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re: Former employer returned my personal items completely destroyed. What recourse do I have?

Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:13 am to
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
22152 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:13 am to
Lesson learned - don't leave your former employer without having the time and boxes to pack your own items before leaving the premises with them in your possession

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Should I just chalk it up as a loss?

Depends on how far you are willing to go with it. First step will be for you to take the time and determine the appropriate financial compensation. Make sure you save whatever you use to determine the replacement cost
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
140793 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:15 am to
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put a price tag on ur shite and send them a bill


I'd send them a bill for replacement with pictures of the damage. If they don't pay, take them to court.
Posted by Weekend Warrior79
Member since Aug 2014
22152 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:15 am to
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Carrier could be liable if the company used someone like fedex or UPS or someone like that.

If the company knowingly put fragile items in the box and did not properly secure them and/or mark the box as fragile; the carrier most likely would not have any liability here.
Posted by SidetrackSilvera
Member since Nov 2012
2881 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:18 am to
I wasn't even allowed to keep my soothing lamp in my cube.

Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6560 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:19 am to
This is for others, never put items of value (sentimental or monetary) in someone else's space. I've been in the same office since 2003, I have very little personal here.
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
51428 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:22 am to
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If necessary, remind them you didn't sign an NDA or Non-Disparagement contract and you will be going public with photos and long write ups if they don't make it right.

If you never signed an NDA, this is truly the only way to go here. Light 'em up online, but stick to provable facts.

Corporate life is hell on earth.
This post was edited on 7/29/26 at 11:23 am
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
37425 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:30 am to
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Framed desk picture is all you should have in an office, if that much. Sends message that you could up and leave anytime

I’ve worked from home for the vast majority of my career, but for the couple years that I did work from an office I didn’t have a single “personal” item in my office.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
157134 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:36 am to
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Yeah, I know what you'd like to do. You'd like to find the guy who did it, rip his still-beating heart out of his chest and hold it in front of his face so he can see how black it is before he dies.

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Actually I just wanted to file a grievance with the union.

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Well, the world’s a twisted place.




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NotoriousFSU

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teke184

Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
10635 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:40 am to
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This sounds more like a firing than being laid off. What did you do?


Functionally theres no difference. In most bigger corporations, whether you're fired for cause, or if you’re cut in a RIF, the steps are the same:

1 - Notify you in some manner.. usually by a superior but sometimes by electronic means.

2 - Disable your network and email access and take your company issued cell phone.

3 - Escort you to your desk where usually you’re given 30 minutes to collect your stuff, under the supervision of Security.

4 - Walk you out to the front door and ensure you leave the premises.

All this is done to make sure you can’t retaliate while on premises.

Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
6245 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:43 am to
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“I would like to discuss possible reimbursement for my damaged property.”


Should have omitted "possible".
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
75878 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:43 am to
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Framed desk picture is all you should have in an office, if that much. Sends message that you could up and leave anytime
This

I won’t ever be in the OP’s situation but I could still clean my office out of everything I would want to take with me in less than five minutes with a single box.

Less is more.

I’d miss my old work mobile phone collection (dating back to Nokia days) in one of my desk drawers. Might snatch a Blackberry for old times sake.
Posted by alphaandomega
Tuscaloosa-Here to Serve
Member since Aug 2012
17296 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:44 am to
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Framed desk picture is all you should have in an office, if that much. Sends message that you could up and leave anytime


I own my on business and the only "personal" thing I have is a cell phone charger cord. This is a business, not a "homey" place. I work here. I make money here.

I keep those things at home and I have never understood why people keep all kinds of crap that is not business related at their job.

To the OP, sorry they damaged your stuff but I doubt they will do anything about it.
Posted by MKP2004
Member since Mar 2026
856 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:45 am to
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HR, on the other hand, may care. Not because they give a frick about you, they don't. But because those HR people (pieces of shite) are there to protect the company. I hope your contact with them indicates at least an implied threat of "is this how your want your company perceived as treating employees?" Because that kind of talk grinds their gears.

If necessary, remind them you didn't sign an NDA or Non-Disparagement contract and you will be going public with photos and long write ups if they don't make it right.

This right here.

Also maybe low-key passively aggressively threatening them with legal action will encourage them to make this right.

I'm sorry brother. That sucks
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
11264 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:45 am to
Of course you’re entitled to the safe return of your belongings.

Document and send to HR with a hefty price tag to be made whole. Mental anguish (you said it meant a lot to you personally), time to find the items again, etc. The whole nine yards.

Don’t let it go. You are entitled to compensation and they will pay. Keep pushing and go up the HR chain of command. All the way to the top and then the executives. At some point, the top will tell their underlings to pay you to get rid of the issue.

This post was edited on 7/29/26 at 11:46 am
Posted by Dirtysouthdeacon
Dirtysouth
Member since Aug 2018
291 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:49 am to
One thing is for sure: HR is not there to help you or take care of you. There are there to protect the company. Do not believe a word they say.
Posted by GeauxZone90
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2010
3687 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:51 am to
Employers are not your friend. Your stuff is not worth anything. Let it be
Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
25720 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 11:57 am to
Get a lawyer to write a threatening letter. It'll probably cost like $500 to do this though.
Posted by KyleOrtonsMustache
Krystal Baller
Member since Jan 2008
5190 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 12:04 pm to
1. Visit the office.
2. shite on a baking rack (or equivalent shelving)
3. Leave
Posted by TechBullDawg
Member since May 2014
2757 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 12:08 pm to
Is it really worth the time and expense for your damaged stuff?

Lesson learned, keep your shite at home.
Posted by Shorts Guy
BR
Member since Dec 2023
907 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 12:08 pm to
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I’ve worked from home for the vast majority of my career, but for the couple years that I did work from an office I didn’t have a single “personal” item in my office.


I mostly work from home and I don’t even have a bunch of personal shite on my desk here. Back when I worked in cubicle land I always found it odd when people went crazy decorating their cube. A plant, a couple of pictures, and maybe a few books…what more do you really need in there?
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