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This is the hardest thing I have ever been through.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:43 pm
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:43 pm
I find it comforting to keep everyone posted on what’s going on. Since my wife passed away in June it has been very difficult. Today has been the most emotional I have been since it happened. We are packing up the house and tonight is our last night here. Been going through her things and finding old pictures of us when we first met. We looked like kids, we were so young and full of life. Over 18 years went by in the blink of an eye. I found notes we wrote to each other, her wedding dress. Just so many memories of the kids when they were little. I lost it earlier today while taking down our bed and my son said Dad everything is going to be ok. I am blessed to have many people that care about us in my life but damn this is so hard and I wouldn’t wish this pain on my worst enemy. I forgot to add since she passed away the bedroom lamp has been on. I didn’t want her to be in the dark. Tomorrow night the room will be dark…and that hurts a lot.
This post was edited on 8/12/22 at 4:49 pm
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Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:44 pm to Hoova1202004
Sending you all my prayers and love.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:45 pm to Hoova1202004
I am so sorry for your loss. Seriously.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:45 pm to Hoova1202004
Praying for you & your kids
Don’t feel bad leaning on others & accepting help
God Bless
Don’t feel bad leaning on others & accepting help
God Bless
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:45 pm to Hoova1202004
sending love your way
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:46 pm to Hoova1202004
I can't even imagine.
Sending good thoughts your way.
Sending good thoughts your way.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:46 pm to Hoova1202004
Bless you man. Take help when you need it. Remember that accepting help is just refusing to give up and in no way a sign of weakness. Praying for you and your family.
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Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:47 pm to Hoova1202004
I've been married for 18 years, so this hits extra hard.
So sorry you're going through all this.
Don't know how to alleviate your pain, but I sure wish I did.
So sorry you're going through all this.
Don't know how to alleviate your pain, but I sure wish I did.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:48 pm to Hoova1202004
My heart breaks for you man. E-hugs.
I don’t have any words. Soldier on. Your kids need you
I don’t have any words. Soldier on. Your kids need you
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:49 pm to Hoova1202004
The OT loves ya, baw. You can always come here for support.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:51 pm to Hoova1202004
Hang in there brother. Take it day by day and hold onto those awesome memories.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:51 pm to Hoova1202004
I know it must be harder than I can possibly imagine. Try and stay strong for your kids, but it's okay if you break down. Take care and be well.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:52 pm to Hoova1202004
Praying for you baw. My mom died 5 years ago and my dad has had a difficult time. God and family will help you through. Hang in there.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:52 pm to Hoova1202004
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I forgot to add since she passed away the bedroom lamp has been on. I didn’t want her to be in the dark. Tomorrow night the room will be dark…and that hurts a lot.
Damn bro. It got really dusty in my office just now......
I cared for my dad in the last 6 months of his live as he struggled with congestive heart failure. Long story short, out of all the family including a stepmom, I ended up with him every day until the end. That was over 6 years ago and I've never been back in that house and never will. I don't want to remember my dad that way. Moving on was the right thing to do for me. I'm sure it will be for you too.
God Bless you and your family.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:54 pm to Hoova1202004
I hope you find peace in the coming days.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:54 pm to Hoova1202004
So sorry for your loss
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:55 pm to Hoova1202004
God bless you and your kids on your move and beginning a new chapter in your life.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:56 pm to Hoova1202004
Why is everyone cutting onions in this house right now?
The pain will eventually dull. Lean into your family and their support, it sounds like you have a good one.
The pain will eventually dull. Lean into your family and their support, it sounds like you have a good one.
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:57 pm to Hoova1202004
Stay Strong
Posted on 8/12/22 at 4:58 pm to fr33manator
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Your kids need you
This.
None of this works without you. Be there for each other. All of this is easy for me to spew. I have no idea what I would do.
Make time for yourself in all of this. So sorry.
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