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re: Follow up re: my imminent divorce UPDATE PG 20
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:42 am to Landmass
Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:42 am to Landmass
I think probably what is going to happen to humanity is we become like the ents
Like the women ents sucked so the men ents sent them to another country and then they got to chill in the forest with no bitching and occasionally they’d come out and overthrow an evil wizard or whatever
It’s really the ideal society
Like the women ents sucked so the men ents sent them to another country and then they got to chill in the forest with no bitching and occasionally they’d come out and overthrow an evil wizard or whatever
It’s really the ideal society
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Posted on 8/4/23 at 9:46 am to Landmass
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I will say that after their 30s, they tend to come back to reality.
unless they are borderlines, then they just get crazier and crazier and crazier.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:02 am to TexasTiger08
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Cleaning out a spare bedroom in my house. Mental prep. I’m assuming it’s mine. If it’s not, so be it.
Just some friendly non-legal, no client relationship advice:
I don’t know where you live but in both TX and LA, you will be presumed to be the father of the child, even if you finalized a divorce today. A child born within 300 days of the termination of the marriage is presumed yours.
So don’t sit on the paternity test. You only have a limited time to bring a legal action to disavow your presumed paternity, and you’ll need some proof such as a paternity test. In LA, you must file this action before the child turns 1. There is a longer time in TX, but it’s not forever, so I would still act quickly.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:12 am to SuperSaint
I didn't say to trip, but to microdose. I am the furthest thing from a hippie you will find.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:13 am to TexasTiger08
No kids?
My man, you just hit the lottery. Get out there and start slaying.
My man, you just hit the lottery. Get out there and start slaying.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 10:52 am to TexasTiger08
Workout, eat healthy, get a boat. Where do you live?
Posted on 8/4/23 at 1:18 pm to Landmass
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Avoid anybody with those same red flags.
It was so sudden. I honestly didn’t see the red flags until it happened. The red flags are that she didn’t communicate anything to me. When she told me, it was too late.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 2:20 pm to The Pirate King
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using all of your newfound free time to improve yourself, not even for someone else, just for yourself.
this is key. And it includes figuring out how your current marriage unraveled, taking honest stock in your part. Not easy to see yourself from someone else's point of view. Much easier to be defensive or play the victim.
I've seen many friends cart all their unaddressed baggage with them to the next (younger) chick only to have that implode even quicker.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 2:33 pm to TexasTiger08
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The red flags are that she didn’t communicate anything to me. When she told me, it was too late.
I'm actually going through the same thing right now so I know how you feel.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 2:54 pm to TigerBaitOohHaHa
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And it includes figuring out how your current marriage unraveled, taking honest stock in your part.
Regardless of whether I am an alcoholic by definition, my drinking was bad for us. That could definitely be a primary reason for her leaving. Why she never had a “come to Jesus” talk about it with me, I’ll never know. I don’t think that explains why she’s seemingly leaving me for another man.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 2:58 pm to TexasTiger08
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The red flags are that she didn’t communicate anything to me. When she told me, it was too late.
She told you, it was just in a non-verbal, woman logic kind of way. You’re supposed to just pick up on it and know what to do.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 3:07 pm to TexasTiger08
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That could definitely be a primary reason for her leaving. Why she never had a “come to Jesus” talk about it with me, I’ll never know. I don’t think that explains why she’s seemingly leaving me for another man.
Because giving into lust is a heck of a lot easier than sitting down and working on your marriage.
Women always believe the grass is greener. In most cases, it's because they aren't over there fricking it up yet.
ETA: in my experience women are incapable of caring for 2 people at the same time. Relationships are emotional to them, so if she was already messing around with dude that's where her care was and frankly she didn't give a shite about you or your drinking. You were an inconvenience she had not taken care of yet.
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 3:09 pm
Posted on 8/4/23 at 4:36 pm to BoogaBear
hypergamy DGAF.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 4:52 pm to TexasTiger08
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Regardless of whether I am an alcoholic by definition, my drinking was bad for us. That could definitely be a primary reason for her leaving. Why she never had a “come to Jesus” talk about it with me, I’ll never know. I don’t think that explains why she’s seemingly leaving me for another man.
Most likely, and in her mind, she had many discussions with you about everything that was bothering her in small amounts, but you didn’t hear it and you didn’t recognize it.
People don’t leave what they have unless what they believe they are going to is better.
This post was edited on 8/4/23 at 4:53 pm
Posted on 8/4/23 at 4:55 pm to Will Cover
A swingin monkey don't let go of one branch unless it thinks it's got another to grab onto.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 5:28 pm to BoogaBear
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You were an inconvenience she had not taken care of yet.
This is about how I feel
Posted on 8/4/23 at 5:30 pm to TexasTiger08
Focus on the things you didn’t like about her.
Go to Russia or Ukraine when your ready for a new one. If they still actually want to live in our country anymore.
Go to Russia or Ukraine when your ready for a new one. If they still actually want to live in our country anymore.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 5:39 pm to Will Cover
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Most likely, and in her mind, she had many discussions with you about everything that was bothering her in small amounts, but you didn’t hear it and you didn’t recognize it.
There’s some truth to this I’m sure. She admitted to holding back because of the stress I dealt with on a daily basis and tried to shoulder the burden herself.
Oddly enough, she had second thoughts about having a child but…didn’t communicate that to me either.
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People don’t leave what they have unless what they believe they are going to is better.
She’s leaving me for someone who is ten years older than me (15 older than her). He is bailing on a family that includes two kids, oldest entering middle school.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 5:46 pm to TexasTiger08
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She admitted to holding back because of the stress I dealt with on a daily basis and tried to shoulder the burden herself.
frick THAT gaslighting bullshite.
Posted on 8/4/23 at 5:47 pm to Wermanium
My advice is don't jump into another relationship because it's going to end badly. Take time to find yourself and slowly start dating or just doing things with friends. Went through a divorce 10 years ago and it was tough because we were married almost 20 years and two kids. She jumped into a relationship and she regretted it. I didn't start dating until a little over a year and I still wasn't ready. It will get better but it's not a quick process.
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