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Strippers can also be pretty gross. At least the strip clubs in Lincoln are pretty nasty.


Tampa it depends. Some are fine (relatively speaking), others are downright nasty. I've typically gone to Oz and Ybor, which aren't the highest clientele, but aren't bad either. There are far trashier strip clubs in Florida than those two.

I found your comments to be honest and helpful. To be honest, part of me has tried to find a woman and really, with the way dating is nowadays, have largely just given up.

I'm also just very much touch deprived in general nowadays which stinks to say the least.

I value my freedom and independence, but do find I miss that companionship, especially around the holidays and winter months when (even in Florida) you aren't outside as much. I don't think I'm your stereotypical "loser" in a strip club, but I get I'm probably not far from it. Thanks to many posts here, including yours, and the cold weather, I didn't go tonight. I can't say I'm off going tomorrow night, but definitely re-evaluating.
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Dude - You are 41. Your life is not over. You can flip your life/health completely around and be a completely different person in a year.

Your life does not have to be sad, you have the power and ability to change things. You don't have to be the strip club guy.

Tonight could be the night that instead of driving 90 minutes to go to a strip club solo, you decided to change your life for the better. Spend the weekend putting together a workout plan, finally commit to starting that hobby, read a book or two on $$$.

You'll slowly find your life becomes more fulfilling. You feel better physically and mentally. You start earning more money. With that, you also start to get the attention from some attractive women that you don't have to pay for.

Life is too short, take this weekend to take the first step at being better.


I can't really say anything against what you just said. Definitely made me think about it at least. Decided against going to the strip club tonight.
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I’m sure the dancers are very talented, but they seem dirty and have lots of issues. And it’s gay being a dude wanting to get horned up surrounded by a bunch of dudes. Overall it’s just sad.


Since you are an FSU fan, you might know the Tampa scene. Typically I go to Oz in Clearwater or Ybor in Ybor City. Both are good as they have private areas for the dances.

It's one of the reasons I don't care for Mons Venus. The idea of doing private dances right there in public to me is a little weird.

I think LSU missed the window...

Posted by TigerSharkMan on 11/28/25 at 2:43 pm
The time to get Lane to commit was early or middle of this week. I truly don't think he knows right now and that makes it worse. It makes me believe it's going to be an emotional decision and if it is the momentum will be with Ole Miss. I don't see him wanting to leave these players before the CFP.

They needed to get to him earlier in the week when it would've been more of a business decision and not an emotional decision.
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Trashy AF.
Seems foolish to pay outrageous prices for drinks and skank women likely on drugs to dance naked for you who have no true interest in you.


In Tampa, because they are full nudity, alcohol isn't even sold. You have to buy one non-alcoholic drink when you go in. And of course yes it's outrageously priced. I would always get a bottle of water and it was like $7.

But after that, there's no drink requirements. Driving to/from Tampa I wouldn't be drinking anyway.

The thing that gets me is the back room requirement. You already pay the strip club $5-$10 (the ones I've been to in Tampa) just to get in the door and the $7 for the one bottle of water. Then you have to pay $10 just to go back to the lap dance area, in addition of course to whatever you are paying the stripper.

It makes it much more important to pick the right woman and do multiple dances or even pay for an hour, instead of hanging out with multiple women and paying $10 each time in addition to whatever you and the woman agreed to.
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I admit it. I've been to strip clubs in my life. They are trashy and after the second dancer very boring. I think they should be illegal because they victimize women.


I completely disagree with this. Outside of the sex trafficking angle, which I know does happen, women are not required to go into that line of work. Many women do it because it actually does make them feel empowered. Especially for college girls, they make far more in a night in a strip club then they do in 2 weeks in some minimum wage job.

Obviously it shouldn't be a career goal of any woman. Any woman should look at a strip club as a temporary job that is a means to an end, a means to something better.

But I absolutely believe that strip clubs (full nudity, not just topless) and escorts/prostitution should be legal and regulated like it is in other countries. You're never going to eliminate the demand, but you take it out of the dark alley ways and side streets. You make it safer both for the woman as well as the client.
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Its all about the money. A stripper can sniff a dollar bill from 10 miles away...lol.

A couple of the girls used to do "topless housecleaning" on the side usually to really old men.. They would make bank.

The worst of humanity Ive seen there is a group of tourests literally throwing quarter s at the poor girls.


That's understandable. I've never tried to be disrespectful to the women in a strip club. I genuinely do try to treat them as people and to treat them with respect. I always try to cut off a conversation early if it's a girl I'm absolutely not interested in, so that she's not wasting her time. I try to get to know some of the girls so they feel like I'm not just looking at them like a piece of a**. Whether they care or not, who knows, but I try to be nice to them.
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Trashy as frick, and push the girls way too far. They think for their dollar bill they can do whatever they want.

My ex GF and I had some girls who we would take to a really remote bar, where the main clientele was 60-70 year old couples. They were respectful. Old couples, and the girls made more money there than they did in town.


I can understand this. As someone who used to work in a club and knows the atmosphere, do you have any recommendations to get more attention from the women? Any recommendations on how to get any "extras"? Any recommendations on how to identify the women in the club who are open to those "extras", mostly bj's, and being more physical? Compared to the women who will try to throw you out if you even touch them once?

Any recommendations on identifying the women there who you might have a chance to get to know?
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Ok, are you trolling? Or are you the type who wouldn’t want to join any club that would have you as a member?


Not trolling. I get it's probably not going to happen, but I have too much peace in my life for the most part to settle. I don't think it's wrong to want a woman in her 20s or early even 30s. A woman who is in her prime and not a woman that's already have 40 men plow through her.

Never mind the women with kids. Good luck finding women in their mid 30s and later without kids. I'm not cleaning up another man's mess.
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Sad, desperate places.

And I used to spend a lot of time in one as a doorguy.

I learned to really loathe the clientele.


I find this interesting and appreciate your perspective. Can you elaborate what you hate about the clientele?

I get that strip clubs doesn't bring out the best in pretty much anyone. I know there's probably a higher than average amount of a*sholes. But the clientele as a whole is terrible?

What do you say about the men like me in their 40s who are just looking for companionship for awhile?
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U sound close to me baw

Just go to one of the squares in the Villages and find u a thirsty 58 year old from the 5-9 live music happy hour


Haha I'm about 45 minutes - 1 hour from the Villages. I'll be a flat out jerk here for a minute, I want a prime mid 20s woman, even if it was just for an hour or two. Not exactly interested in 50s and 60s women who are past their expiration date.
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My honest thought is that $150-$200 will be about 45 min of fun you’d regret. It’s a $500 minimum, and must include a bj to be considered a success


Why do you think it would be 45 minutes of fun I would regret?

The strip club I would probably go to, they usually do specials on Friday nights of 3 dances for $60. After that, I would probably negotiate a bj to make it better.

In the past I've usually been in and out of strip clubs. I'll tip the dancers on the floor but not a lot unless I want them to know I'm interested in more and for them to come over. I agree you have to go in knowing exactly what you are wanting.
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I like to being fun women to one. As far as I go, sometimes I like to watch a game there if the women leave me alone. Booze, naked women, and the game is a decent atmosphere for me


Yeah I watched a Saints game once from a strip club, probably about 10 years ago. With that said, a little hard to concentrate on the game.
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Fun when ur in your in early 20s going out with the boys to drink.

Going by yourself, spending lots of money, or going regularly, major loser red flags.


I know, and that's what makes me a little sad about it. I'm probably one of the absolute stereotypes for a strip club regularly (though I haven't gone regularly in several years and haven't even been to one in just over a year). 41, middle aged, slightly overweight, single, lonely at times and no real genuine prospects for the most part.

I've had to essentially accept that if I want attention or sex going forward from women, I'm paying for it. At least it's an honest transaction.
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Sad when skanks won't even talk to you..


I mean there's some ugly ones I could probably get without paying, but I do have some standards.
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You could stay at home, watch porn and burn some twenties. Less chance of getting an STD.


Very true, though I think porn has somewhat caused the ED issues I've had in the last year or two. I think it screwed up my sex drive. Went to my doctor who said my testosterone was in the tank. Now I'm on Clomid 25mg every day and I do have Tadalafil as needed. Might take one of those here shortly.
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Geez dude, go get laid.


As I said earlier, that would involve more money than I want to spend. $300/hour minimum here in Orlando and who knows if they'll try to charge more with it being a busy holiday weekend.

It's been too long since I've gotten laid, but not necessary ready to spend hundreds of dollars.
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play your cards right and that’s a bbbj in the boom boom room with the right girl instead of sharing your time with two


The strip club I would probably go to, I've been several times before and had 2 girls give me bj's. With that said, no clue if any of them still work there and of course it's always hit and miss with a girl you haven't experienced before. Some are up for almost anything and others are prudes.
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Just hire an escort.


A good looking escort in Orlando is much more expensive. You're probably looking at $300/hour minimum for a good looking woman. In Orlando they like going after the higher end tourists instead of the locals.

Plus, to be brutally honest, I'm kind of working through some ED right now. Just turned 41, trying to see what will help me get it up again.

I'll admit, holidays can kind of make me feel lonely and part of me just wants that companionship.

Your Honest Thoughts On Strip Clubs

Posted by TigerSharkMan on 11/28/25 at 12:04 pm
Honestly, kind of bored today just watching football. I haven't had the urge to in awhile, but being a holiday weekend and living just outside of Orlando, kind of having the urge to drive over to Tampa tonight and go to a strip club.

And before anyone asks, I'm not married and don't have a girlfriend, so no cheating involved.

There is that impulse for me to go tonight. With that said, it's always unfortunate how quickly you spend money in a place like that. While I love it in the moment, afterwards I think sometimes you feel ripped off. I wouldn't bring much, probably $150-$200 and then be done. Probably do lap dances with 2 different girls. No more than probably 2 hours in the strip club itself.

If I go, it will be to one of the strip clubs where it's full nudity and you are allowed to touch and be physical with the girls. Not just one of the topless ones, to me those are absolutely a waste of money.

But what are your thoughts on strip clubs? Do any of you all still go? Do you go regularly, a few times a year, every few years? Not worth the price?
Nothing here. And honestly, Black Friday is a shadow of what it used to be. I honestly saw nothing in terms of good deals either this year or the last few years to be honest.
My thing with cultures is this. Have you ever noticed how other cultures never even remotely try to learn about American culture? Or how people of other ethnicities every try to learn about White culture (in this case I'm talking White American culture).

It's always our responsibility to learn about other cultures, but it's rarely done in return. In reminds me of why I roll my eyes when people say "they want to have a dialogue". A dialogue means both sides get to give their perspectives. Those people don't want a dialogue, they want to lecture.

There are some rare exceptions. For example, there is a growing culture in Japan who like line dancing and country music from here in America. But I get tired that the expectation is that White Americans have to learn about all these other cultures, but those other cultures don't have to return the favor.
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One way to try to keep them out is to levy a massive relocation tax on them if they’re from California, New York or some other real shithole that they helped destroy and from which they now try to escape.

But the dumbasses from those states would probably think that’s normal and not bat an eye.


The problem is they'll bring their wealth from selling properties in New York or California. Like you said, they wouldn't bat an eye.

It's happening here in Florida. Native Floridians are freaking out about the increase in their property taxes. I'm lucky, the townhome I own my property taxes only went up $200 this year, but I'm still paying $2,900 property taxes on a 3 bedroom/2 bathroom 1,400 square feet town home.

People coming from New York and New Jersey are laughing at it, as they're used to $8,000, $10,000, $12,000 property tax bills. So from their perspective, Florida is still cheaper and much more affordable.

It's going to get worse too, as hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers are going to flee NYC in the next few years. And they'll have the money to pay any type of relocation tax.

The other problem is that I'm sure it would be legally struck down. I'm also for a relocation tax here in Florida, but you wouldn't be able to specify "only from California or New York", it would have to be for everyone, otherwise it's probably stuck down.

And then that makes it worse. That then means people from New York or California are the only ones who move to your state. People from other southern or midwestern states don't move there because a relocation tax might impact them too much. Whereas for your average New Yorker or Californian, a relocation tax for them would be nothing. It would probably backfire big time.
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That’s bizarre to me. I get that they’re socially inept and isolated due to social media and videogames and whatever.

But the girls are total whores online. And they’re not fricking?

Or is the 25% mostly dudes who can’t get laid?


Like a lot of other economic things, it's that K curve. If you're a man in the top 10%, you've never been swimming in so much p*ssy as you are now. Men in the top 10%, you can sleep with a different woman every night if you want to. Go to any online dating site, within the first few hours you'll have 50 women messaging you.

The other 90% of men, are all but invisible to women. If you're in the 90% of men, your only legitimate options are probably the bottom 20% of women. Not surprisingly, an average 6 or 7 guy is not going to put his life savings and whatever wealth he has at risk for a 2 or 3 girl. If not that, it's some woman in her mid 30s that's going to bring along multiple kids into the relationship. The other 90% of men, they go to an online dating site, it's crickets.

For most men, it's just not worth it. The top 10% of men, unless they want kids, have no real reason to settle down, at least not in their 20s and 30s. The other 90% of men, simply are opting out of the dating market when they see what their legitimate options are. I'll be honest, I think it's more than 25% who are sexually inactive. None of my nieces, nor their friends (guy or girl) are sexually active in any way. And I'm talking about the group in their prime dating/sex phase (18 - 29). Online dating truly ruined women here in the U.S.
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East Tennessee is awesome. Like to keep it that way if we can keep all the foreigners (Yankees and people from California) out.


I hate to say but this is why I'm looking at returning to West Virginia later in life. You aren't going to keep the Yankees and West Coasters out of Tennessee and they'll change it and price a lot of the natives out. It's one of the few good things about the West Virginia stereotypes, it keeps people from moving there.

The West Virginia economy is such that I would honestly prefer southwestern Virginia or western North Carolina. I just worry about the politics long term in those states. DC, NOVA and Richmond run Virginia and southwestern Virginia and the I-81 corridor barely matters. Raleigh and Charlotte run North Carolina and western North Carolina barely matters.

NC and VA long term are going to go Democrat. With that they'll have higher taxes. TN might not go Democrat, but they already have very high sales taxes. And the Yankees and West Coasters are going to make southwestern VA, western NC and eastern TN all unaffordable in terms of buying a house or any land. My first choice would be western NC, but I'm afraid a lot of those western NC towns are going to go the way of Highlands and Cashiers, enclaves for the rich.

I'm hoping WV stays very isolated. I partially grew up in northern WV, in Fairmont. Ironically not far from where Nick Saban grew up. Northern WV is a little cold though, I'm really considering the Lewisburg/White Sulphur Springs area, Fayetteville area and Charles Town/Sheperdstown/Harper's Ferry area (basically VA without the VA politics).
This is why my plan when I'm older, probably in about 20 years (unless society just completely collapses before that), is to move back up to West Virginia.

I partially grew up in West Virginia, but like many from that part of the country, ended up leaving for a warmer climate and obviously better economic opportunities. I've lived in Florida for 18 years now and for the most part really love it. With that said, Florida is going to keep getting worse and worse in terms of population growth and traffic. In 20 years I cringe how bad it could be. Just too many people coming here that is ruining what used to be a paradise.

Part of me does miss the colder weather and the snow, but I don't want to live in snow until I am retired and no longer have to wake up at 6:00 a.m. and warm my car up for an hour and scrape ice and snow off my car. I do not miss stuff like that at all.

This needs to be done every day in the sh*thole Muslim communities. It's a spiritual war at this point. Us or them, there's no compromise.

re: Tuesday SEC Basketball

Posted by TigerSharkMan on 11/11/25 at 10:05 pm to
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yeah, lsu is all class. Pay your ex-coach, bums.


Have fun with your next bargain basement SunBelt coach. Maybe you'll get lucky and get Golesh from USF. Then again, he might be waiting for bigger jobs to open up.

Have fun watching us with Kiffin.

re: Tuesday SEC Basketball

Posted by TigerSharkMan on 11/11/25 at 9:49 pm to
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I can't bring myself to cheer for them. I hate their fans that come to our game. Literally the biggest assholes in college basketball.

Louisville isn't a whole lot better, but I can't bring myself to cheer for them either. So I'll just be indifferent. Someone has to lose at least.


Big talk from a Gator fan. One of the trashiest worst fan bases in college football. Act like you're Alabama when you've been down for 15 years. Closer tradition wise to Texas A&M or Auburn than you are to Alabama or Georgia.
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It's a pretty vivid example of how people just get excited about following hype and trends.

Many restaurants around me in Brooklyn have both a real restaurant and a food truck.

Prices for sit down service in a nice setting are usually cheaper even with tip than the same items in smaller quantities from their food trucks that you eat from plastic with plastic.

Food trucks still probably do 3x the business as the restaurants.


I feel like the food truck trend is mostly over. I used to hear about that all of the time in my community, not so much anymore. Covid really hurt food trucks and they never seemed to recover.

All the ones by me, yeah you're paying $15-$20 for a sandwich/burger/entree and $20-$25 for a meal with a small drink (and unlike restaurants, no free refills). And the "meal" is usually a pitifully small side of fries or a small big of chips with the small no refill drink.

They've kind of put themselves out of business to some extent, being the same if not slightly more expensive than an average restaurant. My community has a food truck event once a month. I used to always go. I haven't been to it in probably at least 2 years.
This is wonderful. It shows how much MGTOW and the anti-feminism movement with men is working.

If this ever became an actual thing, I would move to another country or completely go off grid and make sure women and the economy get none of my resources.

Women are the ultimate hypocrites. They blast men for "only caring about looks, not personality", when they fully judge men simply based off of their bank account. It kills women like this that men have wised up and are no longer giving women access to their money.

Women always love to talk about sex strikes. It's actually men who deserve to go on the sex strike, until divorce and child custody courts actually treat men fairly. Until women stop treating men as nothing more than an ATM, while simultaneously hating men, they shouldn't get sex.

I would love for men to take one week and do a general strike. Don't go to work, don't spend any money that's not absolutely necessary, don't participate in the economy, don't do any work at home, no sex, anything. And do it world wide in the west. Bring the west to a grinding halt for a week. It's well past time that women see how much they've taken men for granted.