re: Woman makes a video not understanding why her husband fell out of love

The guy should make a video not understanding why he ever fell in love with her in the first place.

I doubt it was even her weight.

I’m betting it was the butch/lezbo hair and her leftist nonsense.

I’d also leave my wife if she went off that deep end. But she won’t because I did my research before getting married. Catholic women FTW. Only thing they want is more kids.

"Literally leaned away in pictures"

Narrator voice: He was not leaning away in the picture.

People in relationships tend to gain weight, shite happens, just can't go overboard. If I had to guess, based on the haircut and hair color, she turned into a raging political type. It is one thing to marry someone knowing they are a raging political type (in either direction), but lately it's turned into people's religion.

When it comes to American white women you have to set the boundaries early on. They aren't like Asian or Spanish women that have maintained those values. Aging will always happen but like you said don't go overboard. I am currently still in my Spanish phase and don't see leaving it for awhile

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She cut him off is always the answer.

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Yet they never seem to "get it".

Men are simple. Keep our stomachs full and our balls empty and don't talk too much. That's really all it takes.

Trump killed her and Twitter radicalized her. Go enjoy life newly single baw

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In fairness, if you’re “in love” with someone, there has to be more to make you “fall out of love” than her looks. I’d blame her attitude more than her getting fat.

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There's a lot of nuance to this particular conversation. In sickness and in health means something and we shouldn't just abandon our marriages at the first sign of trouble. I do, however, think that physical attraction matters in a marriage as does sex and intimacy and I don't think it makes someone "shallow" to want their spouse to take care of themselves. If your spouse has a health condition that causes weight gain that they're working through, work with them. If it's a situation where your spouse just no longer gives a crap about their appearance and morphs into a completely different personality, I could see how that would greatly strain a marriage. I'm not saying it's a divorce get out of jail free card, but it's extremely selfish to let yourself go in a marriage and expect your spouse to just be cool with it.

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I doubt it was even her weight.

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My wife gained some weight after our kids and it stayed for about 10 years. It never bothered me and in fact I enjoyed the fat arse and tits.

She’s now back to same weight as when we met 25 years ago and she’s sexy here too.

I don’t think most men really care that much although women like to think we do so they can carry a chip on their shoulder. All I’ve ever cared about was that she was attracted to me and wanted me.

That last photo makes this seem fake, funny but fake just to get clicks and money.

If this is real, and that’s a big IF, this is why you better fall in love with someone for more then how they look

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think sex is a thermometer for relationships. I don't think it "fixes" a marriage so to speak but most of the time, when the sex is good and frequent, it's an indication of an already healthy marriage. People who take care of themselves and make each other feel seen and understood tend to want to bang more so it makes sense if you think about it.

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I see where you are coming from. I agree you can’t take a bad relationship and just expect sex to replace mutual respect and basic kindness. But I think for most sex is like shaking an emotional etch-a-sketch. When you feel connected, loved and appreciated then life if more manageable and you project onto your spouse an enormous sense of gratitude.