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re: 35 days sober(alcohol). Longest I've been sober in 35 years. The benefits are obvious...

Posted on 8/15/26 at 7:36 am to
Posted by WeagleEagle
Folsom Prison
Member since Sep 2011
2642 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 7:36 am to
I hit 6 months today. I had slowly gotten out of control the last 10 or so years. I was drinking about a twelve pack a day. My life was a constant battle to drink just enough to feel great but not too much to be hammered. Most days I could pull it off. Some days I’d end up hammered. My whole life was going down the drain. It’s amazing not dealing with that constant struggle anymore. Alcohol had become the most important thing in my life. I’d wake up thinking about it and go to sleep doing the same thing. That’s a horrible way to live.
Someone above asked what changes. For me, everything. My relationship with God is the best it’s ever been. My relationship with my wife and family is the best it’s ever been. I’ve lost almost 30 pounds. No empty calories and I’ve gotten a lot more active. I also eat way cleaner not being drunk daily. Life is awesome. The hardest part for me was coming to the realization that I just can’t drink. No matter how much I tried to control it, one was never enough.
Posted by UptownJoeBrown
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2024
11703 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 7:43 am to
Good for you.

I quit smoking after 20 years. Almost 20 years without one now.

Don’t let stress in other parts of your life be an excuse to start again.
Posted by 4Bagger
Member since Jan 2025
838 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 7:53 am to
Congratulations. I can't imagine trying to function with that amount of drinking. I pray that this brings my closer to God, my family and sober friends.
Posted by IndianPower
Louisiana
Member since May 2021
2274 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 7:53 am to
Good job!

Proud of you Baw.

Its tough in the beginning but you are off to an amazing start. Keep it up!
Posted by Meauxjeaux
102836 posts including my alters
Member since Jun 2005
47426 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 7:58 am to
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I've been a once or twice a week drinker for probably 35 years... binge drink a few times a month maybe.


What do you consider binge drinking, because you’re pretty much sober already.

ETA: nvm I read your updates. Great job on 35 days!
This post was edited on 8/15/26 at 8:13 am
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
25079 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:04 am to
Congratulations, 4B!

Only advice is to focus on and appreciate the positive results you’ve got and as another poster said, one day at a time!

Really work on that list of positives- add to it any little thing that you think of.

Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
35191 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:05 am to
30 and 90 days (roughly speaking) are important milestones.

The first 30 breaks the dopamine dependence. At 90 days, the level of dopamine pathways begins to return to normal and brain starts building new balanced pathways for dopamine uptake.
Posted by Payne Avis Stewart
Member since Jul 2026
120 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:11 am to
Drinking wasn't made for women and children.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60073 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:13 am to
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This post was edited on 8/15/26 at 8:16 am
Posted by Burt Reynolds
Monterey, CA
Member since Jul 2008
24731 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:16 am to
Yea and then once youre around all your friends and theyre all having a drink and you arent, you will succumb or just feel like youre missing out.
Posted by T1gerNate
Member since Feb 2020
3960 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:16 am to
Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and whoever is led astray by it is not wise.
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
112490 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:22 am to
I’m kinda with Zach Top here, the whole sobriety thing is a fad that has jumped the shark (not directed towards OP necessarily)

Look, if someone is a true alcoholic then sobriety is a must. No questions asked. But we are in a time where people who aren’t alcoholics have to go completely sober yada yada

Being completely stone cold sober is not going to have any material benefits on someone who is a responsible moderate of light drinker. In fact, it could at times have detriments
This post was edited on 8/15/26 at 8:25 am
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
27504 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:27 am to
Can never relate to daily drinking, as I’ve only used socially, but when I think back: in all of my greatest regrets alcohol was involved.

It’s literally a product of death. Dead plants get fermented and the poison gives us a buzz.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60073 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:28 am to
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I’m kinda with Zach Top here, the whole sobriety thing is a fad that has jumped the shark

This is my bit

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In fact, it could at times have detriments

The sobriety fad has killed the music scene in America (Zach top sucks btw industry plant)
Posted by Shut Up Mulllet
Member since Apr 2021
1019 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:32 am to
I work turnarounds in plants.
So I work for months at a time. I quit drinking during those months I work.

Never felt any better or worse. I think it’s all in your head. Placebo effect.
Posted by cgrand
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Member since Oct 2009
50713 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:38 am to
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Being completely stone cold sober is not going to have any material benefits on someone who is a responsible moderate of light drinker. In fact, it could at times have detriments
holy shite

Alcohol is an introduced poison, it is not manufactured by the body and your body has no receptors for it. It acts on your nervous system because it is a toxin. There are no “benefits” to health by introducing it and no “detriments” to not introducing it

This is up there among the dumbest things I’ve ever read here
Posted by Lithium
Member since Dec 2004
64382 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:40 am to
Congrats to all who have gotten off the alcohol or cut down. It's a disease.

The American Society of Addiction Medicine says for a man no more then 3 drinks a day and no more than 14 a week. For all women and for men over 60. No more than 2 day and 7 per week. These are good guidelines. They have not released how much a Trans should drink.
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
40273 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:43 am to
Well, a man has to be a man.


I've stopped cold several times, because being a caregiver 24,/ 7 sometimes requires critical thinking skills in a spontaneous moment.

It never bothered me when other people drank; I had already made my decision.
Posted by PensaTigers
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2018
3538 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:47 am to
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Don't put it off until after football season, face the problem now.


Its progress, cold turkey has failed in the past a few times. Once I get used to this being my new reality, I can take another step. I can mentally tell this is something I can do.
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
60073 posts
Posted on 8/15/26 at 8:51 am to
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Alcohol is an introduced poison, it is not manufactured by the body and your body has no receptors for it. It acts on your nervous system because it is a toxin. There are no “benefits” to health by introducing it and no “detriments” to not introducing it

Check your privilege


Some cultures developed with alcohol (Irish, possibly German, etc) and it’s written in their dna

Would you take a fish out of water?
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