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re: My assistant of 10 years gave her notice today.

Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:19 pm to
Posted by tunechi
Member since Jun 2009
10532 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:19 pm to
quote:

What annoyed me today was that she got this offer last week and never gave me a heads up to even try to match it.


Sounds like her mind was made up baw
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
40206 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:22 pm to
quote:

What’s happening in the legal market right now is insane, and it has happened suddenly. Paralegals are getting offers for more than young lawyers were making only a few years ago. What annoyed me today was that she got this offer last week and never gave me a heads up to even try to match it


I'll say this again. If it was only about the money, she would have given you a chance to match it.

If she did not... then I'm sure she will appreciate the money, but other things are a factor as well.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
62392 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:24 pm to
quote:

What annoyed me today was that she got this offer last week and never gave me a heads up to even try to match it.


So she hated working for you.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72764 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:31 pm to
quote:

From now on I am treating everyone as chattel.
Yourself included?

Let us know how that works out for you, Mr Serf.
Posted by meansonny
ATL
Member since Sep 2012
26029 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:32 pm to
quote:

Just to clear a few things up, since you people have made a lot of assumptions based on limited info in my post.

I don’t control what one person makes. I have a bunch of partners who all have different opinions on what to pay someone, or what someone is worth. I have fought for raises for everyone on my team for years. My secretary has been with me 20 years.

What’s happening in the legal market right now is insane, and it has happened suddenly. Paralegals are getting offers for more than young lawyers were making only a few years ago. What annoyed me today was that she got this offer last week and never gave me a heads up to even try to match it. If it were solely my decision, it would have already been done. I’m going to try to get as much as I can, but I have to herd some cats first. If it doesn’t happen, I’ll move on and figure it out.


I believe it.

Wage inflation is a bitch. It is like fision energy. It grows upon itself.

It will take a nasty recession to put the brakes on it.
Posted by rltiger
Metairie
Member since Oct 2004
1914 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:34 pm to
quote:

What annoyed me today was that she got this offer last week and never gave me a heads up to even try to match it.


One of two things

She wants to leave
She is last minute applying pressure to force you to match because of timeframe.

You are correct, EVERYONE in the office will be lined up for a raise if she ends up staying. She be bragging that you all buckled.


Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61275 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:36 pm to
The OP lives on the West Bank.
He’s a pretend fancy lawyer.
I heard he got caught with a secretary in a parking garage one time. That was just a rumor so you never know.
Posted by Baldy
Member since May 2020
441 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:36 pm to
Plot twist: his assistant was his wife.
Posted by Ricardo
Member since Sep 2016
6180 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:36 pm to
quote:

Just to clear a few things up, since you people have made a lot of assumptions based on limited info in my post.



Maybe there are other factors that make the job a better fit and the money is just icing on the cake?
Posted by dupergreenie
Member since May 2014
9326 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:39 pm to
Dude the fact that you are calling a 14% raise not 'dramatic life changing money' kinda shows how much of a twat you are. You know how much they make....add 14% to that and figure out what they could do with that money. Perhaps they could have told you...perhaps you could be a stronger voice to your 'partners' about giving out raises.

Also do you offer anything that the next job doesn't/can't?

You said that you (I'm sure you will blame your partners) have put prohibitions on talking about pay (illegal by the way).... between that and the lack of understanding how a raise could benefit someone.... you should either be a better boss or get used to hiring assistants every so often from here on out.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The big somewhere out there
Member since Jul 2009
54848 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:45 pm to
quote:

In the past 10 years, the amount of computer skilled employees have grown exponentially.
So has the amount of laziness, no work ethic, and attitude you have to put up with from new hires.
Posted by Powerman
Member since Jan 2004
170594 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:47 pm to
You can't offer a 14 percent raise to match someone who has been with you for 10 years? Sounds like you already treat people like shite.
Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:47 pm to
Cost of living has gone up.
I cannot blame anyone for bettering their Situation.
Posted by SOSFAN
Blythewood
Member since Jun 2018
15045 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:52 pm to
quote:

What annoyed me today was that she got this offer last week and never gave me a heads up to even try to match it.


I guarantee she's been looking for something else longer than a week.
Posted by Korkstand
Member since Nov 2003
29044 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:53 pm to
quote:

Not dramatic life changing money. Basically a 14% raise.
I don't think you quite understand how big a difference that can make to someone who might barely be making ends meet. It could be the difference between saving $100/month and saving $1,000/month. The cost of living is the line below which debt accumulates and above which wealth accumulates. If your income is far below it or far above it, 14% might not be a huge deal. If you're right around it, 14% is huge.
quote:

I could probably come up with something to offer her, but I can't match it.
So it's "not dramatic" but you can't find it?
quote:

From now on I am treating everyone as chattel.
Sounds like that's what you've been doing already, and that's the reason you're at the point where:
quote:

frick my life. frick relationships.
Posted by Lester Earl
3rd Ward
Member since Nov 2003
288313 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 7:59 pm to
When was the last time you gave her a raise?

Posted by SteelerBravesDawg
Member since Sep 2020
43337 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 8:01 pm to
Strange melt.
Posted by 3PieceSpicy
Metairie
Member since Jan 2021
7755 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 8:05 pm to
You sound like a bitch. Cost of living is up a shite load. The 14% raise is probably necessary. You should be happy for your former employee, not bitter.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
138163 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 8:13 pm to
quote:

didn’t say anything until the shakedown


It's not a shakedown when you don't even ask for a counter. It is a statement that the workplace and the immediate boss are the problem.
Posted by NOFOX
New Orleans
Member since Jan 2014
10115 posts
Posted on 2/22/23 at 8:15 pm to
quote:

Us “boomers” you talk so bad about grew up in the Great Depression and learned how to get by with less. You know, back in the day when people helped each other and didn’t look at their phones on the tick tack all day


Then OP should have no problem helping his assistant by paying her more and getting by with less himself.
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