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re: Former employer returned my personal items completely destroyed. What recourse do I have?

Posted on 7/29/26 at 5:33 pm to
Posted by Mo Debumly
Member since May 2026
346 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 5:33 pm to
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As most of you know, I posted a thread last week lamenting about how I was laid off from my job. I was allowed to grab what I could carry from my office and was then escorted out of the building.
You let them force you to leave your property behind?

Not a chance I'm leaving peacefully.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
135185 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 5:47 pm to
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Framed desk picture is all you should have in an office,



Of the boss's wife. Establish dominance
Posted by Dissident Aggressor
Member since Aug 2011
5888 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 6:24 pm to
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Sorry they broke your sports dolls baw

yea no
sack up buttercup and quit crying about some toys
you think corporate gives a shite about your baubles…
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
17805 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 6:43 pm to
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If necessary, remind them you didn't sign an NDA or Non-Disparagement contract

Mine made me sign one to get one month's severance. It specifically named lawsuits I was not permitted to join.

Avoid any Indian company.
Posted by Sterling Archer
Member since Aug 2012
8494 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 6:46 pm to
Name and shame them. Usually works for large companies
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
25429 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 7:01 pm to
I used to make the HR Director my best friend at work. It didn't hurt that the first one was beautiful and 6 feet tall. And most of the others I became friends with. I never had a negative comment stay in my record more than a month. Even when I left after a big argument she (the first) told me (regarding my personnel file), "That's funny, I see nothing about it in your file."

But, I know yall's point.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
17805 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 7:17 pm to
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first one was beautiful and 6 feet tall.

I know why you watch Ted Lasso.
Posted by brass2mouth
NOLA
Member since Jul 2007
20780 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 7:28 pm to
Yeahhhh…I ain’t leaving the office without my personal shite.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired - 31 years
Member since Feb 2019
6633 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 9:48 pm to
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This is silly.

It does not matter whether you do or don't. It's a personal preference. I like people walking into a warmer environment.

My wife lightly decorated my office with some family black and white photos on the walls, a big snake plant in a nice pot and a couple desk photos of my kids. My co-workers have similar.



Then you risk being in the same situation as the OP. He'll never get compensated for his ruined personal items.

If you have outside clients coming into your office, I can see decorating, otherwise don't. We're men after all.
Posted by DWaginHTown
Houston, TX
Member since Jan 2006
10218 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 10:01 pm to
Go back and leave an upper decker
Posted by CapitalTiger
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Sep 2019
722 posts
Posted on 7/29/26 at 10:34 pm to
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Then you risk being in the same situation as the OP. He'll never get compensated for his ruined personal items.


Eh. OP’s situation seems rather extreme. Most situations I’m familiar with have allowed the dismissed employee time to remove their effects. Typically after hours or on the weekend with security or staff present. Or at minimum, removed and boxed them for pickup. Not shipped them locally.
Posted by Lou Loomis
A pond. Ponds good for you.
Member since Mar 2025
2231 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 12:31 am to
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remind them you didn't sign an NDA or Non-Disparagement contract


One thing companies hate.. is bad social media posts. Tag them directly and post your complaint and someone will respond within 10 minutes. If it’s a national company that is. If it’s a small company, they won’t care.
Posted by TechBullDawg
Member since May 2014
2878 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 3:53 am to
Being an a-hole to your former company on social media is something your future employer will find out. Let it go man
Posted by Judnnc
Member since Jun 2025
960 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 4:06 am to
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I’ve worked from home for the vast majority of my career, but for the couple years that I did work from an office I didn’t have a single “personal” item in my office.


Federal government?
Posted by TideHater
Orange Beach AL
Member since May 2007
19962 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 4:36 am to
My work partner was laid off and walked out last year. Just a reduction in workforce. The HR rep came and collected his personals. His backpack had a loaded Glock 45 9mm inside it. He kept it on the back of his desk chair everyday.



No chance on rehiring him.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
63796 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 4:42 am to
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Of the boss's wife. Establish dominance



Piss on the walls of his office to mark your territory

Poop in the drawers of your desk to mark your territory

Bang all the women in his family (over 18) to show him who is the real alpha

Posted by Mike the Tiger 1999
Weston, Florida
Member since Jul 2009
2347 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 5:46 am to
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sports dolls
no, they’re figurines. jesus, Marie
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
17322 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 5:59 am to
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good-sized collection of Braves bobbleheads and a few nicely-framed railroad prints that I had hanging up


Why do you have this stuff in you work office? It’s work…it’s not your man cave. Never understood people that do this.
Posted by ChatGPT of LA
Member since Mar 2023
8035 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 6:09 am to
Send an invoice, eventually leading to a lein on their property.
The calye of those items are your value, in many cases.

Send a ridiculous invoice, certified, and wait
Posted by double d
Amarillo by morning
Member since Jun 2004
17237 posts
Posted on 7/30/26 at 6:18 am to
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you sure you were laid off?


I've seen a major chemical company do it the way the OP stated for every level of employee including operators. Escorted off the site immediately and belongings boxed and either brought to them outside the site or sent to them. Can't take a chance of somebody going postal I guess.
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