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re: How do you guys handle hard times?

Posted on 7/26/26 at 7:16 am to
Posted by sjmabry
Texas
Member since Aug 2013
19013 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 7:16 am to
Prayer and having faith that whatever situation is temporary. Life is a balance of good times and adverse times. Trying my best to control my thoughts, words, and actions.
Posted by MFTPC
Member since Apr 2026
111 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 7:20 am to
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Damn, I hope everything worked out ok.


I bet the worst part for him was the 2 Auburn football seasons that occurred in that 24 months
This post was edited on 7/26/26 at 7:23 am
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105831 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 7:26 am to
Life can be unbearably hard, and it doesn't always get better. Sometimes it keeps getting worse. I don't have an answer except endure it as long as you can, and try to find comfort in any moments of relief here and there.
Posted by marcnbc
Bossier City, LA
Member since May 2004
4562 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 7:41 am to
Crank up a little Run-D.M.C.

Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
43334 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 7:47 am to
Through faith and prayer understand, ahead of time, these seasons are opportunity for growth. You gotta go through it in order to grow through it.
Posted by SlidellCajun
Slidell la
Member since May 2019
16732 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 8:14 am to
Tough times will come


The prayer is for strength to handle the tough times

I’ve spoken to several people who’ve struggled through tough times. I’ve met people struggling with the impact of the loss of children, terminal illness, suicide, terrible financial struggles, and things in between.Situations differ.
Generally though, It’s important to know that the tough times are inevitable. I don’t tend to believe that it’s personal or some sort of karma. I seen some bad stuff happen to good people.

I generally advise them to live positive- avoid the “why me” rabbit hole.
Prayer is positive. Exercise is positive. Eating healthy is positive. Keeping in mind that tough times come and go. It’s the same for Good times too.

I find strength by keeping my mind set on the possibility that some day, through the painful period, I will be able to be a source of strength or positive influence to someone else who needs it. That is the essence of being human.

So through the painful period, you become a more rounded human. You become someone who can better understand others. And with that, you are more able to help others.

That’s not to suggest that we should invite pain into our lives. It’s just working from the basis that it will just happen.

It’s also important to know that through the pain, there is given a better appreciation for the beauty of life. Sometimes you have to look for it. So make lookong a habit. Do it daily.

So hang in there.

Posted by RanchoLaPuerto
Jena
Member since Aug 2023
2319 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 8:26 am to
I get up every morning and eat a big bowl of suck-it-the-frick-up.
Posted by wm72
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2010
9583 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 8:27 am to
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Exercise? Drinking? Prayer?


For me:

1. DIY projects that I'm not used to doing and require a lot of work.

For example, my Mother had bad accident a few years back and I needed to constantly travel and stay at her house while she was recovering. I gut renovated a bathroom there.

During a bad breakup a few years ago, I repainted every room of my house and built new shelving for my shop.


2. Go out to eat/drink more with friends.


Posted by Akit1
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2006
8408 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 8:40 am to
-keep things in perspective
-understand most hypotheticals in your mind are not real and will not happen
-exercise (just a 20 min run will do a lot)
Posted by LSU Neil
Springfield
Member since Feb 2007
3639 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 8:45 am to
Go to MD Anderson and get it taken out.
Unless it spread and that’s a different deal. Best of luck to you. The feelings you have are natural
This post was edited on 7/26/26 at 9:08 am
Posted by Tiger in the Sticks
Back in the Boot
Member since Jan 2007
1877 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 9:24 am to
I pray constantly-and when there’s a crisis in my family-I ask aloud for God to have complete sovereignty. The hard part is letting it go after I’ve asked for that. Praying constantly is how I handle the easier times, too.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
73500 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 9:34 am to
Try to have something to look forward to or work toward. Exercise/Training help as well.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
75846 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 9:44 am to
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During a bad breakup a few years ago, I repainted every room of my house and built new shelving for my shop.
Glad Mrs Füt (no pics) doesn’t read this, you’d be giving her an idea….
Posted by gumbo2176
Member since May 2018
20244 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 9:45 am to
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in a roughly 24 month period:

- i lost both my parents and my brother
- i was diagnosed with prostate cancer
- COVID happened
- my wife lost her job
- i had a prostatectomy
- we moved my 90 year old m-i-l in with us
- my kid went through a major earthquake
- we were hit with a Cat 3 hurricane

you learn to play the hand with which you’re dealt




Could be worse. Your nickname could be "Lucky" and having to deal with all that going on.

All kidding aside, that's a hell of a lot to deal with in that short of a time. Sometimes you just have to roll with it and hope for better times.
Posted by RanchoLaPuerto
Jena
Member since Aug 2023
2319 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 9:48 am to
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understand most hypotheticals in your mind are not real and will not happen


A good exercise—

Write down the stuff you are worried about right now. Wait six months. Read it. Realize how little of that shot mattered at all.
Posted by lepdagod
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
6241 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 9:49 am to
Working, spending time with daughter and family… also I’m old enough now I don’t exactly expect hard times but accept hard times (if that makes sense)…my Grandma always said “if the good Lord woke you up this morning he did his part you gotta handle the rest” God did the heavy lifting
Posted by SpaceCamp
Member since Nov 2020
569 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 10:37 am to
A lot of prayer and just taking things day-by-day. My husband currently has stage 4 pancreatic cancer. There are a lot of smaller things we are dealing with as well, but terminal cancer is the looming shadow over our lives at the moment.

I also find just being open with people helps. No one wants to be vulnerable, but I have found that when I open up, others do the same. There are a lot of hurting people around us and we can draw a lot of strength and courage from others.

Also, people want to help. I have had to swallow my pride a lot on the last few months and ask for help because I couldn't be three places at once.


Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
8662 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 11:05 am to
Exercise, prayer.

Keep your eyes on the road that's ahead of you.
Posted by SpotCheckBilly
Member since May 2020
8662 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 11:08 am to
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A lot of prayer and just taking things day-by-day. My husband currently has stage 4 pancreatic cancer. There are a lot of smaller things we are dealing with as well, but terminal cancer is the looming shadow over our lives at the moment. I also find just being open with people helps. No one wants to be vulnerable, but I have found that when I open up, others do the same. There are a lot of hurting people around us and we can draw a lot of strength and courage from others. Also, people want to help. I have had to swallow my pride a lot on the last few months and ask for help because I couldn't be three places at once.


Very sorry to hear this. God bless you and your husband.

Being open is such good advice. So many have gone through similar struggles and can both relate and help.
Posted by thegambler
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2012
2200 posts
Posted on 7/26/26 at 11:15 am to
I do my best drinking after exercise and my beat praying after drinking.
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