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re: Gotta put my dog down I’m a wreck

Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:16 pm to
Posted by wallowinit
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
18393 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:16 pm to
How do you deal with a bird when you travel extensively?
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
64546 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:17 pm to

My eldest female is having trouble in her back end but still is excited come feeding time and likes being in the sun and rolling in the grass. When this joy is no longer in her daily life, then I will think about it. She does snore like a freight train, passes gas, and sleeps about 90% of the time.
Posted by stout
Porte du Lafitte
Member since Sep 2006
185575 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:24 pm to
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How do you deal with a bird when you travel extensively?


Family or the local pet store here in town will keep them just like they will a dog. They have experience with exotic birds

They will also come to your house in the morning and evening if you want them to. I could just put the cages in my guest house and give them a door code if I have to.
Posted by PapaPogey
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
40667 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:33 pm to
Brother, I just put mine down last Friday morning after 12yrs by my side. I was a fricking wreck leading up to it, walking into the vet, and during the euthanasia process. I cried a LOT, but I will tell you that almost immediately afterwards, I found peace in my decision and peace knowing that the suffering was done. The hardest part is leading up to it, but its MUCH better and honestly a big relief in a way once it's completed. A week has gone by and I think about him and smile.

God bless you and your pup
Posted by tadman
Member since Jun 2020
5690 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:36 pm to
Baw there is no easy way to do this other than you have to be strong for your human and canine family, they are counting on you. Sometimes being strong now and being sad later is the best way to do this.

Take her to the vet, stay in the room for the entire process. Be strong for the pup and for the family. Keep it boxed up for now.

Once you get out of the building, rip a cig if you need.

Put the kids to bed and feel free to have a couple Jack Daniels and be really upset. My girl dog was minorly sick last few days and it scares the heck out of me. I've had boy dogs most of my life and loved all them, and yet this sweet girl might be my favorite ever. She is nuts about me and my family. Happy to see us every time we walk into the room or even glance at her.
Posted by BluegrassCardinal
Kentucky
Member since Nov 2022
2283 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:38 pm to
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The hardest part is leading up to it, but its MUCH better and honestly a big relief in a way once it's completed. A week has gone by and I think about him and smile.


My Daisy crossed the bridge a bit ago. The worst part was the process and anticipation. . I’m relieved that her suffering is over yet I feel empty and maybe in between waves of grief.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
86821 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:39 pm to
I am so sorry. Saying goodbye to our furry friends is so painful. I will say a prayer for your courage and comfort.
Posted by TNTigerman
James Island
Member since Sep 2012
12309 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 3:40 pm to
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How did you guys deal with this?


Been through it 8 times in 30 years. I'm sure she gave you unconditional love her whole life. She'll be lying on a table. Make sure you're right in front of her stroking her head and that you're the last thing she sees.
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
26059 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 5:46 pm to
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My Daisy crossed the bridge a bit ago.


May God welcome Daisy with His open arms and bring you comfort in your grieving.
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
152039 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 5:48 pm to
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How did you guys deal with this?
get some new pussy and buy a 4runner
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
64546 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 5:49 pm to
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May Dog welcome Daisy with His open paws



FIFY
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
57549 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 5:54 pm to
I feel for you.

You feel like they will always be around, but the time together is short. Just remember she gave you a better life and you paid back in kind.

Stay strong. Our Nymeria passed this past May. I know the feeling.
Posted by LSU Coyote
Member since Sep 2007
57549 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 5:56 pm to
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I’m relieved that her suffering is over yet I feel empty and maybe in between waves of grief.

Just remember you gave each other a better life.
Posted by TexasTiger33
United States of America
Member since Feb 2022
16381 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 5:59 pm to
sorry to hear that. I had to do that in January for the first time

still haven't even fully mourned or processed it because I just numb the pain with my vices

we donated my little buddy's body to Texas A&M vet school

i held him until his last breath
Posted by BillyLSU
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2004
931 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 7:54 pm to
In that case I’m wholeheartedly sorry.
Posted by Polycarp
Texas
Member since Feb 2009
5761 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 8:38 pm to
It’s just terrible. I held mine as he was put down, still haunts me, even though it was the right thing to do.
Posted by go ta hell ole miss
Member since Jan 2007
14903 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 9:23 pm to
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Like the title says. I can’t let her suffer anymore


It is so strange that we are more humane to animals suffering at the end of their life than we are to humans. We do not afford humans the same opportunity to put themselves out of misery.

To OP, I hate to hear it. In similar circumstances, would be a wreck. I wish you the best.
Posted by Captain Rumbeard
Member since Jan 2014
7655 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 11:26 pm to
I did it twice recently.

One was the best of many dogs I've had in my lifetime of many years.

I don't have one now.

Hurt too much.
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
86114 posts
Posted on 8/27/26 at 11:44 pm to
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went through this June 1. Still not over it at all. I tear up, at least, every day.


Jeez dude
Posted by NASTY
Covington
Member since Mar 2008
660 posts
Posted on 8/28/26 at 12:03 am to
I’ve cried like 6 times in my life, not tough, just not a cryer. Even when I do, it’s like a tear or two. I boo hooed for so long after I put my first dog down I didn’t think it would ever stop. I had to do it and then go to work, calling out sick wasn’t an option. One of the hardest days of my life.
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