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re: Little brother moved to Baton Rouge. Any advice for him?

Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:47 am to
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
30570 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:47 am to
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He went to rehab and get some mental health help at the Louisiana state hospital. After six months insurance stopped paying so he went to a halfway house


He will fit right in

Tell him to sign up for welfare, half the state is on it already
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151620 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:47 am to
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He should have moved to Lafayette.




Unless he drinks mich ultra, wants to make short friends with napoleon complexes, and date females with the most god awful accents, then Lafayette is his place.
Posted by OleWarSkuleAlum
Huntsville, AL
Member since Dec 2013
10293 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:49 am to
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date females with the most god awful accents, then Lafayette is his place.


Bruh but they do butt stuff
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
45583 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:52 am to
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He should have moved to Lafayette.


Yeah, no drugs in Lafayette. Good Lord man you may as well have told him to live in Slidell.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
151620 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:52 am to
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Bruh but they do butt stuff
every women does butt stuff
Posted by Newrow
Member since Oct 2017
946 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 11:53 am to
Addiction sucks. Tell him to dive into hobbies and be active. Tell him to join a gym, rec leagues for sports, or join a running club to meet people. These are the type of people he wants to be around while in recovery.

As far as Baton Rouge, Hooper Road Park has decent mountain biking trails if he’s into that.

I have a family member in recovery, and being active saved him. Stay out the bars it will only tempt him. Good luck.
Posted by Willie Stroker
Member since Sep 2008
17217 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:01 pm to
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Yeah, I am worried now after reading some of this. His reasoning for staying in Lousiana was that if he moved back to Alabama his old crew would help him relapse

He’s right. Even Tyrann Mathieu needed to move away from his old crew to get himself straight.

And don’t be swayed by those saying it’s a bad thing to be roommates with former addicts. What’s more important is the level of commitment by all. Don’t forget that even former counselors are very often former addicts themselves. Group counseling requires group participation among former addicts. It might be a good thing to be living with a support group like that.

But definitely be concerned about the neighborhood. Looking forward to you sharing more details about location.
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
40237 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:07 pm to
What kind of advice, can you be more specific? It's literally just like living in any other city.
Posted by Boring
Member since Feb 2019
3792 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:11 pm to
Avoiding drugs/alcohol while living in proximity of possibly the two best party cities in the country is like trying to practice abstinence in a whore house.
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
71235 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:12 pm to
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He said down the road from a country club.


There's two country clubs in town: CCBR and CCLA. CCBR is in Mid City around Government, Bocage, and Essen. It's close to a LOT of great areas of town, and a few meh apartment complexes, that have relatively easy access to campus on gamedays.

The other country club is CCLA. It is out on Highland Road near I-10. It's pretty far from LSU, though it has multiple direct paths there. This is a very ritzy, snooty, suburban neighborhood.

If your brother is into drugs, BR is a bad bad bad bad place to be. Everywhere you go, people are doing and sharing drugs. It's not even really frowned upon, it's so ubiquitus, especially weed and coke. It is extremely frowned upon to not be drinking, so if he's the kind of addictive person that can't drink or else risk relapse back into drug use, this is a very very bad place to be. Literally no social activities in BR with people over the age of 16 don't involve alcohol.

As for advice, mine would be to pick his crowd carefully to make sure they're not the sort that will lead him back to relapse, but to not be afraid to embrace the city. BR can love you back if you invest effort and time into making friends and finding your clique in the bar scene. BR is pretty cliquey, especially for people who aren't from here, but most of the cliques are relatively welcoming.

If I knew more bout his hobbies or interests, I could be more helpful.
Posted by Dominate308
South Florida
Member since Jan 2013
2895 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:17 pm to
Buy a gun.
Posted by ForLSU56
Rapides Parish
Member since Feb 2015
5582 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:31 pm to
Get a car that gets great gas mileage because he'll do a lot of setting in traffic barely moving.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
40276 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:32 pm to
No BUT I wanted to say glad he's better and hope that he stays on the right track.

Hope you're continuing to do well.
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
159116 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:34 pm to
tell that racist to keep his white privilege in st george
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
47783 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:49 pm to
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and date females with the most god awful accents


Pics?
Posted by LSUtoBOOT
Member since Aug 2012
21255 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:54 pm to
Take the Gravy Train when heading north.
Posted by turnpiketiger
Member since May 2020
12625 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 12:57 pm to
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Eat at the Pastime. Roast beef poboy, dressed.


It’s funny how people don’t understand “fully dressed” in reference to po boys or any sandwich. Apparently that’s a Louisiana phrase.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
49487 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 1:07 pm to
..Farewell and adieu to you fair Spanish ladies 
Farewell and adieu to you ladies of Spain..
Posted by Pisco
Mayfield, Kentucky
Member since Dec 2019
4518 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 1:10 pm to
Don’t drink the water and get used to the smell of corn dogs
Posted by jfw3535
South of Bunkie
Member since Mar 2008
5640 posts
Posted on 6/11/20 at 1:11 pm to
Down the road from a country club and near Tiger Stadium are mutually exclusive.
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