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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/5/23 at 9:14 am to ILurkThereforeIAm
Posted on 8/5/23 at 9:14 am to ILurkThereforeIAm
quote:Jaysus Walt, we’re going to need to keep a scorecard to keep up with all of your alters.
But I’m going to say, from a female perspective, you need to take control of your life.
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Posted on 8/5/23 at 9:19 am to TexasTiger08
My divorced homie in his late 40s slays strange endlessly.
Get in shape, move to a decently sized city and get to smashing.
Get in shape, move to a decently sized city and get to smashing.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 9:26 am to MorbidTheClown
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excuse me, i have to go do whatever i want whenever i want.
“And when nobody wakes you up in the morning, and when nobody waits for you at night, and when you can do whatever you want. What do you call it, freedom or loneliness?"
- Charles Bukowski
Posted on 8/5/23 at 9:37 am to Robin Masters
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My divorced homie in his late 40s slays strange endlessly.
If that is all life is about to you then you are gonna be excessively lonely when that appendage no longer attracts poon to slay. That seems like a really shallow way to look at life. But enjoy the present moment.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 10:21 am to el Gaucho
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therapy
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You mean pay to talk to a liberal until you agree with them?
You are correct. Most therapists are liberal.
But that doesn't mean you can't find a good one that gives a good, neutral, and non-biased opinion. Plus many aren't there to talk politics and share their political beliefs.
Many people will quit if they feel like they're pitted against the other spouse --- if they make it that far with the work they have to do on their own.
Mental health is no joke. Having a great therapist is almost as good as having a great physician.
This post was edited on 8/5/23 at 10:22 am
Posted on 8/5/23 at 10:28 am to ILurkThereforeIAm
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If this is the place where you anonymously post your sad thoughts and feelings but you manage to keep your shite together in your real life, then cool.
This is about how it's working for me right now. I spew it out to my close friends and my therapist and on here. I have yet to try to meet women. We've started back at work and I don't think I've allowed it to take over my demeanor.
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The self pity and sad sap routine will only attract another woman who will not respect you. You should want a partner, not a caretaker.
Again, I was not this way (at least to my knowledge) prior to my wife unloading this on me. I was stressed, yes. But I didn't pity myself.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 10:29 am to TexasTiger08
You get some strange yet baw?
Posted on 8/5/23 at 10:41 am to GatorPA84
Not yet. Do I have to wait for anything to be finalized before I hit up Tinder?
Posted on 8/5/23 at 11:42 am to MrLSU
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These women are craving for white Americans
That’s way to far. You can go to Costa rica and be there in 4.5 hours. Women are way hotter. Or go to Columbia. Trust me, you will have the time of your life.
https://www.news.com.au/travel/destinations/south-america/a-colombian-brothel-has-opened-its-own-holiday-sex-resort/news-story/c6c52a3a775b7e5b027538ad0fa2bb4e?amp
This post was edited on 8/5/23 at 11:43 am
Posted on 8/5/23 at 2:04 pm to TexasTiger08
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appreciate the advice. I believe you all to be spot on. It doesn’t make it any easier to move on. I took my vows seriously and thought I found my life partner. I look forward to getting out tomorrow morning and exercising.
You are better off given the facts of what you’ve confided here:
In the back of your former “friend and coworkers” mind will be, she cheated on her prior hubby how can I trust her not to turn on me?
In the back of your former wife’s mind will be, my new beau walked out on his wife and kids how good is this person?
This new arrangement is built on a house of cards, you’re better removed from both.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 2:17 pm to Geauxldilocks
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This new arrangement is built on a house of cards, you’re better removed from both.
You’re right. It amazes me how two intelligent people have completely lost their way. He is slowly alienating himself from his family as well, not just the wife and kids, from what I’ve heard.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 3:03 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:Stop hoping for it to fail and her come back.
It amazes me how two intelligent people have completely lost their way. He is slowly alienating himself from his family as well, not just the wife and kids, from what I’ve heard.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 3:06 pm to TexasTiger08
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He is slowly alienating himself from his family as well, not just the wife and kids, from what I’ve heard.
Not a surprise, they know he sacrificed his kids for short term excitement of a new relationship.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 3:13 pm to TexasTiger08
I love my wife and don't ever plan on splitting up, I also don't plan on marrying any other woman.
My cube mate is 62, smokes, out of shape divorced, lives by himself. He's currently fricking 3 different good looking women. He has one that comes over on Friday and stays till Sunday Morning, and the other 2 alternate visiting him during the week and on Sunday night. If he can get some trim, you can too.
My cube mate is 62, smokes, out of shape divorced, lives by himself. He's currently fricking 3 different good looking women. He has one that comes over on Friday and stays till Sunday Morning, and the other 2 alternate visiting him during the week and on Sunday night. If he can get some trim, you can too.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 3:29 pm to Sam Quint
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frick THAT gaslighting bullshite.
Not really gaslighting. It's very apparent that their communication level was complete arse. That is two sided. If she didn't tell him it has everything to do with him, too.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 4:12 pm to Lester Earl
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If she didn't tell him it has everything to do with him, too.
Explain. I know your schtick hasn’t jived with me in the past, but I’m an open book. I was the way with my spouse.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 4:13 pm to Quatrepot
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Stop hoping for it to fail and her come back.
I’m hoping for the former, not expecting the latter.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 5:05 pm to Lester Earl
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Not really gaslighting. It's very apparent that their communication level was complete arse. That is two sided. If she didn't tell him it has everything to do with him, too.
It's textbook gaslighting. She was holding back communications because she knew he was so stressed during the day! She was trying to help him! She was really the good guy in all this, shouldering the burden, if only he could have seen that and appreciated that in her, she wouldn't have ended up with someone else's cock in her mouth!
Get the frick out of here.
This post was edited on 8/5/23 at 5:11 pm
Posted on 8/5/23 at 7:48 pm to TexasTiger08
Sometimes people walking out of your life is the best thing that can happen to a person. Stop being sad and see it for the blessing it is.
You seem like a nice and meek guy. Unfortunately nice and meek guys are not prioritized by most modern-American women.
I’m not saying be a jerk to the next one, but I would suggest being a lot more aggressive with the next one. Good luck.
You seem like a nice and meek guy. Unfortunately nice and meek guys are not prioritized by most modern-American women.
I’m not saying be a jerk to the next one, but I would suggest being a lot more aggressive with the next one. Good luck.
Posted on 8/5/23 at 7:52 pm to jttasty
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I’m not saying be a jerk to the next one, but I would suggest being a lot more aggressive with the next one.
Behind every great woman is a man who is willing to treat her like shite from time to time. And behind every great man is a woman who, at least sometimes, knows what to do and does what she is told.
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