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re: Last night i found out my 68 year old dad has a mistress...
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:41 am to ladyluckUGA
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:41 am to ladyluckUGA
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I told him if he thinks he's going to bring some gold digging whore around my son (7 years old and his only grandchild) he had another thing coming.
What ever happened to bros before hos?
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ladyluckUGA
Oh....you’re not a bro.
That sure is a pickle. I don’t think I would hold his grandkid hostage. But you gotta get him to resolve the issue. And soon or your mom will think you were in on it. Yikes!
This post was edited on 1/16/18 at 9:49 am
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Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:42 am to HubbaBubba
Hubba was it your wife's birth son that she gave up for adoption? What did she ever decide to do about that situation? It was so hard to read all of that.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:42 am to Sentrius
he told my sister and me that he would talk with my mom about this. I was going to wait to see what that meant. Confess and work things out? Confess and ask for a divorce?
my mom is very fragile emotionally... when you say, "blow it up" what could I do?
my mom is very fragile emotionally... when you say, "blow it up" what could I do?
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:43 am to ladyluckUGA
Did he or you tell your sister?? Dear Lord I'm so sorry. How old are you?
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:46 am to ladyluckUGA
Any idea what caused the cheating? Recently retired? Dementia? Any changes in life? I'd agree this likely either isn't the first time or something likely set it off which could be dementia or another mental disorder from aging? I'd discuss that with your dad. If it's not his first, that's a different story and your mom may be about to go through hell.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:49 am to tiger91
quote:Yes, while I was away on business, she searched from the obituary, and then through that information and Facebook, she found his wife's Facebook page and messaged her. The wife reached back out and they exchanged email and phone numbers.
Hubba was it your wife's birth son that she gave up for adoption? What did she ever decide to do about that situation? It was so hard to read all of that.
She let her know all about her son, shared pictures and stories, and told her that he died in an accident doing what he loved to do. Apparently, they talked and cried together for hours, and my wife was able to walk away with closure. The ball is now in the widow's court and there's an open invitation if she ever wants the three kids to know who their biological grandmother is, our door is open. Best outcome I could have hoped for.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:49 am to Jake88
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If blowing it up leads to divorce, guess who gets dad to marry her. Inheritance now hers.
Still need to brush up on family and divorce law, but I think I've seen lawyers say that if mom initiates divorce proceedings and outright accuses him of infidelity with solid evidence, that can be used to contest a will.
Is that correct?
But of course, this will come down to the OP's dad being a good enough dude putting his family above some gold digging whore.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:50 am to HubbaBubba
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she searched from the obituary, and then through that information and Facebook, she found his wife's Facebook page and messaged her.
Thanks for confirming that whole thread was looking for confirmations and not real advice
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:51 am to ladyluckUGA
I am sure you want to tell your mother, but I think the best thing is for y'all to meet and he tell her and make sure he doesn't it sooner than later. As in, tell your dad if he doesn't do it in a few days you will tell her.
With that said, while I am sure you are angry at your father, depending on the relationship he has with your child, I wouldn't punish your child by not letting him be around his grandfather.
But, as for as your child, what do you do in this situation? Do you tell him the truth? Don't tell him at all? What?
With that said, while I am sure you are angry at your father, depending on the relationship he has with your child, I wouldn't punish your child by not letting him be around his grandfather.
But, as for as your child, what do you do in this situation? Do you tell him the truth? Don't tell him at all? What?
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:51 am to HubbaBubba
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I understand how you feel, and outrage might compel you to do that, but I would have insisted that my dad do that himself under these circumstances.
My dad did just that and it didn't work at all. My grandfather was repeatedly stepping out on my grandmother and she had no clue. I think my dad told him to try and mend fences with her. He just started divorce proceedings instead and then kept on having different girlfriends each and every year.
It was for that reason why my mom and dad never allowed me and my brothers to have much contact with him as there was always a chance his whores would be around. He put random pussy over his own kids and grandkids.
It may not be my fault buy not having a good relationship with my grandfather will always be one of my biggest regrets as he was entertaining as hell and knew how to fish like a madman. We were barely acquaintances.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:52 am to HubbaBubba
Wow Hubba thats awesome. I wonder if the adoptive parents are pisssed that the widow talked to her? Did she know he was adopted??
And for those who said adoption is selfish, as a mom I see it as a wonderful option. I have several friends who have beautiful families thanks to adoption
And for those who said adoption is selfish, as a mom I see it as a wonderful option. I have several friends who have beautiful families thanks to adoption
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:53 am to OweO
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As in, tell your dad if he doesn't do it in a few days you will tell her.
This is what I would do. He's put his children in a horrible spot.
If the mom finds out you knew for any length of time and didn't tell her, it will make the situation sooooooooo much worse.
Give him a week to tell her. If he doesn't let him know that you and your sister are telling her.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:54 am to ladyluckUGA
Truthfully your Mom probably already knows about this. I imagine she feels that you get to a certain point in a marriage where you only exit when you die. Why should she have her life disrupted? It’s not worth it. But, I would bet anything she knew he was cheating almost from the beginning.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:54 am to ladyluckUGA
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what should I do?
Nothing. It's not your business unless he tries to bring her around while still married to your mom.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:55 am to HubbaBubba
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Yes, while I was away on business, she searched from the obituary, and then through that information and Facebook, she found his wife's Facebook page and messaged her. The wife reached back out and they exchanged email and phone numbers.
She let her know all about her son, shared pictures and stories, and told her that he died in an accident doing what he loved to do. Apparently, they talked and cried together for hours, and my wife was able to walk away with closure. The ball is now in the widow's court and there's an open invitation if she ever wants the three kids to know who their biological grandmother is, our door is open. Best outcome I could have hoped for.
Three cheers to a happy ending and closure for everyone involved.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 9:58 am to Rouge
quote:If that thread helped with anything it was identifying you as an a-hole.
Thanks for confirming that whole thread was looking for confirmations and not real advice
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:02 am to Sentrius
Probably depends on the state. But, if he marries mistress she may be entitled to half regardless of will.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:02 am to ladyluckUGA
He’s probably had lots of side pieces in that 50 years.
After only 10 years of marriage, I can fully understand how tough it is to never get strange.
After only 10 years of marriage, I can fully understand how tough it is to never get strange.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:03 am to tiger91
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I wonder if the adoptive parents are pisssed that the widow talked to her?
No nosiness intended to HubbBubba but I'd like an answer to this question.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:03 am to ladyluckUGA
Is she hot?
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