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Posted on 8/28/23 at 8:06 pm to Gris Gris
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Then, she’s no longer the woman you married.
I understand that. I miss the woman she WAS. But that ship has sailed. I think my current feelings have less to do with her and more to do with a lack of confidence in being able to move on.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 8:10 pm to Gris Gris
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Then, she’s no longer the woman you married.
None of us should be the same person we were a decade ago. We learn, we grow, we change, hopefully for the better. As a married couple, you hope to grow together. That means strong communication.
Kids (having or not having, if you so desire) get in the way, life can get in the way. It's important to keep the marriage in focus, and let everything run down from there.
Keep in shape, keep being physical, be grateful for one another, pray together, accept shortcomings and be the one who picks up the slack for the things your spouse struggles with, do new things together...But gratitude is huge. Saying thank you for the smallest things i.e. making the bed, taking out the trash, etc. is important. It shows you are aware and thankful for their contribution to your life.
I guess, don't get lazy with each other.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 8:13 pm to liz18lsu
You truly missed my point and his. What you say may be what should have happened, but didn’t.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 8:17 pm to Gris Gris
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You truly missed my point and his. What you say may be what should have happened, but didn’t.
I hear a man who wanted his wife to remain as the person he met and they did not grow together. I missed no point. Lessons to be learned. I hope the OP will cherish himself and learn things in counseling. That he will value his life, because no roadblock that another person hands us is worth our lives. I pray that he finds solace and peace.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 8:26 pm to TexasTiger08
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But that ship has sailed.
Yes, it has.
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I think my current feelings have less to do with her and more to do with a lack of confidence in being able to move on.
You do not have to move on to another relationship at this point in time. Move on to a relationship with yourself, your family and friends. You should not depend on anyone but you. Take care of you.
I wasn’t married, but I was cheated on and devastated. It’s not fun. I spent some time feeling sorry for myself and thinking I wasn’t worthy etc…. The guy was really close friends with some of my family members which didn’t help. I called an end to my pity party, put on my big girl panties and resumed enjoying life. It wasn’t easy, but I was determined. When I made that decision, things fell into place. The hurt was lighter. I found I was so much better off. He married 4 times.
Posted on 8/28/23 at 9:16 pm to Gris Gris
What page are pics on?
Posted on 8/28/23 at 10:15 pm to TexasTiger08
Divorce her and frick a bunch of single moms. It won’t make the pain go away but you won’t be thinking about her while banging sluts.
Posted on 10/10/23 at 8:48 pm to TexasTiger08
quote:Benn there and done that and have about 3 t-shirts.
I’m a little over 2 months into this new life of mine. It’s impacting my work. My confidence is shot. I feel the people who don’t care and want me gone outweigh those that do love me.
Quit feeling sorry for yourself and get out there and live.
Posted on 10/10/23 at 9:55 pm to Tasty Thrill
Huh???
Posted on 10/10/23 at 10:46 pm to TexasTiger08
Separated at 36, lost 16lbs in 6 weeks. Met a ton of new friends. Don’t wallow in pity. You got out at good time to change your course in life. Don’t neglect your kids, they still think you hung the moon. I know it hurts, but pain is temporary.
Posted on 10/10/23 at 10:49 pm to Tasty Thrill
Why are you bumping this thread?
Posted on 10/10/23 at 11:31 pm to tigersownall
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Why are you bumping this thread?
I always wonder the same. Old boy was just scrolling through the OT and 30 pages back, I guess this one caught his eye enough to respond.
Posted on 10/11/23 at 12:07 pm to TexasTiger08
1. You need a whore. There are apps for that.
2. You need David Allan Coe to remind you of the upsides to single life:
"It's Great to Be Single Again"
3. You need to get out. For me, I found a couple buddies to shoot pool with, this helped immensely.
2. You need David Allan Coe to remind you of the upsides to single life:
"It's Great to Be Single Again"
3. You need to get out. For me, I found a couple buddies to shoot pool with, this helped immensely.
This post was edited on 10/11/23 at 12:09 pm
Posted on 10/11/23 at 12:56 pm to Walt OReilly
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You will never heal. It’s been 11 years for me and not a day goes by I don’t think of her. Only by the grace of god and my parents I haven’t put a bullet in my head. Once my parents pass I’ll probably bow out. You’ll never get over her despite what all these douchebags say.
frick that...don't listen to this puss right here...You'll heal...believe me. Live your life. you had a life before you met her and you will again.
Posted on 10/11/23 at 12:59 pm to NytroBud
Is this the guy who like told his wife he was cheating on her during a family vacation?
But also said he never had sex with the woman he was cheating with?
But also said he never had sex with the woman he was cheating with?
Posted on 10/11/23 at 1:01 pm to Delacroix22
No that was a guy with an auburn flair. He should give us an update
Posted on 10/11/23 at 1:25 pm to SpidermanTUba
Your husband left you?
No way. You are so awesome. Weird.
Anyway.
No way. You are so awesome. Weird.
Anyway.
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