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re: Last night i found out my 68 year old dad has a mistress...
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:36 am to Jake88
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:36 am to Jake88
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challenge his mental capacity in doing so?
That's difficult. He'd have to be impaired more often than not. Get a quick consult from an attorney.
"Your honor, my father is mentally incompetent because he has a sex drive." 
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Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:36 am to HubbaBubba
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Yes, he found out about two years ago
IDK how hold he was at that point, but I think I would have been beyond pissed for not being told earlier.
Wow is all I've got. Glad the widow is good with this and glad your wife found peace.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:36 am to TDFreak
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I don’t think I would hold his grandkid hostage
I may be wrong, but I don't think OP was saying she was holding the grandkid hostage. I read it more as OP isn't allowing grandpa's sidepiece around the kid and grandpa can come visit alone.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:38 am to tiger91
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tiger91
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:39 am to Mo Jeaux
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"Your honor, my father is mentally incompetent because he has a sex drive."
I mean, that shite can happen in the onset of dementia. My family is going through this as we speak. It's a massive shitstorm of epic proportions on what to do since my aunt's mother has left him due to the cheating, but he is clearly delusional and is starting to repeat things multiple times a day.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:41 am to HubbaBubba
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Yes, he found out about two years ago, when she was pregnant and having some health problems with the unborn child. The parents let him know, so that if there was anything genetic, he could know and deal with it. Everything ended up okay and they both knew who my wife was. The widow said they both had looked at her Facebook and Instagram pages, and after seeing our family pictures, our kids, our sports, school and church activities as well as the fact that my dad needed a lot of our time and attention in Louisiana, they felt that everyone was happy with the status quo and there was no need to "upset both family's apple cart". It really helped my wife to learn that he knew and had wanted to reach out, but that he respected her privacy.
His parents had never shared with him, though, that my wife wanted to reach out to him. Had he known, he would have been okay with it, according to the widow. So, other than being disappointed that his parents didn't share that, she's at peace with everything, now.
In "it's a small world" news that came out of this, my wife learned that the son and his wife met in college, at the same university my wife graduated from, and that the widow was in the same sorority as my wife.
Thanks for your kind words.
Man, the heart is just breaking for your wife and her son knowing they wanted to meet each other but the goodness of their hearts just prevented that.
Glad this worked out well as it could for your wife and the widow.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:41 am to PrivatePublic
Fighting the other guy doesn't make your (ex) wife any less of a whore.
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No. But now you’ll have to find another cheater.....
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No. But now you’ll have to find another cheater.....
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:43 am to ladyluckUGA
Pics?
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:44 am to Tiger Prawn
you're right. my son and my dad are very, very close. I wouldn't break that up...means too much to my son.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:45 am to ladyluckUGA
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is there anything I can do, as his daughter, if he were to marry this woman, prior to changing the will (IF that's where this is going), challenge his mental capacity in doing so?
If he and your mom gets divorced, she will get half, unless there is a pre-nup, but once the divorce is final, your dad will be able to do whatever he wants with his half.
Does he have any mental issues or would you be shooting in the dark if you challenged his mental capacity? If that's the case, it will probably not be worth it. You can convince him to get her to sign a pre-nup.. Or your mom can not agree to sign the divorce papers.. So that they can remained married, but of course a lawyer would be able to provide you with more in depth information on this,
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:46 am to ladyluckUGA
I don't speak to my wife's father because he disrespected and hurt her in many ways....so I told him that as her husband who loves her, I would not put my family anywhere around a person who hurts my wife...family doesn't dissolve that line.
IF you love your mom, and know this cock sucker is lying, cheating, and hurting her, why would you want him in your life? Cut him out immediately and let him feel where he is heading.
To be clear, YOUR ARE A BAD PERSON for going along with this a. He is self centered prick and when he tells your mom, he will say "both the kids already know" and that will crush your mother the worst.
Tell your mother, that is IF you live her..right now, I have serious doubts if you do
IF you love your mom, and know this cock sucker is lying, cheating, and hurting her, why would you want him in your life? Cut him out immediately and let him feel where he is heading.
To be clear, YOUR ARE A BAD PERSON for going along with this a. He is self centered prick and when he tells your mom, he will say "both the kids already know" and that will crush your mother the worst.
Tell your mother, that is IF you live her..right now, I have serious doubts if you do
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:48 am to OweO
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Does he have any mental issues
it was brought up earlier in the thread. my dad has had some memory issues, bad ones, and I'm not the only one to notice it. it's an issue for sure and we've tried to get him in to see someone but he's being stubborn about it.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:51 am to ladyluckUGA
Tell him not to tell your Mom, and black mail him at the same time ( an amount less than half his net worth ).
Posted on 1/16/18 at 10:55 am to the LSUSaint
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To be clear, YOUR ARE A BAD PERSON for going along with this
Oh Jesus. Shut up.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 11:07 am to the LSUSaint
Some of you people are so simple. It's so easy to make blanket judgements on other people you don't even know and situations you read a few words about on a message board. The view must be nice from that ivory tower.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 11:12 am to ladyluckUGA
How wealthy is he?
Get a lawyer to draft an ironclad will that leaves out the golddigging whore. Make him sign it as an ultimatum to
1. you keeping out of his business and
2. allowing him to continue having a relationship with your child.
Get a lawyer to draft an ironclad will that leaves out the golddigging whore. Make him sign it as an ultimatum to
1. you keeping out of his business and
2. allowing him to continue having a relationship with your child.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 11:16 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Contracts signed under duress are unenforceable. I guess proving it one way or the other is another thing, but that should definitely make the will invalid. Not a lawyer, but this seems pretty common sense. Just in case she is actually thinking about something like that. Not to mention any further poisoning of the relationship that would happen.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 11:17 am to ladyluckUGA
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it was brought up earlier in the thread. my dad has had some memory issues, bad ones, and I'm not the only one to notice it. it's an issue for sure and we've tried to get him in to see someone but he's being stubborn about it.
I got you.. Well then you might have something there. You think deep down he knows he might be in the early stages of something (alzheimer's, etc) so he has decided to "live it up" before he is no longer able to do so? If so, maybe he has no intentions to leave the mistress anything.. I am going to go back and read the thread before asking anymore questions, but that's just a thought.
Posted on 1/16/18 at 11:19 am to ladyluckUGA
There's always blackmail.... 
How old is said mistress..? Nvmd, I see you don't know...
But, how bad would it be if you found out she was close to your age..?
How old is said mistress..? Nvmd, I see you don't know...
But, how bad would it be if you found out she was close to your age..?
This post was edited on 1/16/18 at 11:24 am
Posted on 1/16/18 at 11:21 am to Peazey
I know, just trying to figure out a way to ensure she get's her due inheritance instead of some gold digger. She could end up like Rita
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