re: Another article about “the Boy Crisis” that gives a different perspective

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Some men are giving up on women, they aren't worth the bullshite.

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That's basically my point. Women have no idea what they are unintentionally building here. They see the current situation where they are doing better in college and other metrics and they think yay we're finally doing it! They're completely oblivious to the fact that even today not a single right exists for a woman that isn't being allowed to Exist by men. And I use the word allowed very intentionally. Feminists need to be careful what they wish for because they're just liable to get it and they're going to be very stunned by the real world results

All too often people conflate, "trashy women" with "women."

There's a lot of whores out there, because parents put their little angels on birth control; convinced they'll frick around. And when they inevitably do, it reinforces their decision to put their daughters on the pill.

While this has most certainly led to fewer teenage pregnancies, it has also led to a lot of jaded and lonely spinsters.

Parents, it's your job to raise your daughters to be women and not whores.

Read some Camille Paglia

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Who is guiding and training women to do these things?

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Mentally challenged feminists.

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there is only one person who is a regular poster who fits (or is close to fitting) into the nihilism paradigm, and that's kingbob.

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First of all, I am significantly younger than most of y’all. I actually spend a lot of time with people in their lower twenties, so I am seeing these issues play out in real time.

Secondly, y’all do realize that I was married before and still date regularly, right? Third, my issues are my issues. Some are within my control, some are not. Some of what I cannot control is environmental, some is cultural, and some is specific to me. Some of my situation is the result of my actions, and I have had help along the way, but a lot of it was due to no good action available to take. In my own life, I focus on what I can control, but I am not afraid to point out bullshite when I see it, especially when that bullshite is political with potential recourse available in the voting booth.

My personal philosophy is simple: I observe a problem. It’s an economic problem, a social problem, a political problem, and a demographic problem. I believe that the fundamental economic problem (the economic value of labor is too low for average workers to afford to effectively marry and raise families during their safe and fertile periods of life to do so, effectively forestalling adulthood indefinitely) is the ultimate driver of the social and political crisis.

I can see that there are some who are noticing it, some who are too removed to notice, some who are ignoring it, and some actively gaslighting to obfuscate it. Some are working towards a solution, while others are victim-blaming or minimizing the problem either out of ignorance or agenda.

If this problem is not solved, the consequences are civilization extinction level risky. Throughout history, this problem has occurred many times. It is a cyclical one. When not resolved via innovation, cultural changes, or peaceful means, it has been resolved through extremely violent conflict, bloody revolution, devastating plagues, or famine that kills upwards of 1/4 to 1/2 of the population, thereby changing the fundamental balance between labor and ruling classes (which in turn results in surviving laborers having more leverage and better economic and social conditions). Statistically speaking, we’re actually overdue.

I do not wish to see such a calamity come to pass. I want to be wrong. I am merely a canary in a coal mine singing a warning. It may already be too late, but I refuse to believe that we, as both individuals and a society, are incapable of fixing this problem without mass death and destruction. I would rather attempt to be a part of the solution than wad my ears and block my eyes as I whistle past the graveyard and pretend everything is okay.

I focus on what I can control and I do okay for myself. It’s not necessarily what I want, but it’s life. However, I think we CAN fix this, we should, and I won’t stop trying to even after bombs start falling.

Much like the Marxists, I recognize that this is a class struggle perpetrated by globalist neo-liberal elites (via mass migration and economic offshoring). Unlike the Marxists, I don’t want to cause the bloody revolution and trigger a collapse where I hope to come out on top. I want to use capitalism to rebuild the economy to greater prosperity for the middle classes, thereby improving the average worker’s economic leverage and situation, avoiding a collapse entirely. I see government institutions too often as an impediment, that they are acting contrary to the text and intention of the constitution in order to do so. Our civilization isn’t dying, it’s being actively murdered, and I want to stop the killing before it succeeds.

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Men and boys aren’t maintaining close friendships because societal norms of masculinity discourage them.

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A retarded, misandristic take if there ever was one. No surprise an abject moron like you would latch on to such a smooth-brained conclusion.

On a very basic level, there is another problem with all of this. Isn't being there emotionally what husbands/wives are supposed to do?

I find it hypocritical that so many women are losing their minds because "my man expects me to be my therapist". Two points about this:

1) That should be a GOOD THING! It means the man is being open and honest with you, and trust you.

2) Stop acting like women don't expect their man to take on the same role. How many times do you see women come home from work and rant to the man about their day? Or go off on them because they had a bad day at work? Or want emotional support because they had an argument with one of their friends? Women are guilty of the SAME THING!

That's not to say either men or women in a relationship should act as a therapist. There are topics, when they get to a certain level, that require professional help. But these women aren't wanting men to even remotely rely on them for emotional support. And then these women wonder why men are emotionally stunted and don't open up to them.

I’ve never heard a man say he was not “seen” or “heard.” This is complete bullshite. Women require constant attention or they pout and sulk while saying everything is fine when asked what is wrong. Women are typically emotional vampires in most relationships

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No wonder you "need feminism.".

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? Who are you quoting?