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re: Do You Teach Your Kids to Say "Ma'am" or "Sir" As a Sign of Respect?

Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:45 am to
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47465 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:45 am to
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frick no. They aren’t in the goddamn Marines.



I’m shocked at this from you. Changes a lot.

I’ve not hired folks who don’t good manners in my opinion. They’re going to work in customer service, so it’s important.

Differences exist, though.
Posted by BawFromBawcomville
Member since May 2019
83 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 12:54 am to
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Yes, I taught my children that courtesy and my grandchildren are respectful that way as well


Well behaved grandchildren means you did your job as a parent well.

Have an upvote
Posted by WaterLink
Baton Rouge
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 1:45 am to
Posted by SoulGlo
Shinin' Through
Member since Dec 2011
17248 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 1:52 am to
Yes
Posted by OKellsBells
USA
Member since Dec 2016
5264 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 2:08 am to
Posted by Ryan3232
Valet driver for TD staff
Member since Dec 2008
25845 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 4:34 am to
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Parents didn’t make us say it and we all turned out ok


who the frick are you speaking for sir...?
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
17062 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 4:37 am to
I definitely teach that
Posted by Kickadawgitfeelsgood
Lafayette LA
Member since Nov 2005
14089 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 4:57 am to
Like my grandfather always said, “ I don’t give a shite if you are white black rich or poor.... it don’t cost you a penny to have manners “
Posted by Macfly
BR & DS
Member since Jan 2016
8137 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:02 am to
I also ensured please and thank you worked in tandem with addressing folks.
Posted by madamsquirrel
The Snarlington Estate
Member since Jul 2009
48919 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:39 am to
I raised all of my children to be polite and respectful. I did not however raise them to say ma'am and sir because I travel a lot and it is not the norm outside of the south. All of my children travel/have lived abroad/didn't stay in the south so I am glad it is not a habit for them. I grew up with it as a habit and had to break it for my career so I did not think it was important to make my children do it.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:43 am to
Is a must in my house.
Posted by Polycarp
Texas
Member since Feb 2009
5570 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:47 am to
Yes sir I do, we are from the south
Posted by Donkus
Shreveport
Member since Feb 2013
636 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:48 am to
When I lived in Chicago I got asked all the time if I was in the military because of my ma'am and sirs. I thought it was normal to be that way.
Posted by Rouge
Floston Paradise
Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:56 am to
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I did not however raise them to say ma'am and sir because I travel a lot and it is not the norm outside of the south.


Says the lady that LITERALLY has madam in her user name.

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I grew up with it as a habit and had to break it for my career so I did not think it was important to make my children do it.
what career negativity would arise from using those manners? Do you ever feel resentful for feeling the need to abandon a non-offensive cultural norm that you were raised to value?
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
67497 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 5:56 am to
Yes
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26709 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:03 am to
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Parents didn’t make us say it and we all turned out ok


Sure about that?
Posted by fillmoregandt
OTM
Member since Nov 2009
14368 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:19 am to
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I didn't endure switchings for saying "yup" as a kid only to not pass down the same manners.




Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171078 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:28 am to
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Are you some kind of carpetbagger?



Do you know where the great lakes are?
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:33 am to
I say ma'am or sir to basically any adult I'm speaking to that I don't know personally and I'm 52
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48781 posts
Posted on 5/3/19 at 6:45 am to
I don't make my kid call me sir but she does to other adults
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