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re: My girlfriend of 3 years gave me an ultimatum today

Posted on 7/13/20 at 6:28 am to
Posted by carhartt
Member since Feb 2013
7721 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 6:28 am to
Run, run as fast as possible. She’s gonna turn out to be a bat-shite crazy, controlling bitch if you give in. Especially if she can make you change your political views. You will be pissed off and miserable!

Run! There are more women to choose from.
Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
18668 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 6:33 am to
This won’t be her last ultimatum
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51741 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 7:11 am to
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Her or Trump. She made it pretty clear.


Then you need to make it clear to her that issuing an edict like that is over the line. Let her know she didn't give you a choice between her or Trump, she gave you a choice between making your own decisions or letting her make them for you.

If she's adamant about it then drop her with the swiftness. She needs to grow up quite a bit and you don't need to be subjected to such manipulations. If politics matters that much to her then perhaps you two aren't the match you both want to believe you are.


tl;dr - Show her your balls and tell her "No, that's fricking crazy. You either accept me as I am or you don't. THAT is the ultimatum."
Posted by TigerGman
Center of the Universe
Member since Sep 2006
11235 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 7:23 am to
She's just trying to find a way to get out of moving to Arkansas.

Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30601 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 7:26 am to
“Give up Trump or I’m gone”

Becomes

“Give up watching football or I’m gone”

“Your friends suck, stop hanging out with them or I’m gone”

“We’re moving back to California or I will on my own”
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
67154 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 8:03 am to
This isn’t about Trump. Even if you weren’t a Trump supporter, this would be the reddest of flags. Any woman who issues ultimatums based on something like that isn’t fully invested in the relationship. You don’t bet what you’re not willing to lose, and she’s betting the relationship. That means she already has one foot out and is looking for an excuse to break up without feeling bad about it. There’s a good chance that she’s already dating someone else, or wants to, in California.

Also, any woman who successfully gets her way through an ultimatum will go back to that well again in the future. The more times you cave, the harder it will be to not cave, and the more she will resort to emotional blackmail and brinkmanship to control you and the relationship.

I wouldn’t even mention Trump in your response to her. Just break up with her saying that anyone willing to issue an ultimatum based on something so petty clearly isn’t worth your time or attention.
Posted by p0845330
Member since Aug 2013
5704 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 8:12 am to
Get out while you can, baw. Don't ever look back.
Posted by J_Hingle
LA
Member since Jun 2013
5109 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 8:26 am to
Easy answer, pick her and bang her until after the election and then spill the beans you voted for trump and then kick her out. Even if you like trump or not, if she says you have to pick her or a political figure then she sounds like a raging bitch
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
12466 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 8:41 am to
Just a heads up, if this her, she can take a punch, so be careful.

Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34515 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 8:45 am to
Time to run dude


If you married this chick, she’d have trannies reading your kid books at your local library before the age of 6


You shouldn’t need the OT for this one
Posted by oogabooga68
Member since Nov 2018
27194 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:03 am to
Within a year, she will shave her eyebrows, dye her hair blue, get a ton of zhitty tats and leave you for a bisexual man anyway.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166422 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:05 am to
quote:

My girlfriend of 3 years gave me an ultimatum today
Her or Trump. She made it pretty clear.



I would pick her. Just to send her the poll booth pick of Trump Vote.
Posted by Brazos
Member since Oct 2013
20362 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:15 am to
So in other words she’s saying if you don’t agree with me I’ll hurt you. That’s typical play by liberals.
Posted by LSUBFA83
Member since May 2012
3355 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:15 am to
quote:

she’s in California


quote:
moving to Arkansas

?



I actually know several people who moved from California to NW Arkansas because they couldn't put up with the bullshite and taxes in CA any longer.
Posted by dchog
Pea ridge
Member since Nov 2012
21342 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:20 am to
Drop her off in West Helena. Come back and she will change her mind.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47525 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:21 am to
My girlfriend of 9 years never vote for the same guy. Except in 2012 Presidential election.

She's voted for Trump twice now. I won't vote for him. It barely comes up as a joke around friends but never an issue between us.


OP's woman sounds like she has a long second toe and deserves to be alone or with a submissive hipster bitchboi.
Posted by Limitlesstigers
Lafayette
Member since Nov 2019
2891 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:21 am to
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This post was edited on 7/13/20 at 5:17 pm
Posted by dchog
Pea ridge
Member since Nov 2012
21342 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:23 am to
The irony is that many arkies moved to California to escape the dust bowl. Now many are moving back for different reasons.
Posted by FieldMink
Fort Worth
Member since Jul 2017
797 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:24 am to
Arkansas? There's nothing in Arkansas...feel sorry for her
Posted by Harry Caray
Denial
Member since Aug 2009
18648 posts
Posted on 7/13/20 at 9:25 am to
quote:

My girlfriend of 3 years gave me an ultimatum today

Her or Trump. She made it pretty clear.
Well, you've made it clear which one you love more
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