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re: If you are a swinger, what is the point of getting married?

Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:47 am to
Posted by Cage Fighter Trainee
Member since Aug 2024
242 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:47 am to
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what is the point of getting married?


I have no idea. My wife found out her cousin and his wife were swingers. Her cousin came home one day and found his wife get railed by another dude. He got mad and they ended up getting divorced. If she's fvcking all these dudes in another setting why would fvcking one other dude matter?
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
42427 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:49 am to
Can’t watch someone frick your wife if you’re not married.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
132893 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:49 am to
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I imagine most "couples" in swing events arent married to each other, from experience.


Is that even swinging then? That just sounds like cheating.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
292686 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:52 am to
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Is that even swinging then? That just sounds like cheating.


Its not the most honest circle of people. I didnt stay around the scene that long, it gets old pretty quickly.

Posted by TackySweater
Member since Dec 2020
24650 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 7:54 am to
quote:

you get to nail other dude's wives

quote:

and they have to bang some nasty hooker.

These are the same lol
Posted by Traveler
I'm not late-I'm early for tomorrow
Member since Sep 2003
26064 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:01 am to
A guy I knew said he and his wife wanted to get into the swinging life and the group they contacted told him his wife was too fat and ugly and the other couples probably wouldn't want to hook up with her. We all thought he was joking about the whole thing till we saw his wife. Changed our minds quickly.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
155202 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:04 am to
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If you are a swinger, what is the point of getting married?

Because it's hotwife, not hotgirlfriend. Amirite?
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22781 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:35 am to
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My wife found out her cousin and his wife were swingers. Her cousin came home one day and found his wife get railed by another dude. He got mad and they ended up getting divorced. If she's fvcking all these dudes in another setting why would fvcking one other dude matter?


Surely you see the difference and why the fact that she was doing the second behind his back might make a difference.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
292686 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:38 am to
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Surely you see the difference and why the fact that she was doing the second behind his back might make a difference.


Long term, these stories seem to be the norm.

Once the novelty wears off, some dude starts noticing how much time his wife spends with other dudes, and it becomes real.

Posted by RicoSuave2025
Member since Jan 2025
241 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:53 am to
Is this a serious question?? Do you eat the same dinner every night? Of course not! Marriage should be no different? Life’s about options and the pineapple community has a lot of choices! The only negative is you may get an occasional itchy rash or something.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
72512 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 8:59 am to
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The only negative is you may get an occasional itchy rash or something.
The Itchy & Scratchy Show should devote an episode to this subject.
Posted by AwgustaDawg
CSRA
Member since Jan 2023
13094 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 9:24 am to
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I doubt you can go to a swinger party alone.


You can. Depends on the group of course. My neighbor invited me to a party at one of his friends houses when I lived in Germany and it turned out to be a swingers party....he did not tell me straight up but after the fact I realized that he had insinuated it but me not being German I did not catch the subtle hints like the number of gorgeous women who would be there and how much he enjoyed their company at the friends house when he had gone before. He worked close to the place so I was going to meet him there. When I knocked on the door and the host came to the door it seemed pretty innocent...when I walked into the living room and almost everyone there was butt naked and some were engaged in all manner of shite one with the other (or several) I knew it was not just a party but was a PARTY. I stayed about 2 minutes, pretended I had an emergency and left. I never saw my neighbor there....he claimed to have been there but he wasn't anywhere between the front door, the vestibule or the living room....I wasn't looking for him though and if he was involved in some of the shite going on I doubt he was aware of anyone entering the room....

It could be that some people get married because they love one another but do not plan to be exclusive sex partners or mutually decide after the fact that fidelity isn't their thing...who knows what dwells in the heart of man....
Posted by ronricks
Member since Mar 2021
10678 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 9:32 am to
I think for some they get introduced to the lifestyle years after being married.

Posted by reggierayreb
Member since Nov 2012
18706 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 9:34 am to
quote:

Can’t watch someone frick your wife if you’re not married.


Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
13494 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 9:40 am to
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Hire a hooker to pretend to be your wife for the party. That way, you get to nail other dude's wives, and they have to bang some nasty hooker.


I would assume that people who are into this want to be invited back in the future. Your plan doesn't seem like it would facilitate that outcome.
Posted by litenin
Houston
Member since Mar 2016
2640 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:05 am to
I’m guessing there are some situations where a young guy just wants to go to swinger parties for the sex and has to go with a female to get in so brings whomever he knows.

If the relationship starts that way and the couple get along well, then maybe they are meant for each other and should get married eventually.

It would seem like the situation of couples suddenly trying it or wanting to get into lifestyle would have far too many unintended risks.
Posted by wesfau
Member since Mar 2023
1758 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:22 am to
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I’m guessing there are some situations where a young guy just wants to go to swinger parties


I'm not in the lifestyle, but a lot of posts seem to assume that these parties are just open to the public and anyone who wants to go can just grab a willing wingman/woman and waltz in.

I'd think these are pretty exclusive/invite-only affairs (pun intended), and the host would know exactly who is there.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
48991 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:27 am to
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Did know an older man at a gym I went to (bodybuilder type) who was a cuck tho. He and his wife were both in their late 40s. His fetish was watching his wife get railed by younger men. I knew a couple guys at the gym who participated. This was probably 20 years ago.


Was this that Zachary gym? In the shopping center off Church Street?
Posted by ATrillionaire
Houston
Member since Sep 2008
2131 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:30 am to
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Honestly curious. Is it just for the tax benefits?


I assume it's because sex and love are not the same.
Posted by Alt26
Member since Mar 2010
33685 posts
Posted on 8/14/25 at 10:34 am to
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Because I like watching my wife, get her pussy eaten and titties sucked by a few other girls at the same time


Be careful. I've known of a handful of acquaintances where it started out like this...then eventually led to the wife deciding she like the girls more and leaving the husband.

It sounds cool in theory, right up until you realize you invited the cheating partner into the marriage. And EVERY guy I know, or know of, who had this happen to them swore at the beginning there was no chance their wife would leave them for another woman.
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