Jan 2015
1004 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 10:39 pm to
That is quite ridiculous. I could understand a request to stop people from taking pictures while people are walking down the isle and the like since people love to get in the way of the professional photographer that you are paying for.
Posted by Slinky
Member since Dec 2013
3118 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 10:43 pm to
Yeah, I'd no-show.

Having my phone on my person at all times is a requirement.

Sorry not sorry.

Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
108759 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 10:44 pm to
They are spending money to feed you and drink you and entertain you all night...don't want you sitting with your nose in your phone all night....I agree with the move.
Posted by Dizz
Member since May 2008
16224 posts
Posted on 8/25/15 at 10:44 pm to
This couple sounds like a barell of fun.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 8/26/15 at 2:12 am to
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It sounds like the bride is one of those people who thinks she is allowed to be a bridezilla like its some badge of honor.


There is little that make a wedding unenjoyable than a bridezilla in full bloom. They make EVERYONE miserable and smirk as if they think it is cute or something. It ought to be a clear sign to the groom to run for the hills.

Our son got married recently. I was dreading dealing with all the BS of the wedding but I have to say I am proud of the bride (and our son) and how they handled everything. Nothing fancy, no fuss, no demands - they just wanted a gathering of family and friends to celebrate their wedding. Her bridesmaids were told what color to wear and allowed to choose their own style of dress. I think that was the only thing that the bride really specified.

Everything was pretty much whatever was easiest on the family. Absolutely no stress at all, just love, joy and fun. Because of that, everyone was so thrilled to do everything to help give them an enjoyable wedding.

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