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re: Virginia father commits suicide after toddler son's death from being left in hot car
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:23 pm to Caraway Rye
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:23 pm to Caraway Rye
quote:It's curious that you seem to believe the father did this intentionally. None of us is infallible.
I dont leave kids in cars to die
quote:Of that I have no doubt. Arrogance is a common trait among sociopaths.
Im firmly confident in my opinion
quote:Your indignation strikes me as shallow and ingenuine. It's callous. It's performative. You lack empathy, and you lack the capacity for forgiveness. I'd suggest you seek psychiatric help, but unfortunately your affliction is incurable.
He saved the taxpayers a fortune by doing the right thing
This post was edited on 6/30/22 at 5:28 pm
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:31 pm to Caraway Rye
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Saved the courts some time and the taxpayers housing him for life in prison
Opinions like this and the vitriol that would follow from media cunts like Nancy grace are likely the reason this dude killed himself.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:43 pm to Areddishfish
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now don't know how that possibly happens. The kid should be the first thing removed from the ca
I see you got a bunch of downvotes, but I agree. Only a retard or super self involved person could forget something like thar
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:46 pm to HarveyBanger
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Suicide is never the answer,
Are we sure about that when it comes to the Uvalde police?
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:46 pm to jchamil
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Having another child still alive would be the only thing that kept me from suicide most likely.
Same for me. I didn't read the article yet, but I hope he and his wife have another child besides his toddler. I can't imagine how she is getting through without them.
One of the comments in the article:
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So unimaginably sad. I fully understand his immense grief. Please get the word out: There are several very effective units available to stop this from happening. One of them alerts you every time you leave the vehicle and asks if your child is with you. The other sounds an alarm when the vehicle is turned off and there is still pressure on the child seat. There are others just as effective. If I had a young child, I would have all of them. Please tell others and maybe even buy one as present for those you know with infants.
This post was edited on 6/30/22 at 5:59 pm
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:47 pm to tigafan4life
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I have told people put a fricking sticky note on your wheel that says GET CHILD. Anything to not make that deadly mistake.
I've heard a few tricks like that as well. Leaving your phone in the seat next to them.. or leaving the car keys if you have push start.. etc.
The poster below you with the shoe idea - that's a good one.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:48 pm to Caraway Rye
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Caraway Rye
You're a borderline sociopath.
This post was edited on 6/30/22 at 6:03 pm
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:49 pm to HarveyBanger
Terrible and tragic situation all the way around.
Prayers for the mom.
Prayers for the mom.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 5:56 pm to Vamos Brandonos
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At least he didn't live a miserable life for the rest of his days.
Technically he did.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 6:53 pm to HarveyBanger
Suicide carried off many. Drink and the devil took care of the rest. -Robert Louis Stevenson
Posted on 6/30/22 at 7:05 pm to HarveyBanger
That is awful. Prayers for the rest of the family.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 8:35 pm to WDE24
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This is exactly how it happens. We often go on autopilot based on our routine. These situations seem to almost always happen when the parent who isn’t in the routine of taking the child to daycare has that responsibility on the tragic day. They go on auto pilot and miss the trip to the daycare.
Exactly. A creepy pasta story was posted on TD several years ago that illustrated this very point. It’s called “Autopilot.” The fact that this dad was so distraught that he killed himself tells me that what happened in his situation is probably very close to what happened in the story.
Autopilot
This post was edited on 6/30/22 at 8:37 pm
Posted on 6/30/22 at 9:38 pm to HarveyBanger
I know someone who ran over their kid on accident. Backed up over him in a truck. He has like 7 other kids and I guess he lost track of that one on a family trip. Was such an awful story.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 10:13 pm to bbarras85
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But the few days ever that my wife dropped them off before work, she didn't forget them in the back seat.......
Over 3.6 million babies are born in the US every year. If there’s a 0.001% chance that one of those babies’ parents will at some point during their infancy make the mistake of forgetting they are in the back seat, that’s ~36 deaths a year. Which is close to the actual number.
It’s not common, but it is tragic. You can feel empathy for those parents without absolving them of guilt.
Posted on 6/30/22 at 10:36 pm to Vamos Brandonos
I think he did the right thing
Posted on 6/30/22 at 10:39 pm to HarveyBanger
Look, I am not perfect by any means, people make mistakes, but I will never understand how a parent forgets a child in the car.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 1:35 am to HarveyBanger
In Italy happens as well...
Posted on 7/1/22 at 5:58 am to HarveyBanger
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Suicide is never the answer,
I mean, I couldn't come back from that personally.
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i know someone who ran over their kid on accident. Backed up over him in a truck.
I do too. The kid lived though.
This post was edited on 7/1/22 at 6:00 am
Posted on 7/1/22 at 6:16 am to bbarras85
My wife and I don't really have many situations where this is likely (we don't do daycare), but we've nonetheless started putting our bag/purse in the back every day so we have to open the back to get it out at work.
Posted on 7/1/22 at 7:29 am to deeprig9
quote:It sounds like you need to. Check to see if they had evidence the dad left the child in the car intentionally?
Read up on the home depot dad case in Georgia from a few years ago. Talk to you later.
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