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WWYD: casinos and gambling addicts

Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:08 am
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
12125 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:08 am
So, my brother lives in Houston and is married to a gambling addict. It’s never been a big deal as they’ve only made a handful of trips to Lake Charles ever. Each time tho he’ll wake up in the middle of the night and she won’t be there. He’ll walk down and see her at the blackjack table not able to call it quits. It’s akways been more of a running joke as we’re talking losing a few hundred bucks, etc and not a regular habit.

So the last couple of days her and a couple girlfriends went on a trip to Lake Charles. One has parents there. The girlfriends came back yesterday and she was not with them and had refused to leave. My brother was irate.

He drives to Lake Charles to get her only to find out she has ran up over $30,000 in debt between credit cards and house credit in 2.5 days!!!!

He tries talking to the casino ‘manager’ about recouping some of it (I chuckled) but was not successful. I’m sure that was a long drive back to Houston. Granted, they’re not poor but far from being able to throw $30K in the trash.

He’s asking family for help. WWYD?
This post was edited on 9/13/19 at 6:14 am
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:11 am to
Dummy
Posted by CatfishCoolie
Member since Jul 2019
43 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:13 am to
Better get out before she bankrupts him.
Posted by sec13rowBBseat28
St George, LA
Member since Aug 2006
15379 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:14 am to
I would completely cut off every access she has to money and demand she seek help. If that doesn't work or if she doesn't like it...I would divorce her.
Posted by fishfighter
RIP
Member since Apr 2008
40026 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:16 am to
Prays sent. I know a few people like that and it's a dam shame. He needs to get her some help ASAP.
Posted by iron banks
Destrehan
Member since Jul 2014
3749 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:20 am to
This will not end good
Posted by Coach Buzzcut
Member since Feb 2016
1361 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:21 am to
I would give her another line of credit to win it all back.

Posted by HailToTheChiz
Back in Auburn
Member since Aug 2010
48942 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:23 am to
quote:

would completely cut off every access she has to money and demand she seek help. If that doesn't work or if she doesn't like it...I would divorce her.


This is the answer
Posted by TulaneLSU
Member since Aug 2003
Member since Dec 2007
13298 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:24 am to
This is precisely the reason I have always lobbied against legalized gambling. It destroys individuals. It destroys families. It destroys communities. It destroys society as a whole.

The only ones who support legalized gambling are those who profit from it either in terms of money or power. There are others who delude themselves that gambling is opportunity. Still others, like the moronic self described “libertarians” who will foolishly argue that legalized gambling equates to freedom. Next to the degenerates who destroy their lives and their families the only others I pity as much are those who believe legalized gambling, casinos, sport betting, lottery or even bingo, helps to fund social programs like public education. Easily manipulated morons like these have the ability to vote, truly one of the weaknesses of our Republic.

She needs to be in rehab as this is an addiction. Gamblers Anonymous may help. She should have no access to money and should be kept away from those who tempt her.
Posted by lsu31always
Team 31™
Member since Jan 2008
107739 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:27 am to
Tell him to get her self-excluded.
Posted by Barrister
Member since Jul 2012
4613 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:28 am to
Buy her a copy of “Black Jack for Dummies”..... seriously though.... she needs to get in a program
Posted by rrboy
USA
Member since Jan 2005
5323 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:28 am to
quote:


I would completely cut off every access she has to money and demand she seek help. If that doesn't work or if she doesn't like it...I would divorce her.

Posted by OleVaught14
Member since Jun 2019
6873 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:34 am to
quote:

This is precisely the reason I have always lobbied against legalized gambling.


The problem is though where do you draw the line? Alcohol, shopping, food...?
This post was edited on 9/13/19 at 7:04 am
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35088 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:41 am to
Let him know she was most likely banging some dudes while on her gambling high.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97635 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:43 am to
If he doesn’t divorce her now he’s gonna regret it.


I wouldn’t help shite
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
119121 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:43 am to
Better get her help ASAP.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
32537 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:44 am to
quote:

I would completely cut off every access she has to money and demand she seek help. If that doesn't work or if she doesn't like it...I would divorce her.


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Posted by YouAre8Up
in a house
Member since Mar 2011
12792 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:46 am to
Divorce and cut his loss now.
Posted by crazycubes
Member since Jan 2016
5256 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:46 am to
if your brother KNEW his wife had a gambling problem, why in God's green earth did she have access to credit and debit cards! Your brother should give his wife like 20$ CASH a day and make that her allowance.

Also, he needs to get his wife on the Gambling Addiction List. If so, it becomes illegal for her to win or lose at a casino. And, she would be charged with trespassing if she entered a casino. She could lose a fortune, go get her money back, then be sent to jail.
This post was edited on 9/13/19 at 6:48 am
Posted by BamaSaint
Mobile, Al
Member since Mar 2013
2964 posts
Posted on 9/13/19 at 6:47 am to
quote:

This is precisely the reason I have always lobbied against legalized gambling. It destroys individuals

What other measures do you support to tell people how to live their lives? Alcohol? Smoking? Fast food? Please tell me what else I should stop doing to gain your approval
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