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re: Proper Venmo courtesy and college girls

Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:50 am to
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21305 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:50 am to
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Yeah that's what I'm wondering. He makes it sound like they were bar hopping the quarter during Mardi gras or something.


Most places It took me 15 to 20 minutes just to order four drinks. If we had all ordered individually it probably would’ve taken far longer
This post was edited on 3/10/20 at 8:52 am
Posted by SavageOrangeJug
Member since Oct 2005
19758 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:52 am to
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They’re 21
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I would just order for them and they’d pay me back

So, after you got them liquored up. You still didn't get any pussy. So you sent them a bill?
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58579 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:52 am to
Let’s call this what it is. You were trying to buy your way into their pants. They rightly viewed you as a simp who they could milk for free drinks. You then got pissy that you didn’t get pussy.

Lesson learned on your part. Stop being pathetic.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171036 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:53 am to
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Most places It took me 15 to 20 minutes just to order four drinks.


Just to order or is this ordering and waiting for them to make the drinks? Where were you?
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:53 am to
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they could just go enjoy the bar and atmosphere and I’d go take care of the drinks and waiting for a bar tender and they’d pay me back
Why? On one hand you act like you have no interest in these college girls and have mastered how to be around them without them having any influence over you. On the other, you let them stay for a week in your apartment for free and take them around buying and serving them drinks. Seems like a contradiction.
This post was edited on 3/10/20 at 8:54 am
Posted by WJF004
Monroe
Member since Oct 2015
141 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:56 am to
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The best part is being in a committed relationship with someone I truly love which essentially renders the powers other women have on me moot. I’d imagine college girls who are used to young and inexperienced yet Earnest college boys fawning over them don’t know how to handle that yet.


Which is why you immediately played the "dont worry girls, I"ll pay for the drinks and you can pay me back" card....they're college girls, they can get free drinks in NOLA all day everyday, they dont need a sucker like you.
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
57638 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:56 am to
Not seeing any pictures.

Also sounds like you’re an a-hole if you didn’t discuss the payment situation with them beforehand. “Hey I’ll shoot y’all the total on Venmo”.

Pretty easy and self explanatory as opposed to just sending them a bill out of the blue.
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21305 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:57 am to
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On the other, you let them stay for a week in your apartment for free and take them around buying and serving them drinks. Seems like a contradiction.


I’ve known one of them literally Her entire life. She’s my sisters best friend. So basically she’s like my little sister. I just wanted to make sure they had a good time and enjoy themselves and I would worry about all the bullshite. I didn’t expect him to get mad at me for requesting money incorrectly.
This post was edited on 3/10/20 at 8:58 am
Posted by SDVTiger
Cabo San Lucas
Member since Nov 2011
73436 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:58 am to
You venmoed chicks a bar bill

What a loser
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21433 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:58 am to
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best friends younger sister (who I’ve known her entire life) and her friends


Lets see if you can figure out what you left off of your post.
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21305 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 8:59 am to
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Also sounds like you’re an a-hole if you didn’t discuss the payment situation with them beforehand. “Hey I’ll shoot y’all the total on Venmo”.


We did discuss it.
This post was edited on 3/10/20 at 8:59 am
Posted by michael corleone
baton rouge
Member since Jun 2005
5807 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:00 am to
Never paid for a female’s food and asked her to pay me back. One of the downsides of being. Gen X guy I guess.
Posted by randybobandy
NOLA
Member since Mar 2015
1908 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:02 am to
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we are firmly in the middle of our 20s when obviously your world view is a little different


OK Thurston, you are a few years older and you don't say " like" every third word. You should use this opportunity to PIITB or STFU.
Posted by Booyow
Member since Mar 2010
3993 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:03 am to
What page the pics of them Venhos on?
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35056 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:05 am to
I thought the agreed upon SOP in this situation is you pay for their drinks and they get a little loose with their clothing choices around the house while the wife is busy?
Posted by Roll Tide Ravens
Birmingham, AL
Member since Nov 2015
42263 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:05 am to
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So this week/weekend my best friends younger sister (who I’ve known her entire life) and her friends has been staying with my Girlfriend and I while they enjoy New Orleans for spring break.

This is where you messed up.
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To help them out whenever we’d go places especially that are crowded and they didn’t know what to try or what was the speciality of each particular bar I would just order for them and they’d pay me back

This is where you jumped into the pits of hell.

It's on you, baw.
This post was edited on 3/10/20 at 9:06 am
Posted by Sun God
Member since Jul 2009
44874 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:07 am to
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So basically she’s like my little sister

I don’t think I’d make my sister pay me back for a few drinks I bought for her and her friends
Posted by Wolfhound45
Hanging with Chicken in Lurkistan
Member since Nov 2009
120000 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:09 am to
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Yeah but for the most part, there's a massive difference between people who have been out of college and working for a few years vs in college or just out of college.
I am with ya baw. And his point is well taken. But when you are old enough to be his dad, you just have to laugh at that statement
Posted by Tortious
ATX
Member since Nov 2010
5132 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:17 am to
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You're dealing with 21 year old girls. I think we can figure out the problem here



Yes and it's that he had a house full of drunken girls and this is the story he brings to the OT.
Posted by drdoct
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2015
1609 posts
Posted on 3/10/20 at 9:17 am to
Yeah they were expecting for you to pay for everything. You have a full time job and place right? Also, you're male and they're giryls in their prime so entitled to free everything. I say that a bit tongue in cheek, but I'm sure there is some truth in it. I'd kick them out and tell them they aren't welcome next year. First off, YOU shouldn't have paid anything. If they were decent, they would have taken care of their host and got you some 'free' drinks.

But it's part of learning this and growing up. If you care to help them in life teach them that lesson. If not, then they can kick rocks and find another person to stay with next year. You as a host hopefully learned an important lesson of just letting everyone take care of their own bills.
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