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re: Do You Teach Your Kids to Say "Ma'am" or "Sir" As a Sign of Respect?

Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:52 am to
Posted by TechDawg2007
Bawville
Member since Nov 2007
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:52 am to
And teaching my son to never shake a mans hand while sitting down. He’s 2 and when he meets someone he will stick his little hand out to shake the persons hand and say “hi, my name is _____ nice to meet you”
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
41201 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:00 am to
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Is there anything as cringey as hearing a small kid calling their parents by their first name? What the frick is that shite.


I can’t handle this.
Posted by drexyl
Mingovia
Member since Sep 2005
23074 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:04 am to
I'm not militant about it but it is encouraged.
Posted by Ponchy Tiger
Ponchatoula
Member since Aug 2004
45199 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:08 am to
I say sir and ma'am to people 30 years younger than me every day. It is a sign of respect. I show everyone this respect no matter their age until they do something to not deserve it. On the other hand I am 50 and have never be comfortable being called sir. Especially my friends kids. It seems impersonal to me. I correct them quickly and tell them to call me by my first name.
Posted by Bard
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Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:20 am to
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Do You Teach Your Kids to Say "Ma'am" or "Sir" As a Sign of Respect?


Absolutely. The less that younger generations are taught to respect elders, the more disrespectful younger generations become.
Posted by alajones
Huntsvegas
Member since Oct 2005
34513 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:24 am to
Another funny story...

When we went to the LSU game in Seattle back in 2009, we took a Sunday trip out to the Olympic Peninsula. We stopped at this small town store and started talking with the owners.

The lady literally got one of her friends to come up just to hear my kids talk. “Aww. Yes ma’am and yes sir. I love it. Your two are so cute.”

I kind of felt like saying “aww, bless your heart.”

We still laugh about that.
Posted by theenemy
Member since Oct 2006
13078 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:34 am to
I say sir and ma'am to everyone until they do something to lose my respect.

My son says sir and ma'am to all adults
This post was edited on 5/3/19 at 7:34 am
Posted by ConfusedHawgInMO
Member since Apr 2014
3512 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:37 am to
I say each to folks regardless of if they are older than me or not.
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3274 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:40 am to
I can't stand kids who don't use them. They're all bastards it seems.
Posted by jlovel7
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2014
21351 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:46 am to
I do to people I don’t know and did it when I was below college age and maybe some a little in college depending on the situation. What I find amusing are the people who demand it even after you know someone and it isn’t a boss/employee dynamic. Once you’re both adults and aquatinted first names should be fine. But some people get off on the power trip.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55845 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:47 am to
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I’m 25 and sometimes I feel weird calling older coworkers “Mr.”.
that's cuck behavior
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:48 am to
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But some people get off on the power trip.

meh, I use it daily at work, and I'm typically older than the people I'm working with, and I'm the boss
Posted by IAmNERD
Member since May 2017
19313 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:49 am to
Absolutely. I'm not too concerned with them saying it to me as I used to think it was a power trip thing because my dad was all about it. But my kids know they better say it to other adults.
Posted by MorbidTheClown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2015
66364 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:50 am to
i teach em to say frick off and eat a dick. Goes over well at family gatherings.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:50 am to
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i teach em to say frick off and eat a dick

raising them right, baw!
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 7:51 am to
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I didn't endure switchings for saying "yup" as a kid only to not pass down the same manners.

young Pecker dropped “yeah” a lot and was promptly corrected. To this day I still say yes ma’am to many strangers, especially to those who are older.
Posted by elprez00
Hammond, LA
Member since Sep 2011
29429 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 8:11 am to
Yes. It’s a southern tradition that the world would benefit from.

I love doing it up north and having people look at me like I’m crazy.
Posted by Perfect Circle
S W Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
6858 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 8:26 am to
I'm 57 and still say, "ma'am" and "sir" to my dad, parents in-law and anyone their age.
Posted by ibldprplgld
Member since Feb 2008
25082 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 8:30 am to
Yes. In fact, I'm in my early 30s, and my friends and I have now reached the age where it's socially appropriate to start calling each other's parents by their first names only without the Mr. or Mrs. in front and it's just weird. It feels so disrespectful. Sometimes I still use the prefix depending on the setting.

But I will always say yes, ma'am or yes, sir to them and my parents. My mom would give me hell for days if I answered her with "yeah."
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
72615 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 8:32 am to
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I'm 57 and still say, "ma'am" and "sir" to my mother in-law and anyone their age.


I will frequently say it to younger folks. It's just courtesy...

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