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re: Proper Venmo courtesy and college girls

Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:45 am to
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
278275 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:45 am to
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Mainly at the Carousel Bar and Lafitte's.


2 places that don’t ID
Posted by Riolobo
On the lake
Member since Mar 2017
4254 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:46 am to
Just here for the downvotes
Posted by Will Cover
St. Louis, MO
Member since Mar 2007
38531 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:47 am to
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The best part is being in a committed relationship with someone I truly love which essentially renders the powers other women have on me moot. I’d imagine college girls who are used to young and inexperienced yet Earnest college boys fawning over them don’t know how to handle that yet.


What I comprehended from this is that you're "old," "trying to play it cool with the wife," "thinking you may have a shot with one of them if the wife would not find out," but failing to realize that you're now "old" and they're really not into you, regardless of your status or family life "commitment."



Posted by whoisnickdoobs
Lafayette
Member since Apr 2012
9352 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:47 am to
need pics of girls to make an accurate assessment.
Posted by Doctor Strangelove
Member since Feb 2018
2962 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:51 am to
Why not just have them pay their own way? I don’t put myself in a situation where I pay for people’s entertainment when I don’t even know them. That’s a recipe for disaster, which appears to be the case here.
Posted by lake chuck fan
westlake
Member since Aug 2011
9145 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:51 am to
Who cares about the money... or teaching them about being responsible.
I am not understanding why you weren't fricking one or two each night???
Are you gay? Not attractive? Have no game?
Please, help me understand.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
260191 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:55 am to
quote:

To help them out whenever we’d go places especially that are crowded and they didn’t know what to try or what was the speciality of each particular bar I would just order for them and they’d pay me back.




If you're buying drinks, don't expect your money back.
Posted by Gee Grenouille
Bogalusa
Member since Jul 2018
4750 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:56 am to
A friend of my FILs would carry around a small calculator in his pocket in case the dinner bill ended up all on the same ticket. I'm not saying that either of you are wrong, just that most people don't like it. I think you learned a valuable lesson here. Don't be nice.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62869 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:58 am to
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My SO's cousin is a student at LSU and I can't imagine a world where we would ever let her or her friends pay us back for food/drinks.


This makes you generous, but I wouldn't consider it normal to be expected to cover the expenses of a the trip for a gaggle of college-aged, unrelated girls, some of whom I would guess he doesn't even know.

Dressing down the guy that gave you a free place to stay, and maybe naively thought he was being nice enough to cater to you at the bars pushes the bounds of societal courtesy more than using an efficient means to recoup money, which was the expectation that was set at the beginning.

I'm not saying I never buy people drinks, and I'd bet OP wouldn't say that either, but he didn't do anything wrong here, except maybe expect his perceived good deeds to go unpunished among 21 year-old coeds.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81188 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:01 am to
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I wouldn't consider it normal to be expected to cover the expenses of a the trip for a gaggle of college-aged, unrelated girls, some of whom I would guess he doesn't even know.


I agree, but I wouldn't have covered the bills for them. Don't get me wrong - If I was the girls, I'd have paid him back on the spot. I'm not someone who will ever let someone cover my stuff without a fight anyway.

But I feel like OP took a big risk choosing the places they went, choosing their drinks for them (weird?), and then paying for it.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62869 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:09 am to
quote:

but I wouldn't have covered the bills for them.


I've had situations where one person would pay for dinner or an evening somewhere for a group of friends and people paid them (sometimes me) back. This seems a little different, though, and I probably wouldn't have set it up that way either in this case.
Posted by NPComb
Member since Jan 2019
27320 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:25 am to
You sound like a dick. I would have had the friends settle with BJ’s and a round of just the tip.
Posted by OrangeBoi
Earth
Member since May 2019
54 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:40 am to
Women love spending a mans money more than anything in the world, they weren't upset about venmo, they were mad about you asking them to pay you back
Posted by azcatiger
somewhere
Member since Mar 2011
4474 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:43 am to
There should be a rule....if the thread says college girls their must be college girl pics.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164088 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:47 am to
Why were you paying for them in the first place?
quote:

To help them out whenever we’d go places especially that are crowded and they didn’t know what to try or what was the speciality of each particular bar I would just order for them and they’d pay me back.

Why didn't you bring their card to the bar or put in on their tab?
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21305 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:48 am to
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Why didn't you bring their card to the bar or put in on their tab?


Because I'm not as smart as The Boat apparently
Posted by Dead End
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2013
21237 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:48 am to
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my best friends younger sister (who I’ve known her entire life) and her friends has been staying with my Girlfriend and I while they enjoy New Orleans for spring break


This thread had so much potential...

How did it go to shite so fast?
Posted by Big EZ Tiger
Member since Jul 2010
24268 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:55 am to
So you're letting them stay at your place uptown for free and they bitched you out and they are staying until Thursday? No, that's not awkward. I mean, if someone was giving me a free place to stay, if I wanted to bitch about them I think I would do so after I was done staying at the free place or on my way out. Very odd.
Posted by Athos
Member since Sep 2016
11878 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:56 am to
Can I get the cliff notes? I refuse to read that.
Posted by Blizzard of Chizz
Member since Apr 2012
19012 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 10:56 am to
This is just sad. You claim you are older than these girls and yet you haven’t figured out yet that if it has tits and a vagina, it has a god given ability to get free drinks and shite outta sucker arse guys like yourself. Don’t buy bitches drinks.. ever. Drinks from you does not equal sex at the end of the night.
This post was edited on 3/10/20 at 11:00 am
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