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In this age it is astounding how many people will defend a criminal such as Lindsay Clancy or the stabbing guy over in Dallas.
Robert Reich has been a doddering old man for half his life. He hasn't said anything other than socialist dogma and nobody pays attention to him other than aging boomers who smoked way too much weed when Johnson was president/

Flock PR is in overdrive

Posted by tadman on 8/20/26 at 8:56 am
Has anybody else noticed videos of car chases and such with language like "this horrible criminal was caught by Flock cameras". Seems like their PR is in overdrive now...

South Florida Fly Fishing advice please

Posted by tadman on 8/19/26 at 9:05 pm
So I have a conference in Fort Lauderdale mid-sept. I can selectively f*** off a bit. Probably most of Monday is open if I keep my phone nearby. Maybe weds afternoon or thurs AM.

For the whole day, should i drive over to Chokoloskee and stay at the Rod and Gun Club and find a couple piers and bridge? Or should I drive down the keys a bit to Seven Mile or so? Seems the keys option is a bit better.

Weds eve I will be over by Jupiter staying at a buddy's house with a pier on the ICW. Was thinking some whiskey and sit on his pier at dusk and later.

I'd be bringing a 9' 9w and source local flies from a local shop.

Thanks for any thoughts.
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McNerney was a disciple of Jack Welch. That style works in some industries but probably not in aerospace.



Didnt' work for GE either. Of course it looked great for a while but when it came time for new generations of product they came within inches of sinking their own ship. GE tries to pay on net 120 terms these days and that's after they demand HUGE price cuts up front. The worst managed company I've ever done business with.

The real ugly part is that many private equity companies seem to think it's a good talent farm, so when they do these rollups, the hire some GE pukes to run them. It's not going well for many in my industry. They buy up a bunch of competitors, roll them together, slash benefits, stretch payables out 60-90 days, try to squeeze the old owner out of his earnouts, then bulk up the backlogs with razor thin margins, and flip it. Rinse and repeat.

re: Downtown Birmingham Dinner Rec

Posted by tadman on 8/19/26 at 8:43 am to
Helen
Fonfon
Bottega
Automatic
Current
Salice
Hot & Hot
Bettola
Abhi
Mustard Club
Watkins Branch (closed?)
Chengdu Chinese

BHM is a great spot for food enjoy.

re: Ever go to a Ball & Buck store?

Posted by tadman on 8/19/26 at 8:33 am to
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upmarket

Have a downvote based on using this word alone.


How would you prefer I describe the place? "bass pro for dweebs that don't really hunt or fish and spend lots of money trying to make us think they do"

Does that work?
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What did Alys beach do to get dragged into this?!?!



I enjoy 30a but there is quite a lot of dbags there. Like the aforementioned dbag that was telling the store clerk how amazing these $90 Melin baseball hats are "because I can totally work out for an hour in them and wash them off".

re: Tried Brisket for The First Time

Posted by tadman on 8/17/26 at 10:14 am to
post is not roll tide
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I’m guessing you’re north of 40



Yep.

That doesn't change that most guys I work with 18-39yo are doing just fine, making six figures without needing college - some have it some don't. I mean there are a couple thousand guys in my industry under 40 making decent money this way.

Also doesn't change that most guys I know socially 18-39 seem to be doing fine. I have a good cross-section of friends, not just country club dbags.

It seems most of the people that really worry about the economy right now are either watching too much cable news or making bad choices like the guy I know who makes maybe $70-80/year but has a Wagonneer on payments. That's his fault.
People keep complaining about "the state of the economy"... maybe I'm crazy but it feels like the economy is decent these days and we have a lot to be thankful for.

Ever go to a Ball & Buck store?

Posted by tadman on 8/17/26 at 9:19 am
I was in Nashville last week and they opened a new store. Positioned as upmarket outdoor goods. Fly and hunting mostly. "Cool that's me I'll stop in".

WTF did I go see??? There were like five reels and one rod, all overpriced and "limited edition". There was a gun room with perhaps 10 shotguns of good pedigree, of course all overpriced. There was a barbershop with a couple hipster types getting a shave. There was a lot of "hunting clothes" that strike me more as fashion. The only other customer was foaming about his new $90 baseball cap that he wears at Alys Beach.

Not sure sure what the camo pocket does for Mr. Tats. Maybe he puts his coors banquet in the pocket so no deer can see it or something?... still trying to figure out the market here.

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Right now they are towing with a 4 Runner but claim that it feels like the boat/trailer is driving the vehicle


I don't see how this gets better with a Pathfinder. That's basically a minivan with the CVT others have mentioned. I would absolutely keep the Runner over the Pathfinder.

But moving forward I would want a 1500 pickup if they are regularly towing.

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I explained to her that her “toy” is 6000 pounds Dry. Once you load it down with fuel and other equipment you will be Significantly above that “rated towing capacity number”.


Towing is more than the nominal tow rating. If you go five miles once per month on flat ground in the country, a pathfinder would be fine. If you tow five miles daily across Houston traffic or up and down a mountain, that pathfinder will shred itself quickly. So not only is it 6000lbs dry, but what demands are you making of the brakes and shocks?
Never knew my great grandfathers. They were all gone before I was born.

But yes, my dad and his dad and I did a number of carpentry projects around their houses when I was a little kid. We built a deck, fixed some garage shelving, and regripped someone's golf clubs. They worked together and I remember a few business trips and greasy spoon meals at 6am en route.

I'm surprised at how much my little boy wants to help with manual work but I don't discourage him.
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It’s Sky Screamer management that lets the butches beat the shite out of the honkys.



And this is the crazy thing. The WNBA has a chance to make a really solid womens league (regardless of profit or your personal opinion) that is a motivator for young ladies of all backgrounds to participate in sports and learn teamwork and build to something.

And they're throwing it all in the trash to pursue this crazy dream of letting a handful of trans people ruin it. Decades of work to get a womens league together being sacrificed.
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Gordy and Sons in Houston being closed Sundays has probably saved me thousands



Never thought of it this way, good point. Unfortunately if I'm in a different city for work (like houston) and have some down time, I usually seek out a fly shop or sporting shop and waste some money. I always try to bring my wife something which stacks a layer on top of the "oh I need one of these" issues.

Last week found some wading booties on sale. The sale rack is your friend. I dont' see how some shops stay in business with how much is on sale but I dont' complain.

What's with outdoor and fly shop hours?

Posted by tadman on 8/10/26 at 4:10 pm
I get people want a little weekend time and church time.

But I don't understand being open at 9 sharp on Monday, who buys fishing poles and such at 9a monday. But closed Sunday, when a lot of us need stuff.
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Jesus Christ I wish I could have been a frat rush coach. Everyday we’ll pound a case of beer, drink 1/5th of liquor, smoke some blunts, and do 8 balls to prepare for frat life.



And you get paid $6500/person to do that.

If y'all want to come over for frat-dad coaching sessions, venmo me $6500 we'll be drinking in the garage. If you can fix my Kubota I'll give you $1000 off.

re: Man I hate contractors

Posted by tadman on 8/10/26 at 1:24 pm to
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Surely you fired him and told him


you must be a special kind of stupid if you think im going to fire a guy halfway through a job and leave the 220 lines just hanging off the side of my house.

But if you are a contractor, you indeed are a special kind of stupid.

re: Anyone trot line for crabs ?

Posted by tadman on 8/10/26 at 1:23 pm to
I don't get it. I try using crab traps with raw chicken and sometimes they sneak out on you. How are you supposed to pull up on a rope that has no barriers and the crabs don't all scram immediately?

Would like to know how this works better.
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The Bible is a good book to start with.

I'm going to be quite honest, it really isn't that hard:
1. Do your best to stay married. Show your kids how a marriage is supposed to be, a loving, caring give and take relationship. You're going to be mad at each other, that's part of it but come to a common ground and don't fight in front of your kids.
2. Don't be your kids friend, they don't need more friends, they need parents who set boundaries and are a good role models, you act like an arse hat, guess what, so will they. You can be friends when they are grown.
3. Do not threaten, follow through with what you say, especially when they are young, once you've set a precedent that you don't mean what you say, when they are pre teens or older it's too late and they won't listen to you. Believe it or not spanking when they are young works, not beating, 3 licks on a bare butt does wonders at making a kid straighten up.
4. Demand respect for you and your spouse and others. By no means let the kids rule the roost and talk back.

Why do I say these things and know they work? I have 2 sons, oldest is 24, married has a 1yo son of his own and is a State Trooper, youngest is 19 and studying to be a CRNA, I've been married to the same woman for 30 years. Both of my boys were A students all the way through school, and were great kids, no major trouble at all, never gave me or my wife a reason not to trust them and never got in trouble at school. I've been blessed but also believe how we raised them definitely helped.


These are all really good lessons and this is how life should go. Congrats man, in all seriousness, you have achieved a really good life.

I was looking for a bit more psychological tactics and such when little man throws a fit, when to hold an argument or drop it etc..

But overall big picture you are are right about your biblical 1-4 up there.